Would you want a woman to LUST over you or "Love" you

You want women to LUST you first over LOVE?


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corona20

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what is your take on this?

Is LUST first then love?
or LOVE then LUST?

which route is most BENEFITIAL to us men from you guys experience?

imo, LUST first then LOVE.
 

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Lust then Love. As Rollo says, you can't negotiate genuine desire. If a girl isn't physically attracted to you up front initially then you can't trust it to be love.
 

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Exactly. If she's not lusting after you at the beginning then she certainly won't be two years down the line.
 

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Yeah without the initial lust it's unlikely you'd ever be more than a provider to them. They might tell you they love you but that's just til something better comes along.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lust.
I don't care for the love part.
 

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Lust burns out quicker than love. Love will get you thru tough times for a while. She can still love you and not be with you.

Not sure what exactlythe term love means. Women throw that term around very loosely. At the end of the day it's conditional anyways.

It really doesn't matter what it is. Neither will fool me.
 

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Lust burns out quicker than love. Love will get you thru tough times for a while. She can still love you and not be with you.

Not sure what exactlythe term love means. Women throw that term around very loosely. At the end of the day it's conditional anyways.

It really doesn't matter what it is. Neither will fool me.
Only right answer.

Especially in the RP area we are now "trained " to believe that you have to be Chad thunder c0ck at minimum if you ever want a woman to even consider you as a long term partner.

All the answers before yours are defeatist by nature. Ask such a question to yourself before you fill in the answer for any other human . Iirc you would need a combination of looks , charisma, chemistry, right place and time, ect before you fall in LOVE. Falling in lust happens when you visit tye Hub frontpage right now.

Both routes are actually filled with delusions. This question is a catch 22.

**newsflash. Hardly any woman actually knows wtf she wants **
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Only right answer.
blabla
There is no 'right' answer, just a right answer for you.

Not everybody wants to fall in love.
 

Gamisch

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blabla
There is no 'right' answer, just a right answer for you.

Not everybody wants to fall in love.
You gonna post that tshirt AGAIN? And again and again and again?

Far as I know Gamisch is MY alter ego account thus my opinion thus needless to say that it's right for me from MY pov..every opinion is personal bro..stupid comment, you can do better..
 

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Far as I know Gamisch is MY alter ego account thus my opinion thus needless to say that it's right for me from MY pov..every opinion is personal bro..stupid comment, you can do better..
Maybe you shouldn't post under the influence. Maybe translate this when you're sober.
 

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Maybe you shouldn't post under the influence. Maybe translate this when you're sober.
Lol. Iam as sober as a newborn baby mon ami.

Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't mean they're fecked up.

Lets agree to disagree before this becomes another endless back and forth.

I have strong opinions on every topic ,but i never make it personal. I try to keep it that way. Like real men do. Have a good night, it's quite late in the Capital of Narcotics aint it?
 

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If the woman is between:

18-24 - 100% lust
25-33 - 90% lust 10% love
34-38 - 10% lust 90% love
38+ - 10000% love

Everything depends on a woman’s youth.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I have strong opinions on every topic ,but i never make it personal. I try to keep it that way. Like real men do. Have a good night, it's quite late in the Capital of Narcotics aint it?
Yes, it is, but I'm a night owl.

I don't take anything personal.
I thought your response was just weird.

I was stating my opinion as well. To me, 'romantic love' is overrated. Great if it happens, but I can do without it.
 

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If the woman is between:

18-24 - 100% lust
25-33 - 90% lust 10% love
34-38 - 10% lust 90% love
38+ - 10000% love

Everything depends on a woman’s youth.
but the cougars 55+ dont do it for "LOVE" they do it for LUST as well. 100%
 

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Love.

If she loves you, you have her mind.

And once you have her mind, it will be like taking candy from a baby. :devil:
 

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Love is far more valuable, because it's scarce. You can walk up to a girl and appear confident, then she feels lust. Nothing special about it.
 
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