Why Do We Keep Going For Low Value B@tches?

soulforge

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it seems to me, we have so many guys on here complaining about how there girlfriend was or is a complete f@cking low life bitcch (i am one of them lol)

but why do we keep going for these type of woman?

when i first met my ex girlfriend, within a couple of months i realized i was playing with fire... i realized she was low value & major red flags popping up, but i just carried on, convincing myself that i was in control...

what is it we are attracted to? for me, it was pure lust... dirty filthy sex, with a hot attractive woman... also an ego boost, to have a hot woman on my arm

but these woman rarely have any other qualities, other than there vagina's


even now, if i was to go out to look for a woman... i would still be attracted to the hot slutty type

why do we not go for wholesome average woman?

i am starting to believe it is safer to have a relationship with an average looking girl... than to be with a hot woman... who believes she is better than you, or can do better than you
 

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soulforge said:
why do we not go for wholesome average woman?

i am starting to believe it is safer to have a relationship with an average looking girl... than to be with a hot woman... who believes she is better than you, or can do better than you
the only reason that average girls are usually normal is because they're not in super high demand and have no reason to think they're the s***

if they were then they would
 

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Even though these women are obviously LOW VALUE, they can still project FALSE VALUE. What we're falling for is false, but it FEELS the same as Real.
Women are guilty the same way, of going after ex-felons/outlaw bikers/jerks. Anybody with two neurons firing can see those guys are toxic, but they project something that is totally addictive.
The difference bewteen men and women is that we're logical enough to understand what we're doing. Women haven't a clue.
 

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You just answered your own question. And what blue said. Attraction is definitely universal, and "good" qualities don't mean much to either gender. This never changes, really. You just tend to "settle" later - once you realize that these patterns aren't going to change with these types.

Most people get into the "game" specifically so they can land the high class hotties or the trashy DTF chicks - without realizing how ****ty all those women are. It's nothing more than the grass is greener symptom; pedestalizing the idea of being in-demand and attracting what they couldn't before. Then, once they get there, they complain about how ****ty all these women they wanted are, and all the nonsensical **** they have to do to attract them. Then all the drama, games, fighting, cheating, power struggles, and emotional chaos that comes with the territory.

People want the best of everything (and to be "best of their class") with minimal effort and no consequence. Doesn't work that way, unfortunately. Most people learn this the hard way.
 

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Word most of the times its excellent marketing and advertising. Then we come to find out the product is horrible! These b1tches are good at acting like something they're not, then down the line we see their true slutty ass selves.

Sometimes it can be guys with low self esteem and approval seeking dudes/captain save-a-h0es who want these low quality females
 

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youngmack said:
Word most of the times its excellent marketing and advertising. Then we come to find out the product is horrible! These b1tches are good at acting like something they're not, then down the line we see their true slutty ass selves.

Sometimes it can be guys with low self esteem and approval seeking dudes/captain save-a-h0es who want these low quality females
100%. A lot of "hot" girls know what their value is, and how to exploit that. Bishes aren't dumb. They play this game, too. Hell, they're all up in it. They know it's all about looks, value, status, perception, etc, and all the things they need to do to be on top (ie, be a challenge, have options, not give a ****, etc).

I think a lot of them also know that deep down they suck at life and have nothing to offer, and stick with the only thing they're good at. It's their whole life.
 

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youngmack said:
Word most of the times its excellent marketing and advertising. Then we come to find out the product is horrible! These b1tches are good at acting like something they're not, then down the line we see their true slutty ass selves.

Sometimes it can be guys with low self esteem and approval seeking dudes/captain save-a-h0es who want these low quality females


excellent marketing & advertising... i like that description! and it rings so true..


when i met my ex, at first i thought i had struck gold... but as the novelty wore & with some time, i realized that i had bagged a f@cking turd with big tiits

and these woman always know they have so many other options, so you have to work your ass off, gaming the fu@k out of her.. in order to keep pounding that pusssy

the minute you slip, or lose your frame... that b@tch is gone
 

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floydb25 said:
100%. A lot of "hot" girls know what their value is, and how to exploit that. Bishes aren't dumb. They play this game, too. Hell, they're all up in it. They know it's all about looks, value, status, perception, etc, and all the things they need to do to be on top (ie, be a challenge, have options, not give a ****, etc).

I think a lot of them also know that deep down they suck at life and have nothing to offer, and stick with the only thing they're good at. It's their whole life.

Exactly bro, this sh1t is sickening
 

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soulforge said:
excellent marketing & advertising... i like that description! and it rings so true..


when i met my ex, at first i thought i had struck gold... but as the novelty wore & with some time, i realized that i had bagged a f@cking turd with big tiits

and these woman always know they have so many other options, so you have to work your ass off, gaming the fu@k out of her.. in order to keep pounding that pusssy

the minute you slip, or lose your frame... that b@tch is gone

Took the words right out of my mouth. Both my ex were exactly like this too. I regret every minute of it. I'm done getting into relationships bro. I'm just focusing on me and let the girls come to me
 

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youngmack said:
Took the words right out of my mouth. Both my ex were exactly like this too. I regret every minute of it. I'm done getting into relationships bro. I'm just focusing on me and let the girls come to me


you do right young mack... be the best person you can be! do it for yourself & not for some slut

i intend to do the same... get back in the gym & hit the weights hard.. i have always been into training & healthy eating... just lost my focus recently (bi@ches can do that to you)


these low value woman are only out for themselves & what they can gain... they have no sense of loyalty at all

the moment a better deal comes along, trust me bro, they are f@cking gone!
 

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It's because most women today are low value bishes. You'll have to be vegas casino lucky to meet a high quality girl now-a-day.
 

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bluenorther said:
Even though these women are obviously LOW VALUE, they can still project FALSE VALUE. What we're falling for is false, but it FEELS the same as Real.
Women are guilty the same way, of going after ex-felons/outlaw bikers/jerks. Anybody with two neurons firing can see those guys are toxic, but they project something that is totally addictive.
The difference bewteen men and women is that we're logical enough to understand what we're doing. Women haven't a clue.

What they project is CHALLENGE! Just like MEN like a challenge WOMAN do too.

But yes I agree these broads neurons are not firing correctly. Believe it or not these bikers {not necessarily outlaws} are pretty much alpha/beta/jerks to their old ladies. They can also be highly emotional and these screwy chicks eat up on that. More than anything these broads thrive off the social aspect, it's like an additional big social family. STATUS

I have had the same issue that I've tried to stay away from for many years and that's being "Captain save a h0e!" But I must admit the wholesome average woman can be boring as fvck....

You nailed it though woman do not have a choice in what they are attracted to. One thing I can definitely agree with you is to stay clear away from bishes that are attracted to bikers/jerks. I grew up witnessing this and have experienced it in adulthood as well. I'm not going to lie though I love riding and it has gotten me laid a lot so fvck it. I'll be riding for life.

Broads like this are low hanging fruit, they will suck you in and spit you out.
Have your fun and get the f-out, never get involved with them. Besides most of them are nasty/slvts from hell!
 

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the 'low value women' thing is a bit of a misnomer, sure there are classless svts but they are pretty easy to spot.
there is a larger group of women, what most of us would view as being worth more of our investment. they are the real players in life. dressing well, sexy, make up, they know how to attract...note that, they know how to attract, what works to attract men, not a man, men!
each woman is a walking car lot, they are all salespeople. they realise men are logical but we are also weak in terms of looks and the goods they have on display, these goods can and often do, override our logic.
each woman has a brochure, a portfolio if you like. We need to realise that 'new car smell' doesnt last, at some point things about the car will dissapoint you, you may still like the car very much, but its doesnt quite live up to the sales pitch. so it is with women, more so in many cases.
Unlike a new car, women usually have a significant history and if you knew it all, you probably wouldnt be so blown over by her.

why do we keep going after them? thats obvious, the goods are fine and we desire them. nothing wrong with that, its how we handle ourselves is were the problem lies, investing too much, too soon, failing to screen the woman. she isnt going to change so we need to be more vigilant, women dont do what they do out of malice, they are what they are, they have been this way through all history, its just the way they are.
 

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pure lust... dirty filthy sex, with a hot attractive woman..

I think all of us find value in that. I know I do. If women are only good for sex, then you might as well be with the ones who are the best at it.
 
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