girl at work, really wierd!

[Deadly_Assassin]

I work at one of the retail stores at the Airport. There is this shop opposite to me and this girl works there. I have seen her checking me out numerous times. I didnt really care at first. Slowly I started talking to her and just saying hi and stuff. Just last week I started teasing her to do some work whenever she would just stand there in front of her shop. She would just smile and laugh at me cos I was always doing no work. Well last saturday night I had a good conversation with her just about general stuff. She kept joking around how I am always hitting on chicks and ask me who I found hot around the airport and stuff. She would ask me if I was into white chicks or asians or Indians... I would never give her a straight answer.

Anyway the next day one of the guys from the outside wanted to bring a parcel in for us. I couldnt come out cos I was busy. The guy got the chick who was outside at that time to bring the parcel in. She brought the parcel in to me and said :

"You guys shd bring your own stuff",


I replied :

"Yea we should" in a sarcastic manner.


Later on, I went into her store and said :

" Hey thanx for bringing in that parcel for us, I couldnt bring it cos I was kinda busy".


She replied:

"Thats no worries"


I had just started to walk away from her when she said:

"You should give me your number then"


I was like "what?" and I kinda kept on walking


She then said "seriously".


I turned around said, "I will give it to you later" and went about my way.


Later on that night it was really quiet and all the staff were just chatting to each other and I kinda ended up keeping my distance because I didnt wanna appear desperate. She started to talk to my mate more and more. I didnt give into it. A while later she went into his store and started talking to him but she would keep checking me out from time to time. I didnt care much.


My mate closed early that night. I then closed up a while later and just as I started to walk off she started walking out of her store as well. She was in front of me so I said :

"You not closing up early tonight?"


She replied:

"Nope"


I waited and she kept walking in front of me so I said:

"You just gonna let me walk by myself?"


She didnt say anything but slowed down a little and was walking with me. We just chatted for a while and kept on walking. Right when we were outside I said:

"So you still want my number?"


She laughed. So I said:

"well if you are not gonna give me yours, can I have yours instead?"


She gave me her number and said:

"give me a cal sumtime"


I said yea and told her her hair looked nice. She said thanx.


This was last sunday, so fast forward to today.

MY text: hey its Deadly here, you working tonight?
Her: nope, my last day off, whats up?
Me: nothing, just wanted to know if you working, I am jst about to start what you upto?
Her:nothing
Me: haha, nothing, ok
Me:you seem really quiet, u pissed off at sumthing?
her:no not pissed at all, just busy sorri

After work I texted her
Me: you still busy?
her: Yea, I am about to go to sleep, early start tomorrow, and I am just kinda chilling with my bf right now. sorri
Me: sweet az, c you around, say hi to ur bf for me.

What the fvck is up with this chick?

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin

What the fvck is up with this chick?

Nothing.

She flirted, she tested the waters, she took you for a tiny test run to gauge your performance and by the looks of things she was looking for something with a little more grunt.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

wat do u mean? where did I go wrong? I texted too early?

Well at the moment I am not seeing this as a rejection yet but more of a test on how I would act to the situation.

 

[( . )( . )]

Looks like it pretty much turned to sh!t not long after she said:

"You should give me your number then"


*Gay small talk
*Useless texts
*Her balls were left unbusted
*Where was the kino?
*The "nice hair" comment *yawn*
*What was that acting surprised or whatever it was crap when she asked for your number? You and the b!tch both knew what was up.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

yea you are right with the small talk and nice hair comment. But how do u think I should have busted her ? I mean there wasnt much chance for kino unless I had actually sparked an interesting conversation.

 

[bbestar]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Looks like it pretty much turned to sh!t not long after she said:

"You should give me your number then"


*Gay small talk
*Useless texts
*Her balls were left unbusted
*Where was the kino?
*The "nice hair" comment *yawn*
*What was that acting surprised or whatever it was crap when she asked for your number? You and the b!tch both knew what was up.

interesting, interesting... go on :yes:

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

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I wanna know your opinions DJs

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
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I wanna know your opinions DJs

All your interactions were boring and mundane with absolutely no substance and were painful to read.

You: something dumb about work
Her: yup.

zzz.

I do like how you didn't immediately be like OKAY HERE'S MY NUMBER when she asked. Although you coulda went about busting her balls more about the fact that she asked you.

 

[Evangenlion]

i can't believe u messed up so bad man. i started reading this and i thought "this guy is getting somewhere". then boom, baam, you AFC'd up.

she asks for your number and u say "laters". i thought the whole point was to give your number away to every dam fine looking beatch out there?

she was never testing u. she wanted a good shaggin, a really good one and from the way u behav'd about the number thing, she knew you can't screw a light bulb.

worst about failing with chicks that are in your workspace, they never go away, they are always there.

you need to make some serious damage control, or your work life will look like your shaggin.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

you guys keep saying I should have busted her balls, I wanna know what I shd have said from you guys

 

[Blackdragon5095]

You should have made her wait. Before texting her. Like 5 days or so. Thats because women are used to giving their phone number out and guys calling them up and saying I like you and blah blah blah. Which makes them lose interest.
I agree you should have used kino. ( feel her hair, put ur hand on her shoulder, poke her. etc.. )
But I should warn you man. She has a b/f and I say you should next this girl unless your looking for a new friend. She could be a female player or even worst attention wh0re. She good pratice tho.

When she asked for your number you should have gave it to her or bust on her like this

You: Here my number
Her: Thanks ( she looks at it and sees the number is 911 )
Her: I know this isn't your real number ( she laughs )
You:Oh ok you caugh me here ( give your real number )

Or


You: Sure if you pay me $10.00
Her: I don't have $10.00
You: Then your out of luck bye
THen you turn around and give your phone number to her

It's much better to have a women call you cause it's easier to test her if she interested or not.

For the commenting.

Throw it into the trash can. I never apporach women by commenting anymore. If you do comment then comment her on her confidnce or if she says she got a new car then check out the car then say nice car. Other then that I would throw commenting out the picture. Women are comment so much they even have a pick up line for that comment.

The best thing is that you learned something so good luck.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

oh yep i see where you guys are coming from. I think I have found my problem. I can get the interest going in a chick but as soon as I know shes interested I become all AFC.

With the giving the number thing, I though it was the guys job to ask for the number so we have the power whether to call or not.

 

[Tkman]

The conversation was zzzzzz ... always add some excitment in the convo. If I am interested in chick ... I always try to bring the subject of sex and adventure.


LIE IF YOU HAVE TOO !

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

fvck man i messed right from the start pretty much. haha. Keep your opinions coming cos I am learning. I might go change my name and get rid of that senior DJ under it too.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
fvck man i messed right from the start pretty much. haha. Keep your opinions coming cos I am learning. I might go change my name and get rid of that senior DJ under it too.

So what man you messed up with 1 girl or 500 ... whos gives a ****.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

because I give a sh!t. because end of the day its me that has to learn and change. Yes it doesnt matter if its messing up with 1 or 500 but that 500 will become 500,000 if I dont change.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

" if you don't first succed, try try again "

Deadly I have the right mind frame. Also women like men who are challenging ( hard to get ).

You was doing good at first. If I was rich l'll give a guy a dollar just for apporaching a girl.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

the asian chick has started texting me now asking how I was doing and when I was working, ahahahahahahahaahahahahah I am must have done sumthing right. hahahhhahhahhaa fvking *****

 

[Tazman]

It could even be that she felt rejected when you passed on the phone number when she asked you. Some girls seem to take things like that very hard. She tried to make you jealous by talking to your friend and that didn't seem to work, so when you called her she blows you off and then says "I'm chillin with my bf."

I remember some girls actually being upset with me because I gave them nice EC and didn't follow up by asking them out. I mean they literally hated me for it, atleast that's what it seemed like. One minute they're all smiles and saying hello, next they won't even look at me.....weird stuff.

 

[TesuqueRed]

she made a move

you got: green light! green light! green light!

you gave: yellow light! yellow light! yellow light!

meaning you kept playing cool when you needed to make a move. I make that mistake a lot, so I know whereof I speak

this is read as rejection, so she has to pull back, cover herself, save her pride, appearances, etc.

she's not fvcked up or weird, you just blew your timing on this.

imo she did everything according to script as you will see a few years from now

and if it's a case of "I didn't really care about her" then why post about her unless she counts?

imho I think you've blown a chance and chasing her to make it up will confirm all that (i.e., you won't get her and it'll prove to everyone you've blown it) I'm not sure how you recover from this, I haven't figured out how to recover my own fvck-ups like this except to make a move earlier next time

it's a test, really: if you're really interested you'll make a move, and if you're not, or you're not ready for prime time, you won't. you can't really game that because it's largely true. women use it on men, men use it on women. it works.

you did blow it, though, regardless of whether you wanted her or not. if you wanted her you missed it and if you don't want her you could have sent signals you're taken or something and not played her

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for what it's worth

"give me your number" you flip it and say "hell no! I don't need a stalker! give me yours, though (wink) and we'll get this right..."

i dunno, maybe that's lame, or maybe it works on how you say it, but that was the time to move

the "bf" may or may not exist. he's a very good cover now to show she's in demand, can catch a guy, doesn't need you, etc.