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    Hitting a low

    A week ago I posted a thread where I explained my social situation. Long story short, me and my ex (7 years ago) have the same group of friends, thus I keep seeing her regularly. Because of this, I think (after these 7 years) I'm still not completely over her. Best way is to cut all ties...
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    Why do we feel better one day and worse the other

    Hi In the beginning of this week I felt good. I got into a situation with one of my bosses and sort of flirted with her and it worked (to be clear this situation happened because I felt good, I didn't feel good because it worked). But the last two days I feel worse again. Nothing special...
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    I feel like I'm going crazy

    What has happened here? Haven't read this thread in two days. But thanks for the advice that was directed to me.
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    I feel like I'm going crazy

    Thanks for your advice and words. I have seen a psychologist a few months back. After a couple of sessions I gave up on going. I felt it did not help at all to talk about my problems and he trying to help me. It felt like throwing money down a pit, it felt like he was just telling me what I...
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    I feel like I'm going crazy

    I know that, but let me give an example of what might be the issue. I've had a relationship with this girl that ended 7 years ago. We have the same group of friends so I keep seeing her often. Normally she invites me as well as she plans on going out or do something at her home. Our...
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    I feel like I'm going crazy

    The f*ck? I'm not going to Asia to get myself a girl who doesn't love me. I need to put myself out there, but I don't know what happened in my life that makes me so afraid of rejection.
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    I feel like I'm going crazy

    Hi Lately I'm getting angrier at myself and at the world. I'm getting afraid because it gets worse and worse and I fear that I will end up needing some serious help. I'm mad at myself because there is just no progress. I have no plates, I never had. There is this girl at work I like, I just...
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    Problem with Corey Wayne's Book: Opening Up Girlfriend When She's Pissed

    I've read the book recently, most of the time my thoughts were he explained (read 'bragged') some of his own situations smelled of a beta man, especially the situation you are talking about. To be honest, when watching his videos I get this feeling as well. He gives solid, standard advice, but...
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    How many reps to do?

    And how many sets per muscle per week (or workout)?
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    Best confidence books

    Thanks for all the advice, I'm going to look more into mindfullness or yoga. I already have a hobby I love and a great job where I give everything and it pays off, but I can't get it out of my head. I've had moments in my life that should give me confidence, but it doesn't at all. What it...
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    Best confidence books

    Hi all I've read my fair share of books on woman and I think I can implement them, but my confidence and fear of rejection is holding me back. I'm certain this won't be an issue if I have a high self-esteem and nothing can get me of my center. Unfortunately, I've been aware of this for many...
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    Don't know how to continue

    I understand that and totally agree with you, but I'm still looking for the 'best' program in my condition. Every body is different, but there must be something that works for everyone.
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    Don't know how to continue

    Hi all I've been going to the gym for over two years now, but lately I haven't seen any results anymore (mostly due to my food regime, but also because I don't know what exercises or program is best anymore). I've been reading through this forum, asking advice and looking on other sites, but...
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    Haircut

    Does it get my chances down if I don't dye it anymore, as woman always want the best 'genetic' male... Yes George Clooney and others are still sex symbols with their hair, but they are at an age where it is 'normal'.
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    Haircut

    Nothing, it looks great on most men, but I don't think about that if you're still under 30...
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    Haircut

    Hi guys I have kind of a genetic disorder which results in the fact that since the age of 20 my hair is as grey as a retired man. As a result I dye my hair every 2 months, when I'm around 40 years I will stop doing this, I just do it now as I think it's a bit too soon to be this grey. The...
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    I've had it, I want (and must) become a social person

    Hi guys Long story short I've worked in a bar for over a year and a half, thus met a lot of people, had a lot of opportunities to work on this and it worked till some point. Last 4 months I quit because of another job I really wanted. This week I had a week of holidays and decided to work at...
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    how beta can guys be? F*ck!

    So? Like anyone would say no if she begs for it... Just leave in the morning.
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    The feeling after 2 beers

    And how do you do that? And yeah I felt good because I had a good day, but that feeling is amazing and I want it as much as possible (without the drinking of course).
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    The feeling after 2 beers

    Hi I've been wondering this question for a while now and decided to post it because I'm in this state right now. We know alcohol makes people less inhibited, they become more open, more social, more who they really are. But I think a lot about that last part, the 'who they really are'. If I...
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