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Been texting this girl at work for a while now. Since Corona we're stuck at home, but we're in a mutual group chat as well with other colleagues. During the day, whenever I haven't heard from her yet and she says someone in that group, but not to me in private, I feel worthless. I feel like she...

I'm starting to realize they all have some problems (but so do I though). Went out with a female friend couple of weeks back, she has a boyfriend, wouldn't mind to bang her once but have no real interest in her. She started telling me stuff like "I can get up one day and decide it's over with my...

How do you act around them?

Beats having no friends from the female kind at all. I realize for myself I can't be friends with a girl who I have the slightest sexual interest in, but this just sucks. It makes me think I have no value at all to any kind of woman. This situation at work which I try to keep as short as...

Due to the Corona virus, all gyms in my country are closed for at least three weeks. I can't even go to a shop to buy weights as they've been closed as well. I've been making some great progress lately and dread the fact that it will all go to waste, so I would like to minimize the losses. -...

For those wondering what the events are that pushed me into this, I've bumped another thread I made a while back with an update "don't know what is going on with this girl (and myself)".

I've started a thread recently about looking for professional help, in that people asked what the events were that made me consider this. So I decided to post an update and tell you a bit more what is going on in my mind. Since my last post, we still continued to text. And at work we still act...

Due to some events the last month and a half, I've come to realize my mind is completely fvcked up and I tend to give it what it thinks is happening. Even though I realize what is going on and I know what I have to do (or should do), I can't fight it. Therefore I do think it's time for me to...

Great post One thing about the migraine, if it really was the case that she had an attack, I fully understand that she would cancel. I myself suffer occasionally from it (and even have the worst form as it comes with 'auras'). But migraine by itself is not just a headache as many people...

An update I've come to the realization that she indeed just needs validation/attention. Some things to clarify: On friday I texted her that the weather would be nice to have a drink on her terrace (she sended me pictures of her place before). It was an honest text, I didn't mean anything about...

I sincerely appreciate all the responses here, but I hate the totally opposite opinions. As I said I'm easily influenced by outside events and things I read, I honestly have no integrity or own opinion whatsoever, I tend to go with my feeling and tend to go for the negative ones. And about...

Number 1 strikes me quite hard, albeit that I'm a very negative thinker. But it makes sense though. Today I saw her on her phone and just asked her something, she immediately put away her phone and started talking with very strong eye contact. And after a few days of not texting, she has just...

Met this girl at work, together for a course for half a year but afterwards will work at different places but still see each other from time to time. First weeks of the course (about 2 months back) all was ok, we talked a bit, not that much as I'm still 'intimidated' by beautiful girls. But I...

I absolutely believe you have to have a purpose, but I can't seem to find any in my life. I have a great career, one I absolutely love, I've basically made my hobby into my career. I want to pick up an extreme sport, but then again it's a sport you can only do in good weather conditions and not...

This part struck me quite hard. I am quite fit (can always be better, but am far above the average guy) and am somewhat succesful (I earn 3 times the average of my country). But I can't get any girls because I'm very needy. Short story to elaborate, met this girl a couple of weeks back at work...

I've always wanted to live in the vicinity of where I live now, mainly because of family and friends. But even on this anonymous forum, it's very hard for me to say I'm 31 and still live with my mom (for personal and family reasons like last kid out of the house, father died at 12 etc...). But...

Don't overdo it. 1000 calories deficit per day is A LOT and too much. I don't know your current stats but aim for a 300 calorie deficit and allow yourself one cheat day a week. Weigh yourself once a week at the same time and same routine (morning after passing by the toilet) and adjust the...

Link to the research?

I don't agree. This is purely because of how it ended and how I don't understand that out of all woman, she dumped me. She had other boyfriends in the meantime, I honestly didn't care she was banging them. I just need this to be closed and I think the only way is like that.

Hi guys This is going to be a long post so please bare with me. Lately I've been posting a lot of threads. I've been noticing a tendency in my behaviour on this forum and it's always the same. I tend to post some threads for a while, basically always about the same stuff deep down, but in...