Alright all you DJ's I got a situation that has hit a point where I need some advise and perspective.
Situation:
I work with this HB9+ who was living with her boyfriend for a year. We work together and I noticed her strong sexual vibe. About 4 months ago, I eye f'd here and she noticed - she loved it, I could tell and we stared at each other.
Next thing you know she emailed me for my instant chat info - gave it to her and started chatting at work. I’m just got divorced, she is living with homie. We decide to hang out (this started 5 months ago), first time hanging we make out I lick boobs, get her hot. We keep seeing each other in secret until we end up banging each other. This took about a month. So she basically cheated on her man with me, she tells me she hates him, he is lazy, not motivated, does to much drugs (weed), and that she is attracted to my level of power at work (management), my motivation, confidence, etc. She breaks up with him and kicks him out. She is intelligent, can be cunning, knows what powers she possesses as an intelligent HB9+.
We make it clear that we are not boyfriend/girlfriend...that we are basically "lovers" more then just F'ing buddies.
Now after I have been banging her for like 2 months she tells me and shows that she loves my c--k and love making skillz (of which I am very confident in), come to find out she is a damn freak and a nymph. We are hooking up all the time now. Everything is good.
3 months in, her girlfriends want her to go out to clubs, hangout etc. I finally meet her best girlfriend, who I flirt with and she flirts back. I see that she got jealous so when I talk to her she tells me that her girlfriend thought I was "like an ex of hers she doesnt like, that I am fake or fronting, etc" But I picked up on sexual vibes from her friend and the jealousy from her. So, now she is going out more and we start seeing each other less, she starts talking about "going out on dates - getting to know other people", etc. I am like do "whatever" you want. I laying back in the cut and when you want to f', let me know. She doesn’t really go out and we get hot again for like 2 weeks.
3.5 months in, she is talks about dating again and she knows I can date when I want so she says "maybe we shouldn’t tell each other when we go on dates or what we did...but if you have sex with anyone else we need to tell each" this is cause we are hitting skins. So Im like cool.
Some crazy shiz happens like 3 weeks ago where this crazy chick my friend bring over basically wanted me to f' her and would not stop..I finally did it to shut her up (was not all that and bad decision), cause we started with a condom but it busted and we kept going. So being a guy with integrity, I tell her. She is not happy but she understands when a horny beeotch won’t stop and dude just has to hit it. She does tell me she is upset and jealous and that she has not done that to me. I tell her she needs to tell me. She says of course.
Currently, since that time (3 weeks), she is acting like she is to busy to hang out (we have only hung out 1 time and we ended up banging - no condom. We both got in the heat of the moment...and she does not say anything, until a week ago that she "was not happy we hit it skins" and my std results are not back (granted I think im good but you never know). So she is acting to busy and this past Saturday she calls me we talk I ask her plans she says "do you really want to know" I was not "thinking" and say "yes" she says "date" Im like cool.
This Monday she does the usual "hi on chat" stuff and how was your weekend..blah. I mess up an ask how her date was..she says "it was great" Now, all this week she is telling me she is doing stuff and she only called me once (we have talked every night or at least every other night). I have been acting "happy, positive, etc" Not bugging her. Not calling her, not showing I want to be with her, etc. Tonight is out with family, etc. But she writes this my last interaction:
Me: Hey I have a meeting for the next hour...we'll have to catch up sometime.
Her: Yes we will!
Her: I totally forgot to give you your cds back that one night too...I'm sorry
Her: I will get them to you soon
I don't reply back.
Now, she nows I am waiting for test results, because basically all we did was hang out at hers or mine and f'...and let me tell you she has the HOTTEST body and p---y in my life time (and I am between 30-32) and have had a lot of women. She loves to f, thats all we do...4x's in one afternoon night. Crazy. I like chillin with her but she is up on the DJ game, she is intelligent, etc. We connect on many levels, regarding, politics, music, beliefs, family, etc. AND..the craziest part to me is our intuition sexual vibes, feelings we get..We have always said that we "feel each other coming around the corner" and sure enough - BAM! We feel that we are about to run into each other, or when we are about to call each other. Etc.
So here is one more thing. She does knows she is hot and she does not "buy stuff for me" (i messed up and bought her 1 small thing as well as taking her on 1 date this whole time). But she works hard is independent buys her own stuff..she just has not a "giver" with stuff other then her body, emotions, etc.
So where would you guys take it from here. What do you suggest I do, act, etc.
Also, she does not know that I am talking to 2 other girls. One is crazy over me and I am not..she not leaving me alone - could become a prob. (and at least Im 95% sure this main girl does not know about the other two).
Thanks in advance DJ's!
-eyedogg
Situation:
I work with this HB9+ who was living with her boyfriend for a year. We work together and I noticed her strong sexual vibe. About 4 months ago, I eye f'd here and she noticed - she loved it, I could tell and we stared at each other.
Next thing you know she emailed me for my instant chat info - gave it to her and started chatting at work. I’m just got divorced, she is living with homie. We decide to hang out (this started 5 months ago), first time hanging we make out I lick boobs, get her hot. We keep seeing each other in secret until we end up banging each other. This took about a month. So she basically cheated on her man with me, she tells me she hates him, he is lazy, not motivated, does to much drugs (weed), and that she is attracted to my level of power at work (management), my motivation, confidence, etc. She breaks up with him and kicks him out. She is intelligent, can be cunning, knows what powers she possesses as an intelligent HB9+.
We make it clear that we are not boyfriend/girlfriend...that we are basically "lovers" more then just F'ing buddies.
Now after I have been banging her for like 2 months she tells me and shows that she loves my c--k and love making skillz (of which I am very confident in), come to find out she is a damn freak and a nymph. We are hooking up all the time now. Everything is good.
3 months in, her girlfriends want her to go out to clubs, hangout etc. I finally meet her best girlfriend, who I flirt with and she flirts back. I see that she got jealous so when I talk to her she tells me that her girlfriend thought I was "like an ex of hers she doesnt like, that I am fake or fronting, etc" But I picked up on sexual vibes from her friend and the jealousy from her. So, now she is going out more and we start seeing each other less, she starts talking about "going out on dates - getting to know other people", etc. I am like do "whatever" you want. I laying back in the cut and when you want to f', let me know. She doesn’t really go out and we get hot again for like 2 weeks.
3.5 months in, she is talks about dating again and she knows I can date when I want so she says "maybe we shouldn’t tell each other when we go on dates or what we did...but if you have sex with anyone else we need to tell each" this is cause we are hitting skins. So Im like cool.
Some crazy shiz happens like 3 weeks ago where this crazy chick my friend bring over basically wanted me to f' her and would not stop..I finally did it to shut her up (was not all that and bad decision), cause we started with a condom but it busted and we kept going. So being a guy with integrity, I tell her. She is not happy but she understands when a horny beeotch won’t stop and dude just has to hit it. She does tell me she is upset and jealous and that she has not done that to me. I tell her she needs to tell me. She says of course.
Currently, since that time (3 weeks), she is acting like she is to busy to hang out (we have only hung out 1 time and we ended up banging - no condom. We both got in the heat of the moment...and she does not say anything, until a week ago that she "was not happy we hit it skins" and my std results are not back (granted I think im good but you never know). So she is acting to busy and this past Saturday she calls me we talk I ask her plans she says "do you really want to know" I was not "thinking" and say "yes" she says "date" Im like cool.
This Monday she does the usual "hi on chat" stuff and how was your weekend..blah. I mess up an ask how her date was..she says "it was great" Now, all this week she is telling me she is doing stuff and she only called me once (we have talked every night or at least every other night). I have been acting "happy, positive, etc" Not bugging her. Not calling her, not showing I want to be with her, etc. Tonight is out with family, etc. But she writes this my last interaction:
Me: Hey I have a meeting for the next hour...we'll have to catch up sometime.
Her: Yes we will!
Her: I totally forgot to give you your cds back that one night too...I'm sorry
Her: I will get them to you soon
I don't reply back.
Now, she nows I am waiting for test results, because basically all we did was hang out at hers or mine and f'...and let me tell you she has the HOTTEST body and p---y in my life time (and I am between 30-32) and have had a lot of women. She loves to f, thats all we do...4x's in one afternoon night. Crazy. I like chillin with her but she is up on the DJ game, she is intelligent, etc. We connect on many levels, regarding, politics, music, beliefs, family, etc. AND..the craziest part to me is our intuition sexual vibes, feelings we get..We have always said that we "feel each other coming around the corner" and sure enough - BAM! We feel that we are about to run into each other, or when we are about to call each other. Etc.
So here is one more thing. She does knows she is hot and she does not "buy stuff for me" (i messed up and bought her 1 small thing as well as taking her on 1 date this whole time). But she works hard is independent buys her own stuff..she just has not a "giver" with stuff other then her body, emotions, etc.
So where would you guys take it from here. What do you suggest I do, act, etc.
Also, she does not know that I am talking to 2 other girls. One is crazy over me and I am not..she not leaving me alone - could become a prob. (and at least Im 95% sure this main girl does not know about the other two).
Thanks in advance DJ's!
-eyedogg
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