I agree 100%. I consider myself to be quite intelligent and I learned a long time back that I have no patience for superficial dumb chicks regardless of how hot they are.
For a drunken one nighter you can pretty much put up with anyone but when the morning comes it's just like your bad...
Yes it's a bad idea!
Let her find her own job!
Cognac you are displaying some pretty poor behaviour as of late. Your other post about paying for a girl's flight so she could come home for xmas was bad too.
Do you expect to get sex out of these women by helping them through their troubles...
I find the references that a BPD woman is like a drug, very interesting.
When I watch drug addiction shows like Intervention you see people become completely consumed by the drug. They are no longer themselves and it seems quite common that the friends and family are the enablers. Even though...
Well Thunder,
It's not like I've had many other problems with the guy. He's a bit of a grouchy f*cker sometimes but I'm used to that. This is the only time I've ever had a conflict with him personally.
I guess I've been a bit blind to the coke thing but as I said earlier another friend...
Thanks for the responses guys.
I texted him a simple "thanks" last night and haven't heard anything else from him.
Speaking with one of the other guys there I've learned that buddy does have a bit of a coke problem. Apparently whenever it is around he turns into a bit of a fiend. I'm...
Good advice ^^^^^^^^^^ up there. No compliments. Make her really work for that kind of thing.
The only thing I would add is that when she agrees to your invitation for drinks email her back with a "Good, I know a great place! I'll pick you up at ______"
That way you are taking the lead and...
Now that you are back in the game you should have the mindset that you are ALWAYS ready to meet someone. It's not something you turn on and off. You don't walk out the door thinking "OK now I'm trying to hook up." Just always be on your game. You never know.
When gauging a chicks interest...
Dude judging from the stuff you've posted above it sounds like you already ARE sucked back in.
No offense but the amount of time and analysis you are giving a headcase chick just for some pvssy is a little disturbing. The fact that she is your ex makes it even worse!
I don't get it.
Good work!
Do not talk about exes with her ever!
If she already has the trip planned to Vegas with other guy it's pretty tough to get in there now. Even if you did and she still goes on the trip that will probably mess with your head pretty good.
You were doing great with out even trying so...
Okay I know this is the wrong section to be posting this but I was hoping to get some "mature" responses to this problem. If it has to be moved I understand. Maybe if I make reference to some HB8's that we talked to that night it will be okay. :)
A few days ago I had a pretty big falling...
I'm a firm believer that marriages can be successful as long as the man consistently maintains the proper frame. The problem is that the majority of men have no clue how to do that and end up getting punked by their wives and the system.
These same unknowledgeable men then proceed to spout...
I think DonS is referring to the fact that you had to ask these questions as being bad.
You didn't pay for her flight = good
You ignored her texts when she started talking about her ex and her problems = good
You got some flirting in = good
You got her wishing she was home = good...
So how exactly is a brother or father supposed to be ok with his sister/daughter being a slvt?
fertileTurtle you speak as though you have it all figured out but wait until you are a father dude.
If slvttiness was socially acceptable then we wouldn't be having this conversation. It isn't...
The same way you find some girls hot and others not so much.....
Yet your buddy thinks "not so much" is his dream girl.....
Attraction is random.
It's fun.
Well I work with teenagers for a living and can tell you that they are extremely easy to influence. Turning problem kids around happens all the time where I work. They are surrounded by positive role models and other kids who buy into the system.
Maybe the OP should just ignore his sister...
She didn't cheat in my opinion. She wouldn't even call if she did.
She should be allowed to go out and celebrate with her friends after a graduation. The fact that she called is a display of respect in my opinion.
If she's a HB8 then she gets male attention wherever she goes. Drunk or...
Tell your buddies about your concerns and ask them for some help.
Next time you are together with your buddies and she is there start up a conversation with your buddies about some girl in high school who was a big slut.
Get your buddies to go along and agree that she is a total waste of time...
I think chronically single guys should be dating any woman they can get.
The idea being that even if she isn't really what you are looking for the mere fact that you are taking women out sets you up for more success.
Your mindset improves and you get social proof which tends to cause a...
Call her whenever you feel like hanging out. Don't get caught up in her games. You should be in control and run any game playing that is going on. :)
When you ask her out do it like this:
"Hey I'm going to xyz to do _____. It's going to be great!. Would you like to come along?"
Give...
I've only been married about a year and a half but it's been awesome. Sure there are ups and downs but never once had a 2nd thought about marriage.
Wife is great and still super fun to hang with.
I still go out and hang with my friends and do most of the stuff I used to except try to...
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