Good points WC2 and no argument from me.
However, you're forgetting that men are here to get off the mark, improve their skills, or polish their technique with something they would not have come up with on their own.
For newbies, I think it's important to have a battery of effective...
Yeah sarky is meant to be short for 'sarcastic'. Gets regular use in Australia.
Another phone line from a PU book I think is "Has he called yet?" which my friend uses, but I like the mirror line better :p
This was used on me by a male workmate the other week as I was texting a message to someone. Which means I was holding the phone in front with the screen facing me. It was a good put-down and I thought it might work on chicks.
"Hey, come on, put that thing away. It's not a mirror."
I use...
It comes back to what I read somewhere in one DJ theory text or other: people who are insecure get upset easily. If you're insecure, you cannot be alpha male. You're just immature brat and regularly overcompensate for your insecurity.
Anyway....alpha or not alpha. It's all semantics. Results...
Good points can't be emphasized enough, but...none of this sexual state theory is new. If a girl is out looking for 'it' then obviously she's not satisfied, and nor are we. That is the standard definition of horny, is it not?
True enough and good point. However, if you stay in passive state and do nothing, even something AFC like the things you mentioned, then you're going to get utterly nowhere....i.e. not even learn something from being rejected, ignored or spurned.
So I think the point of the original poster is...
If you had anticipated a flake, you could have used a good line to tell her off in a funny way and maintain control...perhaps make her think twice about her decision (and it was her decision).
What we're not getting is details of your communications with her leading up to the 'date'. Were you...
I think you never gave yourself time to get nervous and dream up negative outcomes. What you focused on was the simple test you had in mind and that was it. That's the beauty of proactive thinking...in all parts of your life, not just PU.
When I was younger I got excellent practice with...
This is good stuff and it matches my experiences.
I go out with one or two friends specifically to sarge, but they never switch to active mode unless they've had a certain number of drinks or get opened by chicks, which is very rare as we all know. I try to lead by example and approach women by...
No, violence is not erotic.
A new slave, on all fours, totally nude, wearing a collar and leash, asking me why she's getting so wet just from polishing the chrome on my Barcelona chairs, is sexy as hell.
This post was crap. It was excellent. You stole those ideas. Very thoughtful. Too long-winded and verbose. Thanks for making the effort. Are you a troll? You are the Man.
Wiseman's book S&M 101 is very good.
The safety angle cannot be emphasized enough. It may sound like putting a dampener on things and making a session less spontaneous, but if you know the dangers and eliminate them, you can relax and enjoy it more. Generally the dominant should know more than...
I was active in my local **** scene a few years ago. Dropped out due to a lack of young females in the scene but still come out of the shadows to catch up with friends and pull the leather pant on (a good quality pair of leather pants are perfect for peacocking).
I've actually been thinking of...
They work for me, but I only use them on HB7+ or seemingly confident girls. The delivery is everything too. I've had my share of slightly wounded responses. However, the damage is usually minor and I can reopen her later. So at worst, her emotions have been stoked and I've acted differently to...
Good point, however....if you're not interested in trying to understand who she is or what makes any woman you meet tick, then I think you're lacking a fundamental curiosity about your fellow human beings.
I know many blokes think like this (I hate chick flicks, gossip bores me, etc.) but the...
Stephen Hawking the cripple is forced to work inside his head too. Some say this has given him an advantage because he has developed a very elastic, visual way of solving problems. This is the same skill you can use to 'practice' approaching and conversing with women while you're stuck commuting...
There's good stuff about 'empathic listen' skills in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People which I thought was excellent. In summary:
- Listen without applying your frame of reference (or what Covey called your "autobiography") to what the person is saying.
- Echo what is being said by...
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