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There's the opposite side of the spectrum too to think about. Having nothing but a social life, in your teens and early 20s, ALSO means you're 'screwed for life'. Think of the people who did nothing but party and drink all through that time, and are now in their late 20s, working minimum wage...

I don't think there's much to say. I pretty much agree with what thunder_god has said. I'll just add that you should keep things simple and concise in your mind. There's a million assumptions and questions running through your head, and none of them might be relevant to the situation -now-. It's...

I think it's great that you're sending her flowers. Next, you should send her a letter every single day telling her you love her, and that your life is meaningless without her. Girls love when a guy romances her like that. Accept total blame for everything, even if it's something completely her...

Adz, it sounds like to me, the reason you're still having difficulty, is in simple terms, you haven't let go. This is the hardest step of moving on, realizing truly in your heart that the past is over, and is not coming back. It's extremely hard to do with someone that you've connected with, put...

VegaFan, I know that feeling. It's a horrible one, one that you wish you'd never have to endure. One that feels like it will never get better. But luckily for you, and I, and everyone else, that pain will fade, and you will feel normal again. It may not seem like it now, but this will help you...

There is no point to being an ass when breaking up. It is the best way of handling it like a man. Especially if you want the best chance of the other person regretting it, and missing what you too had. Throwing a fit, heaving insults and other statements just make you come off as weak. Yes, our...

I don't think saying to Lostsoul 'you should have banged her by now' over and over is productive for him. It may be hitting the target, but it doesn't explain why or what is going on at all. Lostsoul, I think what the real issue is, is that the age difference is playing too big a factor for her...

Unless she's your girlfriend, and she's really in a bind, I'd say no. As in "No" and give her a look like she's crazy. Even if she was your girlfriend, doing it more than one in a long while is very odd (on her part for asking, and yours for complying). I don't mind, and actually like doing...

I think it's a good opportunity to show her that she can come to you, to be her emotional rock in this sudden storm. I do think that by putting the offer of support, without pressure, will make her glow a bit inside (later when she's more herself) whether she takes it up or not. If she doesn't...

Sometimes it's best to know for sure, sometimes not. I think it's best if you don't have to go through that pain of seeing her/him with someone else, and are able to put her out of mind. But, it certainly helps remove any doubt of whether it could have worked out. Right now, I'm struggling a...

Sorry skinny, but I have to disagree. 'His' girl has already spoken and made her decision - 'She wants to leave me and then tells me she needs to think about it and what she wants to do'. Right there, she has told him for whatever the reason, he's on the chopping block. She's saying directly...

I'll try and help you, at least in the way I view it. The text that you were thinking about sending - I don't think it's good. The amount of 'care' put into it is just going to empower her. 'I have to be strong for me and my family' - just indicates you are suffering. Which tells her the amount...

Yes, I have done this challenge successfully in the past, although I will note that I prolonged the pain needlessly on my part. I kept 'hope' alive for longer than I should have - she was moving away about 4 months after we broke up, I kept hoping she would return. She never did, probably...

Lol I'm laughing so much about this girl. So full of herself. Please keep updating if there's more Sofomore.

Well, first I will say you're not alone in this. We all have to learn and relearn what is best, proper, and suitable for certain situations. And how to deal with it internally. The first step is always identifying the aspect that you have a fault with, or issues with. I see you're doing that...

Everything is worth what it's purchaser will pay for it... Regardless, the amount of money that people are 'bidding' is absurd. First, is paying to take virginity really that worth it? $550k? Worse, it's not a real taking, it's a contract - she isn't really 'wanting' it, she's doing it for...

Hello gentlemen. I am back on the NC train. Yes, I am actually quite upbeat about doing the challenge again, because I have done it before, and I know it works. It's the best way to show that you have strength of character, by showing you don't need to have her in your life, and that you are...

I think, in regards to if relationships are possible to work, should revolve more around the compatibility of each person to another, their views and beliefs to the other, rather than focus on it wholesale as say monogamy, polyamory, if they are viable. Everyone has their roughly established...

Why is he in such a rush to get engaged? It's a horrible idea, especially with the whole honeymoon period (honeymoon as in that emotional high the first three months roughly). Being engaged doesn't help, as its a forced connection now that has to be broken if they want some away time from each...

I think that the overall mentality that this strategy requires is ultimately unnecessary, and really overcomplicates matters if you're just looking for multiple girls to hook up with. There is no need to put yourself and this girl in a relationship that you're not looking to maintain, and to...