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Most women won't be into you if you go for a strong niche look but a a certain minority will be - and that's OK because that's all you need. The odds will be stacked in your favour with the small number of women that like your look/style/demeanour so you'll still get plenty of attention and...

Exactly. If she's not lusting after you at the beginning then she certainly won't be two years down the line.

A niche is probably a good move if you're not highly physically attractive or you don't have other 'mainstream'⁰ selling points. Developing a niche is probably a good idea as you get older as well because you're not going to be able to compete head to head with guys 20 years younger than you...

Thank you, I will look out for your new thread.

Sums it up very well.

I find the bit I've highlighted intriguing. Could you please explain what you mean by being stingy repels wealth.

I was a better father in my 40s (and 50s) than I was in my twenties and early thirties with my first born.

These 'geriatric' celebrity mothers are splashed all over the media but the reality is that most 47 year old women can't have kids. The quantity and quality of women's eggs starts falling away after thirty and really accelerates after 35. Most 40 year old women can't have kids. For every case...

That's sound advice. Encourage and reward positive actions and behaviour.

It sounds to me like she decided she'd had enough of the push pull routine. It was probably building up over time and now she's moved on.

Unfortunately she's moved on, bruv. Certainly metaphorically and possibly literally.

Thank you, Ma'am. Much appreciated :up:

I suppose what I initially meant is that I'm older now. Physically I'm in very good shape but trim more than jacked. I'm still pretty good looking but it's the confidence that took a battering. So frankly, I'm just finding my way again.

Bit of an update, guys. I've been at a conference this week - two nights away - and been pleasantly surprised. Night 1: Sat with this woman at dinner (I've known her for a while) and she was soon making it pretty obvious she was into me (plenty of IoIs and kino). Not bad looking, about 35. We...

That's sound advice.

Don't get involved with marred women. It's messy, it's probably spells trouble, and all in all it's not worth it. Plus, remember, whatever she's doing to her husband, ultimately she'd do the same to you.

I've always felt a bit odd because I don't actually like sleeping with women. By that I mean I like banging them, of course, but I don't really enjoy sleeping in the same bed as a woman. Never have to be honest, I prefer to slep alone. Problem is, they don't like it if you move to another room...

This brings back some painful memories for me. My ex-wife (who is as a truly bad person) used to behave like this on holidays, at family gatherings and in front of friends. It's really embarrassing and horrible bullying behaviour, and you've got to be very careful because you'll be the bad guy...

This brings back some painful memories for me. My ex-wife (who is as a truly bad person) used to behave like this on holidays, at family gatherings and in front of friends. It's really embarrassing and horrible bullying behaviour, and you've got to be very careful because you'll be the bad guy...