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    Like my job, not the hours

    The job earns more than double of what is average in my country. I have a diploma (not in what I am doing now), but that will earn me only 1/4 or maybe 1/3 of what I have now. When I work during the weekend, I get days off during the week somewhere else. On sunday I get payed 150%, at night as...
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    Like my job, not the hours

    I truly love my job, but I have a very irregular work roster. One day I work long nights, the other in the morning, the other in the evening. But I also have to work on saturday and sunday. Which leads to the fact that sometimes I can join my friends for a drink, but can't stay long because I...
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    Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)

    I've recently done it for two weeks. The first 9 days I felt oke, perhaps indeed a bit better than normal, but after those 9 days I felt back to my normal self. Now I'm on a 6 day streak, but I don't feel that 'change' as the time with the two weeks. I think for me mainly it's all in my head...
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    Your Retirement Number

    Can you give some must reads to be able to turn the odds in your favor? I'm not really interested in the stock market and get quite bored quickly when reading about it. But if I would get a 5% ROI I'd be happy with some easy and simple tips that someone who doesn't know anything about it can apply.
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    Honesty regarding interviews?

    You know the saying "honesty goes a long way"? It's no bull****, I've had several interviews where I was honest about my weak points, even weak points that were considered as a no-go for that particular job. In the end they still hired me. If you lie about such points and they come out...
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    Investing money

    Hi I want to invest my money in stocks because just putting it on an account doesn't give you anything anymore. But honestly, I'm not interested in stuff like that to go start reading books to learn it. If I would be able to get an ROI of about 5-8% I'd be happy. I read somewhere this would be...
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    What do you do on boring days?

    Hi Where I live it's raining outside and it seems like it will be for the rest of the day. I'm bored out of my mind. I hate being in front of my laptop the whole day just because I can't do anything else. There is nothing I can do at home, nothing that needs fixing, cleaning up,... All I can...
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    Earn money besides your daytime job

    Hi I earn a decent amount of money, at the current rate that I'm saving I'll have 700.000 euros in 20 years. To be extremely arrogant, this is not enough for me. My goal is to retire as soon as possible in a very nice home somewhere in the south of Europe. We all know the prices for a very...
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    I have had it

    I want to see the world, to do this you need money. You have to work to earn money, currently I'm in some sort of training where holidays are planned for me, due to this I already missed 2 holidays with my friends. I made some trips this year, but they've been very small city trips, I like them...
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    Your Retirement Number

    Can you share what you do? If you already told somewhere in this thread, I apologize.
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    I have had it

    You know me by now by my depressing threads, I don't know if this link works for you but if it does you can tell http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?search/1302894/ Otherwise these two take the cake http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/i-give-up-on-myself.234703/#post-2346217...
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    I don't like who I am

    I can totally relate to this. My friends are very different than me. They like traveling too, but it's always close by, it's never to the other side of the world even though they have the money and the time to do it. When it's good weather they often stay inside to play some games on their pc...
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    I don't like who I am

    Thanks all for your answers. I think what is wrong with me is the fact that I just don't see how I would get the live I want. I constantly overthink every situation. If I see someone who is happy I feel worse because I want that too, on the other hand if I see someone who is depressed (and...
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    I don't like who I am

    I know there isn't. I just don't know what is holding me back.
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    I don't like who I am

    It's just like the thread title, I don't like who I am. I know who I want to be, I've read many many books and the bible a couple of times, deep down I know what to do. It just won't come out. Why? I don't know. Somewhere deep down it feels like I am the person I want to be, for some reasons...
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    Why can't I decide?

    I am indeed because each option has equal advantages and disadvantages. I want to stay at home because of my mom is a very huge factor though.
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    Why can't I decide?

    Can I get some more opinions?
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    I don't know what to say to people

    I know, after these years it seems I still haven't learned anything. Yesterday I had a family party. At one point the subject came to the fact why I was so quiet and the fact I have a job where I have to be talkative. My brother said "so it has to be us". I know he was joking, but it hurt, my...
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    I don't know what to say to people

    Today I was in a situation with two other people at work. One is a very pretty girl, the other is a normal dude. For reasons I'm not going to explain work was halted for a few minutes. The other guy and this girl know each other very well as they work in the same office and have a different...
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    Why can't I decide?

    I definitely want to stack my bank account, I know what I want in life and I want it as soon as possible, to achieve this I need a decent amount of cash. But I feel this change would be a possibility to change myself as well. We'll see, the decision is now in the hands of the company. I'm a man.
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