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Yeah, I get that. Thats kind of what I meant by what Im doing now. I guess I was looking for more of from there where do you go? Do you have topics you generally talk about to keep the conversation going? Do you do the "ask her opinion" type of conversations?

Yeah, I was really more curios what others do? What did you do or open with your last pickup Dasein?

Im in my 30s and my opening now is significantly different from when I was in my 20s. In my 20s I would be sloppy drunk and just do ****y/funny approaches to get girls attention. It was quite an immature approach but not good for the 30s crowd. Now, in my 30s I usually open with the "Hi...

I still strongly disagree. Her IL is not lowered for clear reasons. 1. It was two weeks ago he banged her. 2. 4 days ago, she STILL drove 45mins to see him. I dont know about you guys, but I would never drive 10 mins away for a girl I have low interest for. Shes obviously fighting a...

I actually agree with Speeddog except for the statement how she doesnt like you anymore. In the end shes STILL driving 45 min to be with you. Someone with low interest in you would not be driving that far to be with you. I think the OPs in his first post is either trying to make us believe...

Thanks for the input and advice. I agree with you 100%. Ironically, im not orbiting her, since shes been with this guy i dont talk to her.

Its been a while fellas. I have this dillema that i wanted to get everyones input/advice for. A friend of mine (female) is engaged with her bf of 5 years. 6 years ago we hooked up one time. A week later she hooked up with her fiancee and then became pregnant. Now that the child is a bit...

My rule of thumb is stay away from dinner dates, club dates and or comedy club. Those kind of dates put you at a disadvantage. Dinner dates tend to be like interviews and forced conversation with you two sitting across from each other shooting questions. Club dates put you in a position...

Watch the movie, My Best Friends Girl. What my opinion of "normal chick behavior" is Kate Hudsons character. Very bubbly, easy going, full of life. I wish all girls could be like her character.

I havent been on the site in a while, and I have to admit Im impressed with how much this site has become wiser. This post is EXACTLY what I would recommend. OP you are in a battle with your head and you are sad because you were use to something/someone that was with you daily and now your...

Oh man, I would expect more from a 29 year old. First, you should know by now, based on the other thread you created about her back in december when you broke up the first time it wasnt going to work out. This chick is NOT ready for what you want. Shes still in "party" "getting attention from...

It seems as though I am a pro at being in your position. I have been there many times and have learned how to handle this situation by others advice. First thing you need to realize is what others previously have mentioned, you are probably not into her as much as you think, simply because...

5string, Its been a while since Ive been on here, since Jophils passing. Anyhow, I didnt read the replies so I may be repeating what others have said but I think you have to take him in for a number of reasons. The source of your happiness right now, is as you mentioned, living...

I think i know what op is saying and even though everyone really has answered the question, I dont think they are REALLY understanding what hes saying, or maybe Im reading a different way. But I feel im in the same boat as OP. Ive been with a girl for a while, and shes everything I could...

jgoodz, In my experience, i have yet to find a single girl that doesnt have daddy issues when the dad isnt around or did something tramatic to the girl. I can tell you from experience, it will not work out till she addressess these "daddy issues." Run, and run hard away from her. Not to...

Heretolearn, I found this thread shopping. I am the same age as you and your post is EXACTLY what im going thru. Id also like to add, I started thinking my friends and people around me were changing. Like all my friends got into relationships and stopped going out. The sad part too is...

To address both of your questions: samspade- I have to go bc its my cousins suprise 35th bday. All my family and friends will be there. Its not something I can skip out on or give a reason not to go. Scrouds- I guess Im not comfortable with myself to act normal in an uncomfortable...

Im going to be encountering a sticky situation and Im seeking advice. Been broken up for a little over a year now. Ex has a new boyfriend shes been with for a while now. Ive been dating other girls off and on. We still have tons of mutual friends which sucks for both of use because we...

I was encountered with a situation similar to this. Not with a friend telling a girl i like her, but rather a friend hanging out with an ex of mine when I told him to stay away. OP, the way I have been handeling disrespect from "friends" is I write them off mentally and start detaching...

I Just had my 31st bday so I want to bump this for everyone to read Kailex's post one more time