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    Nice car owners: a question...

    man, you can tell we're at different ends of the age ladder. a 19 yr old getting a car like that as a pvssy strategy. think about that. take your monthy payment, insurance, gas and divide by the number of chicks you nail in a month. that's your pvssy cost. i'd say get a decent enough...
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    Flirting with everyone except you.

    ummm....i sorta got what happened here, but the mother part is indecipherable... is she interested by flirting with everyone but you? sure, whatever. you're getting a pretty good read know what you want. she either meets your requirements for that or she doesn't. you want fresh meat...
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    Were His actions Innocent?

    pay attention to the BL, ignore the verbal why are you hung up on the verbal? drop it already, you already know enough based on the BL they don't have to match. if they do, fine. if they don't, go with the BL. general piece of advice: turn the sound off, look at the actions -- that...
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    "I sort of have a boyfriend" need advice ASAP please

    don't make her explain what she means by "sort of..." that gets you nowhere and just digs the hole deeper. the compliments were a mistake as noted above -- killed all the tension and means she doesn't get a chance to attract you. compliments = she got to you, means she won, game over, and...
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    What does one do...disrespected

    i'm w/djf on this -- he's saying you take lead of your own time, in effect they'd lead you around with the txt msging the same way a woman would - note that which is why you LIMIT your use of it. too much access makes you too easy to women, to your guys, to everyone. i get the sense...
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    keeping cool vs getting angry

    play it cool. play it cool even if angry - playing it cool doesn't mean you have to hide that you're angry, just keep it cool those that get angry and blow are generally seen as lower down the ladder (lack of self-control, can't handle shyt, etc. - is what it says to others) unless you're...
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    Were His actions Innocent?

    hey babe, as pointed out above, he's not a total dj (you'd be asking, "should I sleep with him again?" if he was...) he does have some instinct for it half-@ssed instinct - he's still at the trial and error stage and made a number of basic blunders. i'd say overall he was too timid or...
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    Alcohol! [What kind and how much]

    depends on age you want to go a little ahead of where she's at since it suggests a bit of sophistication and is a turn on. BOYS, (that includes college dudes) drink beer and your common cheap hard liquor, like JD, tequila etc (disclosure: I love expensive tequilas, cognacs and canadian and...
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    What Do Shy Woman Do?

    thought I was in some type of space-warp reading that first post with all the double pronoun pairings in there dude - slow down and read what you write before posting. It doesn't have to be what your highschool english teacher wants, but get it reasonably readable anyway - you already...
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    penkitten didn't bother explaining everything that lead to her conclusion (which I think is correct). I think she made a quick, intuitive assessment and came to that conclusion, but I would be interested to see how she breaks it down and gets there -- that can be very instructive, especially if...
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    Harry Potter and the Cheated Readers

    Seriously, though, I'll admit to being a fan of both. But those writers turn people off from reading? I hardly think so. More likely it's they never had much capacity for reading or intellectual pursuits to begin with. Or they did have capacity and intellectual pursuits elsewhere but didn't...
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    to the druggies out there...

    LOL - funny that - reminds me of a guy i knew 15-20 years ago who broke his coke habit by sky-diving. a dive would keep him juiced for days, and after that if he felt the need he'd book another flight no clue how many jumps that took
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    Turning ones social life around

    Get over the disappointment of others never really getting to "know" you. It won't ever happen. And the flip side is true: you won't ever get to "know" those around you, either. No one can crawl into another's head, so (forgot who said it) from the day you're born to the day you die, you...
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    WTF Happened? Any thoughts?

    At one level, you now know all you need to know (and next is the operative word.) Chances are you'll never find out, even if you wait 2 years and then ask her directly. You may piece it together if you see what she does over the next few months (hooks up with a new guy, for example), but...
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    LOL got ripped pretty good

    Sounds like she's testing him. Responding with "...don't flatter yourself" sounds kinda pissy (and fails her test), but maybe it's all in how the line is delivered and I'm not hearing it right. I think it works great if you do it in a smart-@ss way, which also shows you're not concerned by her...
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    "what are you doin tonight?"

    dating at work is fine and you think everything is ok until it goes sour, and then it's pure hell. after that, you are like twice burned and will won't make that mistake again anyway, guy, invite her along to something you're doing on a weekday night first, not a weekend. see how things...
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    50 yo guy and 26 yo girl ?

    ha - do a search on don steele or at steelballs.com. he does the how to date young women thing and sizes these things up pretty good. you'd be the possible "jimmy" in this equation. love him or hate him, it's an engaging read
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    Picture of her EX. What would you do?

    how is it "he is no chump" when I could quote 3-4 paragraphs here where you demonstrate that he is? -- calling the friend sitting next to her and telling him to put her on the phone, trying to grab her hand when walking past, etc. it may not put the nail in the coffin with her (esp since...
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