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Yes, a tough approach subject. Take what you learned from it and move on. Next time you will be a touch smoother. Like someone else said, in that situation you need a killer line (or action) to get her attention. You approached (kudos) but had no game plan. I try to see it like chess. You need...

Jaysus....just read the DJ info on this website. That's not a simple question to answer. Laziness might be a good trait to overcome! (Just kidding.)

****y and funny was custom made for chicks like this HB9.5. My advice is to just go with the flow. You probably need a few weeks to really know if you're emtionally hooked on the HB. Just note that a woman like that is looking to pop out kids ASAP. She's got her life sorted out except her...

Women would do this to us without a second thought. Look after number one. Or you can always try the 'trial break up' approach. But then will your new potential girlfriend still be as interested in you when you're more available and not a challenge? Whatever...Two girls interested in the...

There is a reason university graduates are never given much responsibility beyond making coffee and running erands. :) Theory is a start, but it's nothing without doing for real in the field. I find myself still trying to apply and master the very basic points after months of reading...

Hey I like that say anything tip. It's good if you can't think of a situational opener. Better that than nothing, right?? Sweet. Plus I like the illogical tone of it. Some women can tend to connect the dots with these kinds of lines than something logical and/or obvious. In venues I've been...

Well the important thing is not whether she will call or not, but that you took a risk. Next time you won't hesitate as much, and perhaps it'll be a situation that's more conducive to success. Good luck. If you do bonk her, we want to see the footage on YouTube. Nothing less! :)

I recommend the step by step method. Collect three or four generic canned openers you like, learn them, practice them at home in front of the mirror, then go out and use them in public or in venues. When you have mastered approaching, develop a few more openers and refine your conversation...

I usually do the polite thing. A soft touch on the shoulder, half-turn away, smile, and say "Well [NAME], it was lovely to make your acquaintence." Then I saunter away to chat-up other women in the same venue. This is not to 'get even', but a bonus might be that your ex-targets may see you...

Beautiful women out doing stuff by themselves...at bars or doing outdoor stuff. You always have to ask yourself "Why?" Your answer to yourself should always be "In case they meet a stranger who will seduce them". Nice work Mission, although I think regarding your original post, that kind...

Hot chick or not, again I think it boils down to how you say something, not what you say. If you're smooth and confident, showing the right body language and you don't have bad breath, she will not see you as a threat or an AFC. Then it's down to luck and your conversation skills as to whether...

Compliments fall under the bracket of giving effective feedback, i.e. noticing details, being unemotional (when warranted), getting the mix of subjectivity and objectivity right, etc.

The bottom line is get out there and keep trying until you get results.

Theory vs Practice. Theory is nothing without trying it out for real. Anyone who has done any training course will know that.

If you have kissed a few times and she still hangs around you, then she may be 'saving it' until she is sure you are not just after a one-night stand. A bit of push-pull technique might help you escalate. Also I think you might be being too needy and clingy, therefore break contact with her...

It might help to mention one or more of the following in your post, since asking all of this via PM is a bit tedious: Post your age(s). Say what kinds of venues or music you like. There's a big difference between pubs, nightclubs, bars, Borders, metal gigs, graveyards, etc. How many...

A general rule of life: pay attention. I complimented a girl walking past us in a busy club: she had short hair, rather boyish actually, but it was well done and a professional job. I said, "Hey, I like your hair cut. The short length suits you." Well she smiled and kept walking. Then...

That wasn't a neg, it was an insult. Her friend was teasing her, so I would have said something the opposite like a compliment on her clothes. Or better yet, negged your mate. Oh well don't worry about it. It's a story to tell and she'll remember you that's for sure.

Don't underestimate the power of looking scruffy. I get looks from women when I don't shave. I think I look like a terrorist but they seem to like it, or at least get curious. It's the same thing as I tell friends who are balding. They look different and that can be an advantage. All depends on...

Nice post, Jackman. I get flak from friends who are not learning PU theory like I am that criticise 'mistakes': things I said or did wrong that got the girl to react badly. The thing is that I believe the PUA theory idea that you must stir up her emotions somehow. Obviously the outcome should...