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Ha Ha! You just described the old me. Tried wifing up, and seeking the approval of every dumb bish who came up to ME. Had no game, knowledge, or self-esteem AT ALL. A lot of these girls were very attractive, and acted as the OP described... for a time. Once you show inferiority, focus on them...

You forgot option C, Alex: She doesn't give a **** if she has a BF, and is willing to cheat - then go back to him as if nothing happened. This is most common, IME. She'll come on strong; all about the sex... then act like she doesn't want a relationship, or to date... maybe acting like...

That's because the topic is always the same, but by different people. I was responding to a particular comment / poster, so it has nothing to do with online dating per se. Dude said he was afraid of hotties - I told him to knock it off, 'cause most of them are ****... for the same reason that...

I used to be like this, until I realized that most of them aren't worth a damn. Then it changed from fear to disgust & not giving a ****. Which, ironically, works to attract them... which just makes you respect them less. Same with all those douchey fags who think they're cool by acting like...

I knew this thread would be a lolfest... definitely didn't disappoint. :rockon:

I don't disagree, but you're describing how any abusive / controlling / manipulative person operates. These people are aggressive, forward, seductive, and charming. They always go in and get what they want, and are very selfish about it. They MUST have their way, and be in control - otherwise...

Agreed. Most bullies and *******s are not attractive, but they LOVE to claim higher status than everyone else. I used to hang out with losers like these all the time. All they do is brag, attack, control, down-size, judge, compete, talk ****, and pretend. They're not happy, attractive, talented...

Yes. What you see is what you get. People usually don't change, and likely always were and will continue to be as they are. These patterns never change. This is why you must NOT sympathize with "bad" people, and learn to become a good judge of character. Don't excuse or justify ****, or fall for...

Great post, Mike. Like I always say - it's very similar in real-life, too. A chick might be head over heels with lust and infatuation based on what she perceives, and how she WANTS things to be. Then, when that doesn't match reality, and you aren't PERFECT - she starts tearing you down and...

Well, if a girl like this digs you - they'll be trying to have sex with YOU after the first little while. But you don't want to be super aggressive with sex right off the bat. Just talk to them, and see how you vibe. Don't try to define or set up anything. I don't have a lot of experience in...

Gotta agree with this. Honestly, most of the kind of hot girls the OP described are NOT into the relationship game. Yea, they date and get involved, but it's usually not the healthy, loving, quality LTR type - because it's not what they seek after. All the complaining they do about LTR's and...

Gotta agree with the fella's. Don't assume that all the guys just want sex, and she's not into that, either. I used to think this, too, and "get to know" various hotties - because they COMPLAINED that all guys just wanted sex, and are bad boy players. Big mistake. Truth is, a lot of these hot...

Agreed... Then there's also laziness and entitlement issues. Not much different from good looking women, really. Can't rely on looks alone... at least beyond the initial stages.

100%. A lot of "hot" girls know what their value is, and how to exploit that. Bishes aren't dumb. They play this game, too. Hell, they're all up in it. They know it's all about looks, value, status, perception, etc, and all the things they need to do to be on top (ie, be a challenge, have...

Boiler has a good point, but there's too much assuming going on. Namely, that these girls are going to fall for these lies. As you get older and have more life experience - you tend to be able to spot this **** easier, and not fall prey to lies and manipulations... as they've already gone...

You just answered your own question. And what blue said. Attraction is definitely universal, and "good" qualities don't mean much to either gender. This never changes, really. You just tend to "settle" later - once you realize that these patterns aren't going to change with these types. Most...

Sounds like you made the common mistake of going to the extreme of being a selfish jerk. This is what a lot of former nice guys do. But it only works to attract them over the short-term (ie, during the chase). They end up HATING you for it, but still attracted nonetheless. Gotta balance it out...

Heh... Syrio is definitely trolling. Put it way out there with the last post. Think he / she is doing it on purpose now.

Yes... like I said earlier - results are results. You don't necessarily have to get in / out, just as you don't have to be a jerk. But the results are still the same, and you can get it quicker by "playing" them. It all depends on your intentions, really, but nothing lasts with certain girls...

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