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Most of my threads have become about my emotional state, this is one more. I have to decide to move for my work or another location which I can commute to every day. The moving is not that far and on my days off I would come back home. I still live at home with my mom at the age of 27. On one...

I feel I am in a bootcamp for the last 4 years (since I discovered this site) and nothing has changed, in fact I feel it has become worse. I discovered this site due to a girl who I became good friends with but ultimately lead to nothing. Since then I didn't even had a female friend.

Some of you might remember I've landed a job which pays me double what is average in my country. I love what I'm doing, but it makes me do longer hours, I have none flexibility, I get holidays when they tell me to get holidays (this changes in a few months as it just some kind of training period...

Can you call them friends then? Once every few months for a few hours are not friends and just people you know in my eyes. Friends for me are people who are there when you want them to be there, when you ask them to go grab a beer who gladly say yes unless they genuinly have something better to...

This is going to be a thread just to let out my frustrations, I know what I have to do. I've been friends with my current friends for about 12 years. They've always been good friends and we had some really great times. Lately though I get more and more frustrated. Some of them prefer to play...

Yes it is. If you have to keep it for work purposes and certain groups like me, just disable the news feed of those who spam your time line with stupid nonsense.

I didn't wanted to ask her out. I tried to take this as a learning experience, to try to improve my social skills, but it didn't work. I am like this in any setting.

Lately I was going to a chiropractor, cute girl, liked to talk (well part of her job of course but nonetheless). She asked basic stuff like what do you do, how was your weekend,... My answers respectively were my job and "good". Nothing more. Sometimes I asked how was your weekend but it was...

It is indeed better, I agree with that. But it's like people skipping leg day, you see that and it looks ridiculous, in my case it would be the other way around...

Nice sight, great legs and abs, but no upper body... Look sorry, but I just can't work around this, if I keep training it will only get worse, even with other exercises that would train those areas.

I have enormous pain in my trapezoids, so much that it causes frequent migraine attacks. I've been going to many doctors, chiropractors,... and the only solution besides some ergonomic adjustments is to stop going to the gym which does work as when I don't go for 1-2 weeks, it's much much less...

Question about the switching lanes in traffic. Is it seem as fidgeting? I mean I do it constantly because of patterns in traffic where if you switch to one lane at that moment you gain some time (I have to drive a lot so yes those gains do count).

And how do you crack their shell?

I can find myself in that yes, but how do you ask it then without sounding like that? If I would develop the IDGAF attitude, I just wouldn't say anything to anyone, because honestly I don't care about others if I'm not interested in them. And if I would be interested, see the above.

I've had several occasions where I met new people this past week. One thing that occured to me is that at first glance they seem quite friendly and open. But this changes very, very fast. I ask them some basic stuff 'what do you do', 'from where are you', 'how did you meet X', 'I heard from X...

Pff these are a couple of horrible days. It's not about this ex, it's about the fact that I started to realize some stuff. I've always wanted this, I've always wanted ex'es to reach back out and cling on again. I'm sure if I reached out, I could get this BPD ex back in the sack (I basically...

Well luckily I didn't see her. But in all I had a horrible day, my lack of social skills and low self-esteem is having a disastrous effect on my wellbeing.

You guys are right, I figured it out when I was typing this thread. If I really wouldn't give a f*ck, I wouldn't have started this thread in the first place. It's not out of a prospect of a relationship with her, that I swear on the bottom of my heart. But this revenge part has always been a...

I've always been a very revenge based kinda guy. If someone has hurt me, I need to be able to rub some kind of pain back in their face. It's hard for me to just let stuff go. I need some kind of closure in the form of revenge... I'll try it though.

But is not replying on messages the same as the fact she still has a hold on me? Don't get me wrong, I don't want to answer, but I want her to make that fact clear (about my life better without her) and I don't know what the right way is to get it across. Not answering tells me I'm making an...