77% Guys Have AA - 74% Women Notice

[Eph]

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77% of men report nervousness when meeting an attractive woman for the first time. 74% of women notice when guys are nervous.
Top three things they notice? Fumbling, speechlessness, and avoiding eye contact.
54% of women are TURNED OFF by nervousness.

Thought this was interesting, even though it just reinforces everything taught here: if your not comfortable in your own skin or confident in your own abilities, why should she be? Thoughts?

 

[Uncharted]

Well I don't really put any stock into those things, but I do know that I'm pretty confident. I've been told that by numerous women, so I guess I'm in the minority.

Total 180 from my younger high school years though. I stopped caring when I hit 22.

 

[skinnyguy]

I don't get sweaty or nervous when I approach a hot girl.

They just turn me down cause I'm not an alpha douchebag. If my IQ were 40 points lower and my looks were better, I'd have a harem of women eating out of my hands.

Anyway, you can solve the nervousness issue but that by no means you'll start cleaning up.

 

[floydb25]

Indeed... they notice a LOT of ****, and aren't as oblivious or innocent as they lead on. The real problem with being weak or afraid, though, is when they try to take advantage of you, or treat you like crap. Couldn't care less about being rejected.

Gotta watch for them predatory bishes.

 

[Tomthebomb]

loved reading this and knowing im part of the 23%, it wasn't the case a few years ago as a teenager. the thought of being scared of a women (a little girl) i now find hilarious. if anyone ever gets those thoughts in their head and starts to put some women on a pedestal just think...this chick would love nothing more right now than to be bent over, have her hair pulled, and be f.u.c.ked from behind.

 

[Tictac]

62.3% of statistics (especially in advertising) are made up on the spot.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Welp... that's what happens when you place women on a pedestal and actually care what they think of you. :crackup:

Any man who wants to stop being nervous around hot women need only to stop inflating their value.

Fun Fact --> Anytime you're nervous, you are outcome dependent.

If you are outcome dependent.. its because you have a scarcity mindset --> Belief that you have a RARE (and important) opportunity in front of you.

Once you embrace the idea that it doesn't matter what happens with any particular woman.. you're nerves will evaporate and you will be in a ZEN state.

Dealing with women is a ride.. not a battle (provided you don't get married). Take it in, observe, play, f*ck around, etc.

 

[zekko]

The problem with this link is that it's an advertisement.

Does anyone actually believe that line that girls are getting hotter? With the obesity epidemic, I have to doubt it. All the fatties might make the skinny ones look even better though.

 

[instantnoodles]

I used to be nervous around guys at my school (personal shy thing). But whenever they spoke to me, I tried not to care (because I didn't.... I don't know who you are :crackup Some of them stopped talking to me and some begged for me to at least ask for their name.

It's not like the purpose of school is for guys anyway...it's for my career

In my opinion, I WANT to be somewhat nervous around the women I meet.

Hotties make me nervous--as they SHOULD.

The uglies and the fatties? No nervousness.

ANYTHING in this life worth striving for, in my opinion, should make a person nervous.

Just why should you let an HB+ take over your consciousness and your poise ? Never. They're just another person, even if they think they're hot sh1T!

Never place them above you but don't place them below you

Some hot 9/10 guy approached me today at the library. I didn't even look at him and he's yapping away. The fact that I already have a guy makes it SO much easier to not care. I guess this is why the usual perception that "people hit on you more when you don't have a gf/bf" is kinda true because of how you feel inside when you have one

BTW he still gawks at me LoL

 

[instantnoodles]

First off--and this is my OPINION--women Care clueless about what men go through to attract women.

I'm not sure if you actually ARE a woman...you never know...there are a lot of fake profiles on this site--but I'll play along and just assume that you are a woman.

Truth is, most men ARE nervous around gorgeous women...but it's how they choose to HANDLE the nervousness that makes all the difference.

Some guys IGNORE the hotties and settle for the emotional safety of the lesser attractive types, fatties, or uglies.

Other guys mask their nervousness through pseudo-confidence or even ****iness..."She's just another person." Or "I don't pedestalize women." I don't adhere to that mindset. I am FASCINATED by gorgeous women. I RESPECT the hotties and treat them as such.

The difference is, I choose to channel that nervousness into positive energy.

As you can see from my join date, and if you've read my other posts, I've been doing this for a LONG time...I've been on enough dates and have been with enough women to KNOW how to keep maintain my poise.

Again--ANYTHING worth going after in this life SHOULD involve nervousness...should involve risk...should involve discomfort...you say you have a boyfriend....if the thought of him never leaving you doesn't make you nervous, then you're probably not aiming high enough.

Woah, chill out, Lil Chump. :crackup:

Did I attack you? Nope, I simply offered my stance on this topic.

Of course I don't want to lose him...but if he leaves? That was HIS choice! He didn't want to stay with me or blew his promise. I can even question his feelings! That's HIS PROBLEM. I will never ruin my life over anyone who makes a reckless and selfish choice, whether it's him, my family or my best friends.

Any other reason, I am scared for. Such as "What if he dies?! What if he doesn't take care of his sight properly?? What if he gets sick? " These are the ONLY reasons you should be deathly scared of - TERRIFIED OF.

I have a story it might provide some understanding as to what I'm talking about.

Back in grade 10, I knew this one guy who was a loner. His only friend was me. I didn't mind, we were young and I didn't want to date in high school, i was busy with my studies.

Anyways, he was also depressed. I was there for him whenever i could be, like a friend. One day, he killed himself - he committed suicide on the front lawn of our school. Everyone was sad for weeks.

Guess what? I wasn't.

Sure, I missed him. But at the ceremony, when everyone made a speech, I said "I will never mope around like everyone is. Why? Because he made a SELFISH CHOICE. I could've BEEN there for him. I could've helped him even MORE. But no. He left MY LIFE by killing himself. He didn't think about the ones who loved him. His family? His friends? Me His brother? His long distance girlfriend? How could he do that?! And I'm still sorry it happened. "

Everyone was shocked at my answer. But they knew i was right.

I was young then; but i guess i kind of have the same philosophy now. Point is, you can't stop anyone. Ever.

 

[Eph]

The problem with this link is that it's an advertisement.

Does anyone actually believe that line that girls are getting hotter? With the obesity epidemic, I have to doubt it. All the fatties might make the skinny ones look even better though.

Actually hotter? No. It's all just more make up and tighter and shorter clothes. However, whatever the case. Women are perceived as hotter - because of all the extra make up and clothes.

Ad or not, the statistics - even if off - seem to be about right. How many guys out there are raised by single mothers and learn to put pedestal women on a pedestal? The majority of men are beta, AFC, whatever you want to call it and it makes sense that the majority get nervous around attractive women. Just my 2 cents :/

 

[Smok1nAce]

WOW really is SS this stupid to actually have a discussion on "Body Spray" statistics, :crackup: "girls are getting hotter", lol what type of **** is this. nooo they jus dress with less and less class.

 

[btownbuck2012]

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77% of men report nervousness when meeting an attractive woman for the first time. 74% of women notice when guys are nervous.
Top three things they notice? Fumbling, speechlessness, and avoiding eye contact.
54% of women are TURNED OFF by nervousness.

Thought this was interesting, even though it just reinforces everything taught here: if your not comfortable in your own skin or confident in your own abilities, why should she be? Thoughts?

that's all accurate, but i'm sick and tired of reading about how if you're not xyz than she won't be blah blah blah. Stop giving a sh!t about what she thinks of you and just keep trying to meet more women. (not talking directly at you, OP. Just saying in general). It's not about being perfect, it's about being persistent.

And so what if he's a little nervous? So the f*ck what? Does the woman he's talking to crap vanilla ice cream? It's crazy how so much pressure and emphasis is put on men to tap dance to these women, most of whom aren't worth the time of day. Again, perfection isn't the goal, being consistent is.

 

[floydb25]

Welp... that's what happens when you place women on a pedestal and actually care what they think of you. :crackup:

Any man who wants to stop being nervous around hot women need only to stop inflating their value.

Fun Fact --> Anytime you're nervous, you are outcome dependent.

If you are outcome dependent.. its because you have a scarcity mindset --> Belief that you have a RARE (and important) opportunity in front of you.

Once you embrace the idea that it doesn't matter what happens with any particular woman.. you're nerves will evaporate and you will be in a ZEN state.

Dealing with women is a ride.. not a battle (provided you don't get married). Take it in, observe, play, f*ck around, etc.

Agreed. Mindset really makes a world of difference, in how the whole situation will play out. From being nervous to desperate to fear of rejection to wearing your heart on a sleeve to co-dependancy to one-itis to being a chump to heart-break to becoming bitter... it ALL starts with your mindset, and the value you place on yourself vs others. If you place others above you, and suffer from low SE, and have approval-seeking tendencies - you are so ****ed in this world. Gotta fix that ASAP, and develop your self-confidence... or these patterns will never change - even outside of dating and women. People will NOT respect or value you until you do yourself. No time for weakness, whining, and "woe is me" ****. People will look DOWN on you for it, and treat you like a loser - then treat you even WORSE for tolerating it. Can't be like this.