farlenrejorano
Don Juan
Update
Hi there fellas!
Before telling what happened on Saturday, I guess it would be useful to tell you about her calling on me Thursday.
She was crying on the phone, saying that her friend (my pal's gf) told her what he had seen. She told me that I shouldn't mix up things, that this guy was only her friend and she hadn't done anything wrong. She also begged me to consider everything we lived together in my judgement. I told her this would better be discussed Saturday as we had already set.
She kept talking about how much she still loved me and that she would never break my trust. She insisted that the only thing she wanted to do was to make clear to me that she hadn't cheated on me. We also talked a bit about some other related things, I don't remember everything because I was heartened during the talking. Then, we ended this conversation because we were going to do it for real on Saturday.
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So that's it. Everything went fine Saturday. I met with my ex-girlfriend at a park we used to go in the good times. We sat on a bench under the shade of a tree and then I did what I had gone there to do.
I calmly told her:
"As you should know, I'm not happy with the way our relationship has been going in the last two months. I don't know if you're talking the truth about the guy, it's true that I have many evidences but no proof.
Apart from this, I've noticed you aren't making any efforts to see me in your weekends anymore and that in the few times we have had sex lately you didn't seem to enjoy it as you used before. As you know, my hapiness in a relationship depends on the feeling that I'm making my girl happy too. You're not doing me any favor by being with me if you don't want to and I have always made it clear.
I know things have got boring lately but I was keeping our relationship because I hoped things would get a lot better when I got my license. Unfortunately, in the last weeks I realized that things probably won't work out the way I expected, so I want us to break up now."
She agreed with my points. She told me she changed her status on facebook because she was thinking about breaking up too. She started crying, lay her head on my shoulder and said that it had been great while it lasted. I told her that I had loved to be with her all this time, and that maybe someday, after we knew other people and thought about everything, life could give us another chance. She said that it looked good. Then I told her we shouldn't be thinking about this by now, because we were really breaking up and that the only thing I wanted was that she remembered our good times in the future with a smile on her face.
She asked me if we could keep in touch with each other, because she really liked me a lot. I told her I didn't see her as a friend-only, but had no problem with talking to her once in a while. Then we stayed like that for some minutes, enjoying our last minutes together before we moved on.
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That's the end guys!
After talking to her, I don't know if I can trust her words that she hadn't cheated. She always inspired me so much trust before this, but on the other side what my pal have seen is a good evidence against her. Anyway, I realized I had better move on despite she being honest or not.
If she contacts me, I'm going to be short and nice. I did my best to break up without resentments, because I really enjoyed being with this girl, and I wanted to have good memories of it when I get older. After all, she was my first girlfriend, I had sex for my first time with her and she always stood by me when I needed someone to make me feel better. I definitely think that everything was worth it in the end, be it for the happy times or for the experience.
I would like to thank everybody here for the enlightment. Perhaps I wouldn't have the courage to admit that it had better be finished now if it weren't by you. I wish the very best for you all!!
Now it's time to move on with my life! Time to walk a new path...
Hi there fellas!
Before telling what happened on Saturday, I guess it would be useful to tell you about her calling on me Thursday.
She was crying on the phone, saying that her friend (my pal's gf) told her what he had seen. She told me that I shouldn't mix up things, that this guy was only her friend and she hadn't done anything wrong. She also begged me to consider everything we lived together in my judgement. I told her this would better be discussed Saturday as we had already set.
She kept talking about how much she still loved me and that she would never break my trust. She insisted that the only thing she wanted to do was to make clear to me that she hadn't cheated on me. We also talked a bit about some other related things, I don't remember everything because I was heartened during the talking. Then, we ended this conversation because we were going to do it for real on Saturday.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------
--------------------------------------------------------------------------
So that's it. Everything went fine Saturday. I met with my ex-girlfriend at a park we used to go in the good times. We sat on a bench under the shade of a tree and then I did what I had gone there to do.
I calmly told her:
"As you should know, I'm not happy with the way our relationship has been going in the last two months. I don't know if you're talking the truth about the guy, it's true that I have many evidences but no proof.
Apart from this, I've noticed you aren't making any efforts to see me in your weekends anymore and that in the few times we have had sex lately you didn't seem to enjoy it as you used before. As you know, my hapiness in a relationship depends on the feeling that I'm making my girl happy too. You're not doing me any favor by being with me if you don't want to and I have always made it clear.
I know things have got boring lately but I was keeping our relationship because I hoped things would get a lot better when I got my license. Unfortunately, in the last weeks I realized that things probably won't work out the way I expected, so I want us to break up now."
She agreed with my points. She told me she changed her status on facebook because she was thinking about breaking up too. She started crying, lay her head on my shoulder and said that it had been great while it lasted. I told her that I had loved to be with her all this time, and that maybe someday, after we knew other people and thought about everything, life could give us another chance. She said that it looked good. Then I told her we shouldn't be thinking about this by now, because we were really breaking up and that the only thing I wanted was that she remembered our good times in the future with a smile on her face.
She asked me if we could keep in touch with each other, because she really liked me a lot. I told her I didn't see her as a friend-only, but had no problem with talking to her once in a while. Then we stayed like that for some minutes, enjoying our last minutes together before we moved on.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------
--------------------------------------------------------------------------
That's the end guys!
After talking to her, I don't know if I can trust her words that she hadn't cheated. She always inspired me so much trust before this, but on the other side what my pal have seen is a good evidence against her. Anyway, I realized I had better move on despite she being honest or not.
If she contacts me, I'm going to be short and nice. I did my best to break up without resentments, because I really enjoyed being with this girl, and I wanted to have good memories of it when I get older. After all, she was my first girlfriend, I had sex for my first time with her and she always stood by me when I needed someone to make me feel better. I definitely think that everything was worth it in the end, be it for the happy times or for the experience.
I would like to thank everybody here for the enlightment. Perhaps I wouldn't have the courage to admit that it had better be finished now if it weren't by you. I wish the very best for you all!!
Now it's time to move on with my life! Time to walk a new path...
