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    Your GF going out with male friends

    heres a different outlook. Im not gay nor beta however I do have 3 girlfriends who are some of my best friends that I go to dinner with or drinks. Sometimes with friends, sometimes just them and I. I do not find them attractive in that way, simply they are girls I turn to if I have girl...
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    Help me save my 1.5 year LTR!!

    Wow, i must be getting really good at this when i read the opening thread and new exactly how it was going to turn out. OP i really do feel for you because we ALL have been there. Kailex was right on with a number of things he wrote to you. Dont go for closure leave her wondering why you...
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    I need your advice on what I should do

    im going to give you a different side of things. I was living on my own at a place that was GARBAGE to the point I would be embarassed bringing girls back. I was employed during that time but I was not getting paid well, just barely making it by. I became depressed and constatnly was thinking...
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    Why does it feel like I'm constantly being disrespected

    Wow, thats very interesting thought. This is pretty intriuging. All three guys have been givin just enough from her to stick around and give her attention...Including the OP. He has just enough rapport or whatever it is she has been dishing to him to keep him around. Never crossed my mind...
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    Witty response to "do what"

    heres a witty response that i use that always gets a laugh, hopefully you dont over use. me- R u ready to get into some trouble this weekend? girl- What are we going to do? me- Bible studies (obviously they know im joking)
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    How to get power in this relationship

    this is good stuff. another thing to add which im recently learning is the "agree and escalate." She says something like, " i cant meet up with you tonite, my guy friend Jason needs me for girl advice." you- "thats a good idea(agree). Try flirting with him a little bit, it will most likely...
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    No escalation after 6 dates...

    Has anyone suggested even trying jophils move of lbjf on her? She wants to go slow? Ok, how about, " you know what, we have been really getting a long lately. I think we should be friends. ." If she asks why i thought we had something special etc? reply back " i just dont think we have any...
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    Turning 30

    Happy birthday Kailex. I turned 30 this last July and it has been great so far. Im still working on becoming the best man I can be, but i see the light at the end of the tunnel. Heres to a celebration for the 30's.
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    Newbie here... Need help with an EX

    i was in a very similar situation back in feb. we broke up in feb. from feb till june we were doing what you were writing; still dating seemed like we were still together, etc. You are going down a path you dont want to go down. She KNOWS she wont be with you. For her It feels good, the...
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    7 months since the breakup... my progress

    you're worthless f283000. ive seen your last 4 posts in threads and not one is postive nor helpful to anyone. If you dont have anything to say that helps others then dont say it. does this post do anything for you? did it make you feel like a bad ass insulting me in my thread? were you trying...
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    7 months since the breakup... my progress

    Its been a while since i have posted here so i thought id give an update/ personal progress journal type log. Maybe its for my own personal gain or maybe someone could benefit from this thread. I already know I'm going to hear it from Jophil and Kailex about this, but I still miss my ex...
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    All Hell breaks loose in the backbreaker household

    I love reading threads like this. You really learn a lot. I agree with jophil and others on their viiew but what's funny is you don't see the other side when you are in a relationship. If oi was backbreaker I would satand by what he said as well.... This is really a learning experience for a thread
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    How to be center of attention when approaching group of girls?

    That's the exact kind of response I was looking for yuppaz thanks. But what's a "cold read?"
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    How to be center of attention when approaching group of girls?

    I appreciate what you guys are saying, but I want to reitterate, I'm not shy. I've been out of the game for a while so a specific routine or opener was what I was looking for. Saying to a girl "I think you are georgious" doesn't really portray me as the center of attention infront of a group of...
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    How to be center of attention when approaching group of girls?

    I read a couple threads regarding gaining social proof at bars/clubs by having chicks there that you know or having strong inner game. How do you approach a group of girls at a bar? Mystery method talks about using opionion openers, but that is pretty played out and girls pick up on that...
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    Anyone here use male enhancement pills?

    In my experience, not only does it make you last longer, it makes your wang significantly bigger. The only downside is that yes you last long but you still get that sensitivity issue after you ***. So basically you ***, its sensitive, but its still hard.
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    I really need a cheer up...

    I like to use a quote a buddy of mine told me that gets me through tough times: "Work hard, be cool, the hardship is only temporary." The way I interpret it, whether it be school or your job, work hard and be the good reliable employee/student. Be cool. While ur doing your work, be that...
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    contemplating on breaking my no contact with the ex

    Kailex, I have always respected ur posts and your advice. Your dedication to helping the guys on this site is awesome, but not everyone moves on from their ex's the same. To come into a thread and bash the OP and basically say move on and man up is not constuctive nor helpful. I've read your...
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    contemplating on breaking my no contact with the ex

    I've been in NC with my 2 year ex now for over a month after one texting coversation we had. Before that there was another 1 month of no contact. I feel as though I'm not progressing with moving on. I've been thinking about her more and more. I find myself wondering if she's dating anyone or if...
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    6 months after breakup... talk to me

    Kingwilloam, if I remember correctly, we both became single and posted about the same time. I think it was within a week, so we are in a similar boat. To be honest, I think about my ex every day too. I think its just one of those things that take time. I have been in no contact for 2 months...
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