Looks like her interest has finally hit rock bottom and I guess I'll be the one to break up as her actions are indicating this is what she wants.
Background:
Within the past 2 months she has pulled back and withheld sex (she blew me last week though).
About a month ago when I asked her if she wants to end the relationship her reply was "if you want to." I said I didn't.
Only wants to hang out once a week it seems.
Calls or texts once a day, usually texts
Is frequently either tired or has headache
Told me she loved me a couple days ago
She'll suggest plans for something to do, then at the last minute she changes her mind. Last night she asked if I wanted to come over (which is usually the one night I spend at her place lately) and to text her around 7:30. I text her to suggest meeting at 8:30 and her response was "I'm almost finished reading this book I'll call you when I'm done." She ends up calling me back at 9:30 to say she just got back from grocery store and her phone's battery died. I was angered by her actions and let her know, but I didn't go berserk or anything and she gets angry at me for it.
Anyway, the writing's on the wall I get it. She's either incapable of saying she wants out and/or likes toying with me.
My question is how should I break up?
Should I be a complete ass and point out her insecurities/tell her I was only using her for sex, etc.
OR
Just tell her it doesn't seem to be working out and leave it at that?
Her games are getting frustrating and it's probably better for my sanity to just get out.
Should I tell her in person, or can I just change my Facebook status to single, delete her, and initiate no contact? I still have the keys to her place.
What is the alpha way to break up?
We have been together a little over a year.
Background:
Within the past 2 months she has pulled back and withheld sex (she blew me last week though).
About a month ago when I asked her if she wants to end the relationship her reply was "if you want to." I said I didn't.
Only wants to hang out once a week it seems.
Calls or texts once a day, usually texts
Is frequently either tired or has headache
Told me she loved me a couple days ago
She'll suggest plans for something to do, then at the last minute she changes her mind. Last night she asked if I wanted to come over (which is usually the one night I spend at her place lately) and to text her around 7:30. I text her to suggest meeting at 8:30 and her response was "I'm almost finished reading this book I'll call you when I'm done." She ends up calling me back at 9:30 to say she just got back from grocery store and her phone's battery died. I was angered by her actions and let her know, but I didn't go berserk or anything and she gets angry at me for it.
Anyway, the writing's on the wall I get it. She's either incapable of saying she wants out and/or likes toying with me.
My question is how should I break up?
Should I be a complete ass and point out her insecurities/tell her I was only using her for sex, etc.
OR
Just tell her it doesn't seem to be working out and leave it at that?
Her games are getting frustrating and it's probably better for my sanity to just get out.
Should I tell her in person, or can I just change my Facebook status to single, delete her, and initiate no contact? I still have the keys to her place.
What is the alpha way to break up?
We have been together a little over a year.
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