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I know what you mean. I don't want to see women exploited or discriminated against but increasingly females are advantaged at the expense of boys and men nowadays - and here I mean at school, in the workplace, via the legal system and much else, not just in terms of dating and relationships.

All true. If anythng, the odds are continuing to mount in the favour of women.

That is quite a different situation to the one faced by the OP though - and I'm going to go against the grain because I think I'd remove the ex-girfriend from the group if I were him. Or, to be more accurate, I'd ask her to leave and then remove her if she didn't go. The OP may be able to...

I think that's right. With work a fairly average looking person (man or woman) can make themselves overtly attractive - diet, exercise, grooming, clothes, etc. Then of course there's makeup, even cosmetic surgery. I've seen people transform themselves. It takes time, money and effort though.

Yep. Good post. Taking your time and not rushing in is, in my opinion, the key here. Because that's how I got badly burned. Easier said than done though.

You would be stupid to attempt this as it effectively it entails putting yourself on trial for rape on a much lower burden of evidence. With no jury.

Well, yeah, but I find it pretty easy to walk from one room to another when I want.

Funny this topic has come up because I was only thinking about it yesterday - and frankly I've never enjoyed sleeping with women. Sex, yes, of course, but I've always preferred to sleep alone. Why? A bit of separation is a good thing and I get a better sleep on my own.

Absolutely, yes - and that's understandable really. Women tend to be resentful if you do it to them though.

Good post which just about sums it up for me.

What do you mean by 'older'? An older woman can be fun if you're 20 and she's 30. Not so much if you're 40 and she's 50+ or whatever.

Horrific, mate. The whole thing was a nighmare.

I know, bro - somehow I ended up married to one! (unforunately).

Personally, I'd move on. If she comes back to you in the next day or two, OK. But I wouldn't be chasing her; your time and energy is probably better invested elsewhere.

I'm going to go with the majority here - it's usually easier to get over girl A. Girl B type relationships tend to be longer term and you build up feelings and shared bonds. So, generally they're more difficult to get over.

She's probably given you a soft 'next'. Move on unless she comes back to you rapidly with an alternative meetup.

I have no doubt that my former wife wanted to provoke a dramatic confrontation. Some of the things that she said and did would anger a saint and I'm sure se thought I'd just lose my sh1t at some stage and get me involved in an explosive scene where would enable her to paint me as a deranged...

Thank you, my friend. Your support is much appreciated

This is happening in the UK too, especially in education, health, the civil service, and other areas of public sector work. Women and ethnic minorities are more likely to be recruited, promoted and retained than other workers. They also often get a free pass on under-performance and...

She sounds like a walking disaster.