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Conversely, you will see bad ass people without tattoos. Example, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Bruce Lee. Tattoos are just another way of representing yourself. I would advise getting a tattoo if it represents something to you, and something you can stand looking at for the rest of your life (as...

Just my impression from what I've read, it seems to me that she's f**king with you. And also this part "If she blows me off again I'll feel pathetic." I think that's where your instincts are kicking in to protect you. It's very normal to wonder and be curious if a person is going to accept your...

I've had those urges to do that too. Don't do it. It literally will not solve anything (unfortunately). It will bounce between missing her and being pissed at her. It does suck wondering if you actually meant anything to her or not, but eventually, it will get to 'who cares what she thinks?'...

Don't treat him any different than anybody else. Treat him like he is a stranger. Be polite, indifferent, generally disconnected. Not rude, or happy, but just think neutral. With your situation, well first I think the advice around works with guys and girls. We're all human, we react...

Good job althor, sounds like it went well. I know the trick here is not to entertain any rethinking about her at all, even though it's very tempting to. Like mine, I seen her going into work at shift change, first time in a month seeing her, decided to talk with friends as I was entering...

I'd be interested in seeing how this relationship turns out. I'd like to know if this can actually be a 'valid' way of establishing a good relationship. It doesn't seem like it to me. But who knows. One knee with a ring and asking to be his gf? That seems like he's asking her to be his wife, not...

Alright, I'll try to explain the process I went through. At the beginning, you're always thinking of her, trying to figure out 'maybe if I did this, instead of doing this', or 'why did she do that', etc. Circular thinking on the issue. What I've found is, once you disconnect from that, you start...

I agree, it's good having this thread. Whenever I get doubts or questions in my head, it's a good refresher coming here and reading other's experiences. Reconfirming that what you're doing is the best thing. Time definitely does help. I'm on week 3 or 7, not 100% yet over her, but I definitely...

It'll probably set you back mentally, at least it did myself. I went 3 weeks, then seen her at a wedding. Did really well, handled it proper and she was nice with me, bit flirty with me, other girls flirting with me, etc. Everything perfect, but still set me back. Questioning everything over...

Yup, indifference is the best way. Not rude, not hateful. Just accept that they're there, and treat them no different than you would a stranger. Remember the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.

Don't feel too bad. I know it feels like you've given all the power to her, embarrassed yourself, even destroyed any chances of getting her back. I know because I've done it. The thing is, I like to think of this as a note to her, in her mind, as an opportunity for her to make things work. Get...

The thing with morals is that the people who break those morals are not usually well respected. You must first understand why we do the things we do. Social manners and moral code came about because they promote (knowingly or unknowingly) the success of society as a whole. Things like deceit...

NC is definitely the way to go. I'd had quite a few ups and downs, especially during the first two weeks. On day 21 now, maybe day 1 if you consider it technically. I had to see her at a buddy's wedding, and I basically acted as not acknowledging her existence at all. Didn't act like an ass to...

I'd say sometimes it's not that simple. Your body is going to be adapted to whatever posture you most commonly adopt. Muscle memory. You sometimes have to break that mold by placing your body into a proper stance, and maintaining it. Shoulders, up, back and down is a good one, neck straight up...

I've seen that too haha. One close female friend still posted pics of her, so I took her off the feed just in case. Closing fb down is a decent idea too. I have long distance family/friends on it so that's a good chunk of a reason for me to keep it. I think having them 'out of sight, out of...

I unfriended/blocked my oneitis from fb. It went before like "should I check her page, no I shouldn't, ok I'll check it" then it'd be either "Nothing changed hrm" or "she wrote something to someone else that *****". Didn't happen all the time but too much drama inside my head for something like...