Quite frankly, I'm surprised at some of the comments on this thread in a DJ forum. They are not very DJ like at all. Some of these guys need to rethink their ink.
When a woman disrespects you this much, as this woman did to this man, you don't relegate her to a fvck buddy status (because she disrespects him so much that she won't be having sex with him), you relegate her out the door to the fvcking curb. That is what you do to women who behave in this manner to you.
No pvssy in the world is worth keeping around for you to take disrespect and humiliation from.
You can always find some new pvssy. There is no need to keep a chick around that disrespects you this much, just for the sake of saying you have some pvssy, while you turn into a pvssy yourself.
Thai is not worth it, and you are not being a man.
Now...on to the problem at hand.
This is a inside joke between the woman and the other man at the expense of betablaster.
betablaster said:
girlfriend had one of her guy friends text her asking if she knew anyone who needed a roomate,
Meaning that he will be her new roommate after she beaks up with betablaster.
dude eventally stated if she found something for him he would eat her out.
Meaning he will be eating her out soon when they are broken up
she "if she were single she would be all over it and would be having his kbuff green eyed kids"
Meaning she will be single soon and she will be banging his brains out once she gets rid of betablaster
betablaster said:
this really upset me. and quite honestly i'm disgusted. i dont know what to do.
Well, you should be by the whole thing. I'm sure it was quite a surprise to you. What you do is kick her a$$ to the curb and get rid of the hoe and don't look back. That is what you should do.
betablaster said:
i feel disrepected that she didnt tell him that was inappropriate. so what do i do from here? help quick
You should feel disrespected because she disrespected you. Why would she tell him that it was inappropriate? She feels it is appropriate. She was playing right along with him with the sexual banter. She wants to be with him and she wants you gone. That is what she wants. You get rid of her. That is what you do.
betablaster said:
she sent me a text, saying "im sorry"
She is not sorry and this was her way of ending things with you.
betablaster said:
she called and i asked her to explain herself. she couldn't. all she said was "im sorry" not even one of those frantic sorry's like hey i really ****ed up. she tired to say she it was a joke... im not buying it... if it was a joke she could have said that fbefore i walked out on her. i left the conversation with i need some time to think. she said im not going to wait for you bs and i told her fine then i'm done. she quickly changed her tune. she said i will give you some space. and that's where i am now.
The joke was at your expense but she wasn't joking with the guy. Women that respect their men and love them, don't have sexual banter with guys they don't want to be with. She had nothing to say because there is nothing to say. She wanted your relationship over and for you to break up with her. She turned on you in your conversation when she is the one who is guilty. She is giving you the space. She wants it to be over. So take the hint, save the small amount of dignity and pride that you still have left and move on. This relationship is not salvageable and you need to find some greener pastures.
betablaster said:
a few things that are bothering me is the fact that she doesn't really seem that upset about this situation. and i could even sense a bit of hostility in her voice.
Why the hell would she be upset? She got what she wanted. She wanted you gone and to be with the other man. She wouldn't be telling him that she would be having sex with him when she is single. Now she is so she can She has the hostility because she has lost respect for you.
betablaster said:
i did explain to her that she needs to contact dude and inform him he needs to stop this bs or i will do it myself.
she agreed she would tell him he needs to back off.
i feel like i'm not getting any remorse from her...
so at this point i don't know what to do. i don't know how i'm going to trust her. please give me your wisdom!
You are totally blind to the whole situation here and you're just digging yourself a deeper hole with this. You are making yourself look more weak in her eyes every minute.
C'mon man, do you actually think for one minute that she is going to stop talking with this guy after she already expressed her sexual desires for him just because you tell her to? She isn't going to listen to you. She wants you gone so she can start banging him. And why would you still want to be with a chick who treats you this way? Of course you're not getting any remorse from her. Why would you? She wants you gone and she wants to bang him. Don't you get it? Like I said before, you can't trust a lying hoe, kick her to the curb and be done with it. Quit making more of a fool out of yourself by holding on to this. She is talking to him about you and they are both laughing at you. So please do the right thing and cut all contact with her.
betablaster said:
So if i decide to keep this relationship and i tell her if it happens again she will be dropped. also i plan on asking her to remove him as a friend on facebook, text him that he is not to contact her for any reason and to delete his number
What some guys will go through just to say they have a girlfriend.
Why the hell do you want to keep her for? A woman who disrespects you and wants to be with another man. Not to mention she already has showed you that she doesn't want to be with you anymore. You are wasting your time and she will not listen to you. She will not delete him from facebook or delete his number. The more you demand her to delete this guy the more she will want to be with him and you are making yourself look more weak and pathetic in her eyes. It's just a matter of time before she tells you she doesn't want to be with you anymore and will dump you for good. Save yourself from that humiliation and end things now.
Next time don't hang on to a dead relationship when a woman disrespects you. Don't make demands to woman to cut ties with a man she wants to be with. Be a man and kick her a$$ to the curb and don't take any bullsh!t from them.
May your days be filled with much greatness and plenty of poon
Dr. Harvey Poon
