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Hmmmm... are you gonna become one of those "creepy" guys who starts making female profiles on dating websites - then posting the results for everyone to see? Going all psychotic over how unfair it is, and how you want all that ****, too... Or maybe BECOMING a woman, since you seem to indicate...

Yea... WAY too much pursuing on your part. When they start flaking, not responding, and making up excuses - it's because they lost interest. And when they go from very high to extremely low interest in a short amount of time like this - it's almost guaranteed that you're coming on too strong and...

Agreed... There's too much extreme thinking in this thread, and **** got all messed up in the process. Jerk game does work, and is different from being an actual jerk, yes. I always say (or used to): develop jerk-like traits without being an actual jerk. Hot girls are definitely on another...

Agreed. Mindset really makes a world of difference, in how the whole situation will play out. From being nervous to desperate to fear of rejection to wearing your heart on a sleeve to co-dependancy to one-itis to being a chump to heart-break to becoming bitter... it ALL starts with your mindset...

There's a HUGE grey area in all of this, and a lot of it depends on your look / behavior / attitude. Being courteous and respectful doesn't mean Mr. Rogers, or your walk of the mill, all-around decent guy. It's blended in with everything else. And I wish people would stop acting like they...

Yea... a lot of trashy, low SE, DTF chicks definitely go for the pretenders and *******s. But this is a lot of women, and when you consider that most men just want to bang trashy hotties, or be "cool" and "high class" it makes sense to act as they do. It always comes down to who they're...

Indeed... they notice a LOT of ****, and aren't as oblivious or innocent as they lead on. The real problem with being weak or afraid, though, is when they try to take advantage of you, or treat you like crap. Couldn't care less about being rejected. Gotta watch for them predatory bishes.

Word! I think going the bully / assh0le route is simply easier, and provides the same results. And not a lot of people have a lot of genuine value to provide, so they resort to making everyone feel inferior instead. Used to hang out with, and "look up to" these sad sacks of dog**** - before...

Might just be a needy, low self-esteem skank. Welcome to online dating... Ha Ha.

How come every male with a red reputation bar has the exact same personality, mindset, and bitter-failed experiences - which result in continuous whining about women; calling them bishes and assh0le lovers, and shallow wh0res who only care about "teh lookz"... Then they start attacking all board...

Like I always say - too much, too soon. Just because she shows high interest initially, and is head over heels, and eager to see you - does NOT mean everything is in the bag, and you can "ride the momentum" - by setting up all these back to back dates and revealing your interest, etc. This is...

I don't know where all this treating women like trash talk comes from, 'cause it's not true. You just have to be not so "nice" and available / needy / accommodating. Being a gentleman or even sweet isn't a turn off. But you don't want to be too serious or show too much interest, either. Being a...

Incorrect... It's not these things are irrelevant - they just don't matter if the guy is unattractive to them. Kind of like these qualities wouldn't matter to you, either. What are these high quality women you speak of? The HOT, shallow ones who chase after equal-minded douchebags? If anything...

That first sentence made my day. Funny ****. :crackup:

Sounds like you might be caring too much, and taking things too seriously. Just gotta realize that it IS all a game - and to not give a ****. Just gotta have fun and live life. Don't get tangled up in the stresses of how things are. Nobody wants things to be how they are - even outside of the...

Yes, I have. Hell no, it's not worth pursuing. These girls are extremely conceited, stuck up, and high maintenance. Fiercely independent with double standards out the ass. They "hate" being controlled, but LOVE controlling, manipulating, and abusing others. Not giving a **** works for a while...

Agreed... As always, this applies to "friendships" and other factors of life, as well. Don't act weak, needy, insecure, desperate, or dependable on ANYONE. Don't share all your weaknesses and failures in hopes of gaining support, understanding, and respect. Get that inferior, approval-seeking...

Agreed... a lot. Experienced the same thing many a time. And vice versa for the girls. A hot decent girl who acted pushy, showed too much interest, and wanted an LTR / became too comfortable early on didn't attract me for very long, but a bish with "game" sure had me going... even though she was...

There sure are a lot of fights on here lately. :D Art: Definitely agree that like attracts like, and that you attract what you are (or project). 100%. Even in regards to friendships. This is why you MUST become a good judge character, have standards, make wise decisions, and lead your own...

Ha Ha. Nice post count, btw. :kick: Personally, I always attracted younger girls since they're shallow and retarded, and I had the goods to attract them. Spent a LOT of time with the younger crowd - only to hate them all. Dunno why all the generalizing... just stating the facts. :confused: