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The 1st list works with HB1's and HB2's or with your good looking gf on the day you propose and maybe your wedding day and that's about it.

Invites herself to come and then says only if you pay! Not a great start. These girls have a lot of nerve and not much class. She's using you for attention You should bust girls like that right away. Do it in a fun way but let her know who is boss.

Start to finish Big smiles and kino when you meet her Funny or interesting story about something that just happened to you recently. Gets the ball rolling. Keep the conversation light and fun. No talk about relationships, past ex's, or future dates Ask open ended questions. Let her do most of...

Take the high road dude! Losing your cool places you below her even if she's the one who did wrong. Best Revenge ever on the ex who dumped you

I've been in your position many times. The times I stayed with my gf I slowly became more and more bored until I eventually left her. The gf's that I left out of boredom were all great girls too. Some of them I still wonder about "what if". Others it took me being apart from them to...

Hey guys I've been thinking about this thread more this morning. I just want you guys to know I agree that I've been a bit of an a$$ but my intentions were to try and get back to the pupose of this post. I know I've been a little harsh but I've been trying to kick some arses back into shape...

The only reason I joined this thread is because I thought it had a different message. A good one. Yes I've heard of PTSD. A good friend was diagnosed with it and committed suicide last year. Weakest move ever! Peace

Never let yourself get used for pvssy.

Well Jitterbug and Katatonia Go back to page 1 and read the very first post again. Specifically the last paragraph. You might make a bit more sense of the direction I am taking. Here I'll do it for you: You see this thread was never suppose to go in this direction. In fact the OP even...

I take it you didn't read anything I wrote previously.

Well if that is the truth then I guess the guys who fall for the BPD's are f*cked in the head too then. Seriously. This is not normal behaviour. Like you say it is irrational. I think its funny that nobody wants to admit it.

Yes, don't be snoopy. I can tell you are on a slippery slope. You are already getting WAY too into this chick. The reason she was interested in the first place is because you were unavailable and cool. Now you are getting nervous, jealous, and obsessive. Chill out and quit thinking about...

You could've waved and kept walking but it's really no big deal. Don't over analyze. I wouldn't even bring it up again unless she's acting weird about it. If so ask her if that was her. Tell her your you need to get new glasses and sorry I should've said hi. No biggie.

I think this answer was the most accurate translation. I believe she is somewhat interested and likes your attention but is using the boyfriend as an out if she decides to change her mind. You can dance around with this chick forever and that's exactly what she wants. She wants to string...

Yes but learn their ways and use their craziness against them. Your attention is your currency. They NEED your attention to feel good about themselves. When she's acting up, pull back or walk away. When she cries or whines about it call her on her BS. Ask her why you should spend time with...

If she hasn't been resisting your advances up until now then it sounds like a matter of opportunity. This means the setting must be right and comfortable. I don't know what you have planned for your last date but you need to make sure the opportunity is there more than anything. Chances are...

Right on Smoothy it sounds like you've learned and are now better for the experience. Every guy makes mistakes with women along the line. Good on you for being honest and genuine.

I would say that you are right about it being too late. I wouldn't be surprised if when you get together to exchange gifts that she breaks up completely with you. Her interest level has fallen too low. When this happens it is next to impossible to bring it back up. She has already altered...

SmoothTalker I am in no way trying to discount you or anyone's terrible experiences with BPD women. I'm sure it can be hell. The point I take issue with is when she starts acting up and the guy allows it to happen. As you say you are telling your friends tales of her insanity and they don't...

This is where I call bullsh!t! I don't get how you can use that example. Unless it's the first time you've ever dated ANY woman before it's not like went into your BPD experience totally oblivious. If things are SO unbelievably great in those first few weeks or months and you feel so...