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My thoughts exactly... how could you NOT know any of this beforehand? ****, I find out this kind of crap real early on - then avoid and sympathize like a dumbass. But I still find out - then the chaos ensues. Things like daddy issues, past relationships, why they have so much baggage, their...

Word, guys... When it comes to women, the ego and competition comes into full force. This is what defines a lot of guys out there - since they're empty and useless, and think it defines their manhood. Most guys can't attract **** for women, so they brag (see: lie) and attack those who can and do...

Word... but don't go for obvious low-interest girls, or hang around longer than you are wanted. It should still be pretty mutual. Even as a guy who never had to approach due to innate good looks, I still would recommend approaching yourself. Because, just like with guys, the girls who...

Don't disagree, but it's best to just not listen to anything women say (in regards to their "wants"), and follow what they respond to. Which, as you say, is usually the same thing they claim to hate. Can't go overboard with this stuff, though, or provide too much negative energy. It also depends...

Agree with the rest... heard the same crap before. There's something you said or did that suggested you want a relationship, and she lost interest. And you're still reassuring her that she's fine, you like her as she is, want to pursue her regardless... blah blah. Just making her like you less...

I wouldn't call them beta... more like douchebag wanna-be players who thought they were hot ****. Here's what I learned about people... nobody wants to see you rise above them, and prefer you remain below them... the more success you acquire - the more they will try to sabotage, tear you...

I used to think like this - then I realized that a lot of the older chicks were just as shallow, childish, and retarded... except they weren't as attractive. They weren't AS bad, of course, but still. I look at everything from an individual perspective now, and focusing on types more than...

Not the classic macho-tough guy, just a man. Take the womans thoughts/feelings into consideration but when it comes down to it you must take the lead and show her that you are in control. Yes... Contrary to popular belief, women don't respond as favorably to testosterone-driven, "big", macho...

This made me lol. Good stuff. :crackup:

Once guys realize that women are no different than them - the better off they'll be. They're just as shallow, egotistical, competitive, looks- and status-obsessed. Hell, most of them even ACT like men. Especially the hot ones who are always hanging around them, and their prissy, stuck up girl...

Hmmmmmm.... looks without action means nothing. You can be social, out-going, stand out in different ways, etc... people will look, maybe try to decipher you, find you intriguing (or annoying and retarded as hell), but that doesn't mean they like you. This has been my experience... with men. Ha...

You just gotta do it. Learn self-control. Getting burned and having trust issues actually helps in this regard. You care less, don't push as hard, act more indifferent, have more independence, etc... and now that you DON'T care (as much) - people are starting to show interest in YOU. Of course...

Agreed... and it works both ways. Just because x and y DIDN'T work for this guy - doesn't mean it won't work for anyone... even though they would like to think, or even have that be the case. Everyone likes to be right, and on the same footing, I guess. :kick:

Agree with the others... This is a complete NON-issue, and should not be on your mind at all. It's an unnecessary fear based on assumption, and WILL hold you back, and make you feel inferior and undeserving. You never want to go in with a failure or self-doubt mindset. I used to be deeply...

Just remember that she fears losing you... for HER. You don't necessarily have to milk this out; keep her walking on eggshells, or manipulate it to your agenda... and probably shouldn't, 'cause it's garbage (had it done a few times before, so I know how it feels), but the position itself is...

Same! As soon as he mentioned his "friend" in Atlanta, and how this "friend" said it was no good. Then the usual racial BS.

That I can agree with... even from the beginning. Just don't take it too far, or you'll attract needy, crazy *****es.

Sounds like a case of bitter projection... but there's a flaw in this theory: acting in this manner only attracts the kind of women you hate. Y'know, the low self-esteem, negative / unhappy, game-playing, drama queen crazies. Like attracts like. Becoming an ******* to ward off *******s only...

What's sad is that, once their initial perception DOESN'T match reality - they lose interest. It's not you or even your looks they care about (beyond sex, anyway), but your status and value they assume you to have as a result of it. That's why faking it until you make it isn't the worst idea...

Agree with MrNG.