Gonna have to turn a girl down today

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Married woman, only shows up on the app when the hubby is gone. Has a kid in the house. Not gonna do it. Lots of reasons but #1 is what if the guy finds out? Then he goes ballistic on me not her because she’s a perfect angel. Not worth it bros
 

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I wouldnt do it either (but for different reasons). Yeah, turn her down, I think its the right call.
 

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I agree . Great to see a brother making such a decision rather with his head instead of his D.

I salute you.

Let this be (yet) another life lessons for all of us: the vengeance of a bluepilled beta bytch is unmatched when its about p00sy. He WILL kill and do life to "defend her honour ". Your gut's been speaking to you.

In my native language they say a warned man gets twice the punishment...
 

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Don't get involved with marred women. It's messy, it's probably spells trouble, and all in all it's not worth it.

Plus, remember, whatever she's doing to her husband, ultimately she'd do the same to you.
 

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Thank you all for the support. I ended up blocking her. Women do it all the time, so I’ll take a play from their book.

I agree . Great to see a brother making such a decision rather with his head instead of his D.

I salute you.

Let this be (yet) another life lessons for all of us: the vengeance of a bluepilled beta bytch is unmatched when its about p00sy. He WILL kill and do life to "defend her honour ". Your gut's been speaking to you.

In my native language they say a warned man gets twice the punishment...
thanks, and yeah, that’s how I see it too. Guy could legit wanna kill me and succeed if he found out and put his mind to it.


Don't get involved with marred women. It's messy, it's probably spells trouble, and all in all it's not worth it.

Plus, remember, whatever she's doing to her husband, ultimately she'd do the same to you.
Yes well, imo ALL women are cheaters. Some are just ethically non-monogamous. I made peace with that fact, but it’s the crazy guys I watch out for
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I knew a friend in college and about 10 years after college he started dating a girl. This woman got a divorce from her ex-husband. I guess the ex-husband was a psycho and he didnt like she was dating this guy I knew from college. My friend from college had an apartment and she had her own place as well. He went home one night and the psycho was waiting for him in the apartment late at night. He murdered the guy I knew. The psycho ex-husband is in prison for life and they still havent found the body of the guy I knew. Great call by you for ditching this chick. Its just not worth it. If my college friend was here he would tell others to avoid situations like these im sure of.
That is horrible! Sorry for your loss, but it’s a good example of why we need to be careful as DJs… now I’m even freaked out because what if a girl doesn’t tell the truth? Don’t wanna be celibate but damn, harrowing tale
 

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Had a similar thing happen a couple of times. You definitely made the right call. Especially, if they have kids.
 

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Damn, it’s really grounding me hearing all this guys, thanks. I sometimes forget the world is quite a dangerous place
 

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Im gonna play devils advocate and say you should sling that pipe in their shared bed with the kid in the house.
 

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#1 don’t be a wife fker
#2 don’t date chicks from shady socio-economic backgrounds, and if you’re going to a woman’s place and it looks sketch it most likely is, leave.
#3 always check six, be situationally aware.
#4 learn to judge a woman’s character, it could save your life, even if it sucks to walk away.
 
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#1 don’t be a wife fker
#2 don’t date chicks from shady socio-economic backgrounds, and if you’re going to get place and it looks sketch it most likely is, leave.
#3 always check six, be situationally aware.
#4 learn to judge a woman’s character, it could save your life, even if it sucks to walk away.
Hard for me since I’m poor class
 

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Not everyone who is poor is sketch man. There are rock solid families in the hood, they may not be the majority, but they exist.
If I don’t date chicks from poor backgrounds I can’t date since I myself am poor
 

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#1 don’t be a wife fker
#2 don’t date chicks from shady socio-economic backgrounds, and if you’re going to a woman’s place and it looks sketch it most likely is, leave.
#3 always check six, be situationally aware.
#4 learn to judge a woman’s character, it could save your life, even if it sucks to walk away.
That's sound advice.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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