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    Only being witty via text

    I’ve noticed I can be witty, but only via text. I’ve come to realize it’s because you have the time to respond and think about it. But then again I have days where I can be witty in real life with direct responses as well. Of course I’d want this in real life continuously as well. Girls like...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Think I need to get this of my chest The last weeks we kept on texting, and last week a lot more due to something I said and I guess she liked it. I know I shouldn’t have replied, but like I mentioned, we still have to work together. Not going a lot into details of what she texted, but my gut...
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    Don't know what is going on with this girl (and myself)

    She kept on texting and I keep on replying just because we have to work in teams in the future. But I think she finally snapped. I know she kept me on the leech the last weeks, one week I felt in control, the other she was. But last week she texted another one of her selfies and I thought...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Final update I guess She still texted from time to time. I tried to reply like I used too, but I feel she's still playing games. For example last week hadn't heard from her in two days and one evening she texted me "what's up", I replied, she replied and then asked her something (in a time span...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Ain't it in anyway possible this was not a test? Look, I realize everything you guys are telling me, there are signs it was a test, there are also signs from previous texts which make me think the opposite. I've had a talk with a female friend about it, perhaps not a good idea as you can never...
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    Who is thinking of breaking no-contract with their exes?

    After almost four weeks in lockdown I start to agree. This sh!t is too much. I totally agree to flatten the curve to not put to much strain on the hospitals for those who need it. But I’m honestly willing to voluntarily get the virus, so I either die or get over it so I can continue normally...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Another update Last week she kept sending sporadic texts, some were selfies of herself, but I kept my responses just as a simple reply because as I told, we still have to work together. Saturday evening she texts me "entertain me please". I know this is a some kind of sh*t test, but...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Guess I needed to hear something like this, although subconciously I already knew this... thanks. Today she texted me a picture of her in a group video chat with some of her friends on which something ‘funny’ was to be seen. Now this I don’t get though, because she clearly had her need for...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Thanks all, I know deep down you're all right and I know somewhere I've known this all along. It's just been some very difficult couple of years for me, it's nice to get some attention from a hot girl after all this time, even though I know that it's 'toxic' attention. And btw, she didn't...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Don't know why I can't edit my previous post, so apologies for another one. I want to get over her (strange to say as we were never together). But getting over oneitis, especially in lockdown, is even harder. She just posted a picture of something she was doing in the mutual group chat, I know...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    So like I said on monday (about three posts above), she texted me yesterday with a picture of her pet and some "funny" text with it. I really had it with her yesterday, so I replied after three hours with a simple gif cause I just didn't really care, no text with it. Ofcourse no reply back...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Yeah I agree, I have no other options at all. Never even used OLD, perhaps should just start with it during the lockdown.
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Yeah what a btch and attention whöre. Texted me again on sunday, some sexual teases, she texted some pictures of herself etc,... but then today I decided to initiate and asked her a question which I really wanted to know, not just something just to start a conversation. She replied on which I...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Strange things She texted me at noon, asking me how I was because she hadn't heard anything from me. Bit of texting but not that much because this time I honestly was busy in the garden. She even complimented me on my body because I mentioned I started to notice some muscle losses due to the...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Thanks man I won‘t be texting her today, I’ll see how I feel tomorrow. Don’t even know what I could say without trying to force a conversation... I’m indeed too invested in her and since we still have to work together in the future, I think it’s best to eject like you said. But it was so nice...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    It has been since sunday, before that we basically talked every day besides another 4 day silence about a month ago (there I reinitiated contact). By nature I'm a quiet guy as well (unless with people I'm comfortable with) and lost some interested girls because of that, I'm afraid this is going...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Going absolutely crazy today. Can’t for the love of god figure out why she all of a sudden stopped texting. I feel like later today when I had something to drink I’ll probably text her something.
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Thanks Last question: is it in any way possible that the things I think (she‘s waiting for me to text, she suddenly became insecure/shy or thinks she‘s ruined it, making me jealous in other groups), are true? In real life she seems very confident and gets a lot of attention. So it’s hard for...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Thanks for all the advice. Must admit that the times where I didn't give a fvck and just said stuff, worked most times. But she has gotten a hold on me and I felt I gave a fvck again. But haven't heard from her since sunday, besides some stuff she said in the mutual group chat. Don't really...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    I muted the group, but I've done it before. I tend to look anyway during the day, but I'll try not to tomorrow. Looking at my cellphone only once a day is what got me in this the first place I think. She's quite a chatty girl, which I don't mind though. I'm quite chatty as well, with people I...
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