stockholder
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I'm a waiter. I work in a cafe which is more of club on friday evenings. On saturday evenings there are more people around my age 20-30. On fridays and saturdays I notice these guys who are so wrong about the dominant male concept. They are pathetic.
(In the following he=head up his ass alpha male Try not to be like this)
He makes all the decisions. All the time. The other pathetic chumps and women who are with him agree and even when they disagree they do not take action. He acts like he's the most social guy in the world. He always thinks the world revolves around him. Always wanting attention. Always ready to fight. He's also always aware that he is doing something confident. He keeps whining about other people whining without even realising that he is whining himself. He deals with people by attacking them (translation: he considers them and their opinions a threat.) He fights to compete or because he's angry. He is angry. He wants to prove himself all the time. He is competitive. He takes himself (plus his life) very seriously
Now the above is an alpha male. He's damn irritating but he's an alpha male. Does he get women? Some shallow *****es will fall for him. Even hot ones. The guys always protects his women. Always answers before she does and protects her right away.
Be like the guy below
Then you have those guys who only take charge when it is needed. He has decided that most things can be also decided by others and he is comfortable with it. When things go wrong or they way he dislikes he will take charge and decide. When he disagrees he'll tell the others about it. He will do the most confident thing in the world without even realising the courage it takes to do that thing. He will have faith in the woman and let her do her word during an arguement and will only protect her when she really needs it. He trust his woman and her ability to protect herself and will let her protect herself. At times he will even let her protect him. He never whines. He doesn't whine about other people who are whining. Instead he makes the people who are whining aware of the potential they have and makes them focus on that. He's always calm. Never attacks people (he doesn't consider them or their opinions a threat.) He fights because he has to. Not because he's angry or because he has to compete or something like that. He is indifferent. He does the things he does because he has to. He doesn't take himself (plus his life) too seriously.
It's your choice but please try not to be the I'm always confident alpha male. Instead be the I am who I am alpha male.
[This message has been edited by stockholder (edited 06-29-2002).]
(In the following he=head up his ass alpha male Try not to be like this)
He makes all the decisions. All the time. The other pathetic chumps and women who are with him agree and even when they disagree they do not take action. He acts like he's the most social guy in the world. He always thinks the world revolves around him. Always wanting attention. Always ready to fight. He's also always aware that he is doing something confident. He keeps whining about other people whining without even realising that he is whining himself. He deals with people by attacking them (translation: he considers them and their opinions a threat.) He fights to compete or because he's angry. He is angry. He wants to prove himself all the time. He is competitive. He takes himself (plus his life) very seriously
Now the above is an alpha male. He's damn irritating but he's an alpha male. Does he get women? Some shallow *****es will fall for him. Even hot ones. The guys always protects his women. Always answers before she does and protects her right away.
Be like the guy below
Then you have those guys who only take charge when it is needed. He has decided that most things can be also decided by others and he is comfortable with it. When things go wrong or they way he dislikes he will take charge and decide. When he disagrees he'll tell the others about it. He will do the most confident thing in the world without even realising the courage it takes to do that thing. He will have faith in the woman and let her do her word during an arguement and will only protect her when she really needs it. He trust his woman and her ability to protect herself and will let her protect herself. At times he will even let her protect him. He never whines. He doesn't whine about other people who are whining. Instead he makes the people who are whining aware of the potential they have and makes them focus on that. He's always calm. Never attacks people (he doesn't consider them or their opinions a threat.) He fights because he has to. Not because he's angry or because he has to compete or something like that. He is indifferent. He does the things he does because he has to. He doesn't take himself (plus his life) too seriously.
It's your choice but please try not to be the I'm always confident alpha male. Instead be the I am who I am alpha male.
[This message has been edited by stockholder (edited 06-29-2002).]
