I am starting to see a general pattern. I have noticed that guys generally attract females that are similar to themselves. Guys have a certain niche of girls that are attracted to that type of personality.
The pattern I see is that chemistry happens between people that have complementing personalities. It seems that introspective girls are attracted to introspective guys. Average intelligence superficial girls are attracted to average intelligence superficial guys. Dysfunctional types generally attract dysfunctional chicks. Nerdy guys usually end up with pretty nerdy girlfriends. Opposites don't attract, likeness attract. A very well read, introspective, interesting guy is not going to vibe very well with your average superficial club chick. He can fake it for a while but there will not be true chemistry.
People have to have the same sense of humor which often comes from having the same level of intelligence. A female also has to see the same things as valuable that you do or else any conversation outside of game will seem forced and awkward. I predict that many intelligent and interesting decent looking guys that have women problems are going after the wrong type of girls.
What I am trying to say is that do you guys see any patterns to who you more easily attract based on your personality? Doesn’t it seem like guys often have a certain niche of female that they are most successful with? If you take them out of this niche and surround them with girls of a different socioeconomic class or just a different level of intelligence they don’t do nearly as well. Its like night and day. This causes most of a problem for well adjusted intelligent guys because its hard to find well adjusted intelligent young females.
The pattern I see is that chemistry happens between people that have complementing personalities. It seems that introspective girls are attracted to introspective guys. Average intelligence superficial girls are attracted to average intelligence superficial guys. Dysfunctional types generally attract dysfunctional chicks. Nerdy guys usually end up with pretty nerdy girlfriends. Opposites don't attract, likeness attract. A very well read, introspective, interesting guy is not going to vibe very well with your average superficial club chick. He can fake it for a while but there will not be true chemistry.
People have to have the same sense of humor which often comes from having the same level of intelligence. A female also has to see the same things as valuable that you do or else any conversation outside of game will seem forced and awkward. I predict that many intelligent and interesting decent looking guys that have women problems are going after the wrong type of girls.
What I am trying to say is that do you guys see any patterns to who you more easily attract based on your personality? Doesn’t it seem like guys often have a certain niche of female that they are most successful with? If you take them out of this niche and surround them with girls of a different socioeconomic class or just a different level of intelligence they don’t do nearly as well. Its like night and day. This causes most of a problem for well adjusted intelligent guys because its hard to find well adjusted intelligent young females.