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There are just a few possibilities here: 1. She is seeing some other dude and staged the fight for the break up. 2. She is not seeing some other dude but she staged the fight for the break-up. 3. Chicks always take a little time after a long vacation to settle back into their normal...

I should add a ... 10. "Strike while the Iron is Hot" after you have done No. 9 right and set it up for next time properly. Freezing a girl out when she has already gotten over her ASD and is now properly primed and ready to go is the same as "getting upset" in No. 9 and screwing up the...

This is just Anti-Slut-Defence (ASD). I posted this some time ago. ------ I've thought some more about ASD and what has been successful for me in the past. I think that you need to have a "toolbox" of methods and strategies to deal with ASD. With any particular girl you may need to...

Chicks will always have a list. Most of the time they will just let little parts of it out over time, small things. A big long written-down list is another thing entirely (lol). A man should listen to her verbal "list" and be objective and if there are a few things he can improve on, he...

From mASF - FMAC - Find, Meet, Attract, Close I like to change it to Find, Meet, Attract, Isolate, Close You are leaving out the final two parts.

New Year's Eve party without the boyfriend? ie. There is no serious relationship here or it is LDR and full of problems. Just keep going with your ****y and funny self. You seem to have this down. There will not be talk of the person she is "seeing" again. She will drop him on her own...

The original title of this thread is "Regaining power in a relationship." I think it is a good example of how to lose power, then act even more AFC and lose even more power. But then, when the guy finally gets his head on straight and starts doing the right DJ thing, he regains the power...

Try a little experiment the next time you are sick or something didn't quite go as planned. If a chick asks you about it (any woman, your mother, a colleague, a friend even) just say "Ahhh, it's nothing, I can handle anything." You might think they will laugh at you for being so...

Good post. I always ask a new girl about her past boyfriends. This is actually the best way to learn what character the girl really has. Some of it will just be made-up drama, but if she goes on and on about ... ... how this ex stalked her for months after they broke up, how this ex...

Another part of this which us guys don't understand very well, is that chicks hate it when a guy complains about being sick. Real men don't get sick, they certainly don't complain about it and they don't leave an outing because they are not feeling well (at least they don't advertise this is...

Time to admit you are still hot for her. Next admission is, is there any chance in hell, it will work out between you if you let her move in. Cut to the chase.

Never listen to what a girl says. Only listen to what she actually does. This "go out as friends only" means absolutely nothing unless she really "does" only go out with you as friends. Ask her out on a date for just the two of you. See what she does. Go out with her and her friends...

It is important to post follow-up this-is-what-finally-happened posts. The board cannot really help anyone if we don't know what finally happened in the end. Thanks. And I have to say, crazy chick and crazy story.

Sometimes a man has to cut his losses. Sometimes a man has to cut his losses, because of all the sh1t that happened before that is now "unrecoverable" from. This is one of those. Now that he understands the DJ principles, he won't make the same mistakes with the next HB 8.0 Jen...

Okay, casual is what you want. First, you can't set a rule that a chick has to do you only and not other guys if you want it to keep it as just casual. You can lie to her about the seriousness of the relationship if you want (and keep her faithful) but that is not really ethical. (Doesn't...

Drunk texts, drunk phone calls are always trouble. But you actually like this girl. No sense pretending that you don't now. She blocked you from myspace before your had a chance to explain so you got her answer. But did you really? You like her. Some wierd drunk sh1t happened...

It seems like you want to take this to another level with this girl. I don't see many red flags that a typical 9.0 would give out in this situation. (if there are more, you should post about it now.) It seems like she might want to take it to another level as well. So take it to the next...

You must establish boundaries for your girl. The boundaries you establish have to reasonable and they have to be things that are important enough to you to set them in the first place. You have to tell your girl what these rules are and what the consequences are for breaking these...

I don't understand the part after ... - she got you to come to her apartment in the middle of the day; - she got you into her bed; - she got you to take your shirt off; - she gave you a back massage; - she started touching you around the crotch area; - she licked your belly; - she...

Do you have a right to know if you are being cheated on? - Of course you do. Should you snoop if you suspect something? - Yes, if that is your only way of finding out for sure. Is it unethical to snoop? - You have every right to know for sure if you are being cheated on or not. -...