LOL got ripped pretty good

[Cougar10033]

Been talking with a girl that works at a local law office. Picking up on signals that shes interested, always checking me out smiling. Well today i ran into her and said hey were gonna grab a bite to eat this thursday i will meet you at the resteraunt. SHe looks at me smiles and said well maybe im busy... so i said ok whatever and started to walk away , she said hey i dont think i could be with a guy like you.. i asked her why and she pretty much called me ****y and said im too into myself, she also said she didnt want to always have to compete with other girls... So i smiled and said hey im leaving now you have anything else you would like to add... she said no and i walked away... Wth was with that response ???

 

[backbreaker]

"I didn't ask you if you wanted to be with me, I told you to met me at the restruant... don't flatter yourself"

 

[DinoCassanova]

backbreaker's response sounds cool. Cougar sounds like you handled it very smoothly. I don't know, though, it just seems like some women won't play along w/it. You said she's in a law office?? Maybe one of those Sex & the City-watching, nose too high in the air, ultra-"professional women", the kind who have to prove something to men in the business world, like the kind you see on the show The Apprentice you know?? I don't like women like that. Frankly I'd like to backhand one of those, but I never actually would of course. I'd probably just get pissed at a girl like that and say "Fine f**k you then, b**ch", but I'm well aware that's not solid game, it's just my own hot temper. I'll be interested to see how some of the others respond to your situation. ~Dino

 

[In2theGame]

"Been talking with a girl that works at a local law office. Picking up on signals that shes interested, always checking me out smiling. Well today i ran into her and said hey were gonna grab a bite to eat this thursday i will meet you at the resteraunt. SHe looks at me smiles and said well maybe im busy... so i said ok whatever and started to walk away , she said hey i dont think i could be with a guy like you.. i asked her why and she pretty much called me ****y and said im too into myself, she also said she didnt want to always have to compete with other girls... So i smiled and said hey im leaving now you have anything else you would like to add... she said no and i walked away... Wth was with that response ???"

When she said, that your ****y and into myself... Plus saying She didnt want to compete with other girls....

You should have said.... " Im not into myself.. I carry myself well and im confident in myself, Hun, You dont know that much about me to know how i am *smile* Dont worry about competing though... im not interested in a competion, im Interested in you"....

 

[Hamno]

Originally posted by DinoCassanova
I don't like women like that. Frankly I'd like to backhand one of those, but I never actually would of course. I'd probably just get pissed at a girl like that and say "Fine f**k you then, b**ch"

Dino, If you truly do feel this way I can only hope i'm there the day you chose to use violence against women. I fear I will not however, and it'll be some girl with a black eye who pays the price instead of you. You'v got some emotions you need to deal with before you will ever be comfortable with women. (please dont start with the whole 'i could kick you ass' routine, it gets boring)

As for the girl, personally I like her...She must have at least some education, and seems secure enough to be able to say no...plus she does seem to have some ability to see right through the DJ routine.

Sounds like the type of woman I would actually like to know.

Hamno

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by backbreaker
"I didn't ask you if you wanted to be with me, I told you to met me at the restruant... don't flatter yourself"

amen..

i think she was giving him the chance, it was a typical ASD (anti-slut defense) statement.. she was giving him a chance to justify himself... and he didn't

 

[DinoCassanova]

Dino, If you truly do feel this way I can only hope i'm there the day you chose to use violence against women. I fear I will not however

>> You're right you probably won't be there. So don't fret none about it. And no I wouldn't "kick your ass", etc, you're right that whole routine is boring. I wouldn't even hit you w/my fist in fact, just pull out the old pimp-stick on you beyotch.

 

[everywomanshero]

bottom line

Hitting her won't likely achieve the desired goal of getting into her pants. My question is this: Why didn't you try to build something of value with her right then and there?

If you insisted on asking her out for dinner, I would've laughed when she said that. "O ya, well I AM in high demand, but ...." For the .... use whatever fits your personality. By running away, you failed her test. By getting rude, you would've failed her test. By being funny+persistent+impervious to her attempts to test you, you pass her test.

 

[DinoCassanova]

Hitting her won't likely achieve the desired goal of getting into her pants.

>>> lol......that sounds funny the kind of "deadpan" way you just typed that there. Obviously you're right. Well, it only works on those extreme LSEB's (Low Self Esteem Broads), like the occasional screwed-up stripper or what-have-you. But some of them ARE hot. But yeah you're right, either approach there is wrong. The walking away thing, AND my tendency to lose my temper w/them, definitely wrong. There's got to be smoother ways to handle situations like that, and thereby attain the interest of a high-class ho-rizontal refreshment. ~D

 

[( . )( . )]

I'm with Dino, looks like the cvnts got an agenda, probably had her fill of azzholes and is after a supplicant for a change of pace.

How about:

"SHe looks at me smiles and said well maybe im busy"

"Stop pretending youve got anything better to do than be next to me"

and

"she said hey i dont think i could be with a guy like you"

"Yeah your probably right, you dont look like the type that cooks and cleans that much"



To be honest though I probably would only be quick enough to think of the first one on the spot.... damn booze

 

[TesuqueRed]

Sounds like she's testing him. Responding with "...don't flatter yourself" sounds kinda pissy (and fails her test), but maybe it's all in how the line is delivered and I'm not hearing it right. I think it works great if you do it in a smart-@ss way, which also shows you're not concerned by her statement either.

Give it a bit of humor and don't let it throw you. In fact, escalate whatever you were doing because it appears to be working: you got her thinking actively of being with you. You're more than she feels she wants to handle at the moment. So keep it up and make it more than she can resist.

Before jumping on "she's testing! who's she to test? fvck that!" It means she's interested. If they don't test they're not interested. Either you can handle the test or you can't. Check the agression at the door because that fails the test - they can tell if they got under your skin this way even if you don't say or act on it (I hate they can do that, but it's unavoidable).

Not sure what I would've said in the moment, probably done some version of LJBF her by telling her to come along anyway it's no big deal. You don't actually have to say LJBF, she'll tell by your tone, and that's how you flip it back by testing her! If she's got any spirit in her (and this one sounds like she does) she respond to the challenge and escalate it.

Game's on then. Enjoy it.

 

[backbreaker]

the reason I said don't flatter yourself, is not trying to be funny, but it's the dead truth... she is flattering herself because she is assuming already that you want to get in her pants like every other guy.. which might be the case, but might not.

Like I said... it's just going out to eat, If I wanted to ask you out on a date, I would ask you out on a date, this isn't a date, it's going out to eat..

Again, don't flatter yourself... I barley even know you yet and you are already talking about dating me, slow down

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
Wow, talk about a betrayal to your gender. This guy gets insulted and brutally rejected and all you can is how cool she is and how you wish you could get to know her better? This woman probably teased him with signals just so she could boost her own pathetic ego when he asked her out. If this is the type of woman you're interested in, you're in luck...the vast majority of them are either single (for good reason) or with complete douchebags who are still struggling with the concept of walking erect. They're all yours, tiger.

brutally rejected??

what are you, on crack? She was simply testing him (and all women do that, *****es or not)

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I agree with backbreaker. You're asking her for a quick meal, not to get married. Tell her so.

 

[bbestar]

My dad used to hit my mom when she misbehaved, and still does at times...

they been married for 22 years...

 

[DinoCassanova]

Well, sorry that happened / happens to your mom, bbestar. Hopefully you didn't / don't witness it very often. I don't advocate hitting women when they "misbehave". In this post here I was being....... I don't know....... "rhetorical" more than anything else. As I said in another thread, where I expounded on what I said in this post in this thread, I have only done that ONCE in my entire life, and it was HARDLY what anyone could consider a "beating". I could never, in all honesty, throw a female a beating, or hit her regularly because she "misbehaves", etc etc; that's just not me. I think if they're still married it's out of convenience , comfort, and fear of the unknown; in other words, they're probably still together out of inertia, more than anything else. It's not because women secretly like or crave getting hit regularly or beaten or anything like that. There's a lot of other ways to get into a girl's mind besides cutting into her with your hands on a regular basis. That's for messed-up guys, man. Peace. ~D

 

[Royal Elite]

No Guts No Glory!

Man likes girl, man flirts a little with girl, man wants to ask girl out, Man too scared to do it, Man leaves, man comes to forum mad because girl didn't swop places with him and do his job for him!
The End

ps. None of what was said would have matter the least bit to you if you actually 'asked her out" and she said yes!

 

[Climax]

Put them b!tches in their places!:woo:



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