I’ve noticed I can be witty, but only via text. I’ve come to realize it’s because you have the time to respond and think about it.
But then again I have days where I can be witty in real life with direct responses as well. Of course I’d want this in real life continuously as well.
Girls like...
Think I need to get this of my chest
The last weeks we kept on texting, and last week a lot more due to something I said and I guess she liked it. I know I shouldn’t have replied, but like I mentioned, we still have to work together.
Not going a lot into details of what she texted, but my gut...
She kept on texting and I keep on replying just because we have to work in teams in the future.
But I think she finally snapped. I know she kept me on the leech the last weeks, one week I felt in control, the other she was.
But last week she texted another one of her selfies and I thought...
Final update I guess
She still texted from time to time. I tried to reply like I used too, but I feel she's still playing games.
For example last week hadn't heard from her in two days and one evening she texted me "what's up", I replied, she replied and then asked her something (in a time span...
Ain't it in anyway possible this was not a test? Look, I realize everything you guys are telling me, there are signs it was a test, there are also signs from previous texts which make me think the opposite.
I've had a talk with a female friend about it, perhaps not a good idea as you can never...
After almost four weeks in lockdown I start to agree. This sh!t is too much. I totally agree to flatten the curve to not put to much strain on the hospitals for those who need it. But I’m honestly willing to voluntarily get the virus, so I either die or get over it so I can continue normally...
Another update
Last week she kept sending sporadic texts, some were selfies of herself, but I kept my responses just as a simple reply because as I told, we still have to work together.
Saturday evening she texts me "entertain me please". I know this is a some kind of sh*t test, but...
Guess I needed to hear something like this, although subconciously I already knew this... thanks.
Today she texted me a picture of her in a group video chat with some of her friends on which something ‘funny’ was to be seen. Now this I don’t get though, because she clearly had her need for...
Thanks all, I know deep down you're all right and I know somewhere I've known this all along. It's just been some very difficult couple of years for me, it's nice to get some attention from a hot girl after all this time, even though I know that it's 'toxic' attention.
And btw, she didn't...
Don't know why I can't edit my previous post, so apologies for another one.
I want to get over her (strange to say as we were never together). But getting over oneitis, especially in lockdown, is even harder.
She just posted a picture of something she was doing in the mutual group chat, I know...
So like I said on monday (about three posts above), she texted me yesterday with a picture of her pet and some "funny" text with it.
I really had it with her yesterday, so I replied after three hours with a simple gif cause I just didn't really care, no text with it. Ofcourse no reply back...
Yeah what a btch and attention whöre.
Texted me again on sunday, some sexual teases, she texted some pictures of herself etc,... but then today I decided to initiate and asked her a question which I really wanted to know, not just something just to start a conversation.
She replied on which I...
Strange things
She texted me at noon, asking me how I was because she hadn't heard anything from me. Bit of texting but not that much because this time I honestly was busy in the garden. She even complimented me on my body because I mentioned I started to notice some muscle losses due to the...
Thanks man
I won‘t be texting her today, I’ll see how I feel tomorrow. Don’t even know what I could say without trying to force a conversation...
I’m indeed too invested in her and since we still have to work together in the future, I think it’s best to eject like you said. But it was so nice...
It has been since sunday, before that we basically talked every day besides another 4 day silence about a month ago (there I reinitiated contact).
By nature I'm a quiet guy as well (unless with people I'm comfortable with) and lost some interested girls because of that, I'm afraid this is going...
Going absolutely crazy today. Can’t for the love of god figure out why she all of a sudden stopped texting.
I feel like later today when I had something to drink I’ll probably text her something.
Thanks
Last question:
is it in any way possible that the things I think (she‘s waiting for me to text, she suddenly became insecure/shy or thinks she‘s ruined it, making me jealous in other groups), are true? In real life she seems very confident and gets a lot of attention. So it’s hard for...
Thanks for all the advice. Must admit that the times where I didn't give a fvck and just said stuff, worked most times. But she has gotten a hold on me and I felt I gave a fvck again.
But haven't heard from her since sunday, besides some stuff she said in the mutual group chat. Don't really...
I muted the group, but I've done it before. I tend to look anyway during the day, but I'll try not to tomorrow. Looking at my cellphone only once a day is what got me in this the first place I think. She's quite a chatty girl, which I don't mind though. I'm quite chatty as well, with people I...
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