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    The official feminism thread [Merged threads]

    Take what you will of Kinsey Take what you will of Freud, for that matter I have read little enough of both to wade into a discussion of either, but I suspect that they were both products of their past (read that as the normal supressions, religious indoctrination etc.) with something they...
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    What was she thinking?

    This is your job, dude. Her job is to let you know she likes what she sees. She did that. She gave you the green lights to approach. Your job is to WALK up to her and SMILE and SAY "hi". Failure to do that says to her you don't have balls enough for her or you're not interested...
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    Is it ever ok to ask why?

    Out of the good friends bin? A classic question, I never get tired of seeing that one. Anyway, it's really bad form to quote yerself, but I thought I had hinted at a recommendation here for this. Actually -- this isn't all. There are some classic threads on this but you'll have to go...
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    The official feminism thread [Merged threads]

    Re: Benefits of feminism??? [/I] Lessseeee.... What do you see as "...the damage they can cause..." ??? You'll have to explain that, I'm not even sure what you're referring to here. You're making an assumption here that I don't think many of us would agree with you on (I can just...
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    X-BF in the way

    Sorry to join in the highjacking of this thread, but what's up Wyld? Been awhile -- what've you've done in the meantime (except stir up trouble somewhere else ;) ).
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    X-BF in the way

    At first I assumed he was getting banged -- I would have advised that this is a rebound situation. Enjoy it while it lasts (that is, don't take it like a BF-GF thing, take it like a fvck-buddy thing). But he's not even getting any. Someone said it above -- you're being used to get the X...
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    Too forward - caution

    rapo player?
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    Is it ever ok to ask why?

    One of my favorite authors (steele) would ask to see where he screwed up, but he was a 40 or 50 year old man asking a 25 yr old and the chick had nothing to lose and would give a direct answer. I don't think you can get a useful answer out of her in your position--you're in her social world...
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    why is ex-gf afraid to talk to me?

    college? I can't quite believe that because the tone and juvenile play of all this strikes me as niaive (sp?) for junior high. Calling it high school is being generous. anyway, I would note how he sticks to his original question, picks out and jumps on minor assumptions we get wrong and...
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    Post a request for a "Pook" Article

    One of those small gnats that always buzzed around me but which I never asked (and I'm sure it's been asked and I missed it) -- what is the derivation of "Pook"?
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    Signs of High Interest

    Now this is an enlightening post. I'll bump it. It's been 4 years since then -- thoughts anyone? These are words of one whose been thru the dating wars.. For me, the positive signs are high-octane fueled and are, by definition, unstable. Negative signs are more relialbe as a base and as a...
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    It doesn't get more AFC than this...

    Lot of drama here - it ain't all the BF's, either. Convenient how you could help her in her business. Like, very.. She needs to get out of current situation and land--without missing a beat--with someone else. But that part is pretty transparent. She sure knows how to play, doesn't...
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    Understanding LJBF from the woman's POV

    First time I've seen this thought expressed in such manner...here's a vote for bible material. It seems obvious on the surface, but follow the thought out and you wonder why you didn't state it this way. Even if it doesn't get to the bible, elevate it somehow since it clarifies a few basics...
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    Why not say "All I Want Is Sex"?

    Heh heh heh....I went to Orlando to visit my sister and she pointed out all the Scandahoovians working at Disney. She commented that they come here and party hard (in bed and and out) before going back. People are people. That's it. Simple. Some places have stricter rules than others, but...
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    Why not say "All I Want Is Sex"?

    It's HOW you say "I just wanna have sex.." :) good luck
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    she has SEVERE bi-polar disorder. am i trapped?

    mods? either it's a sick joke or someone needs professional help
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    Regaining control in a relationship

    squirrels and jjbrain -- good replies. Mizzou -- you won't be with her in 18 months. Does it matter?
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