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You mentioned going on so many first dates. You can’t be doing too badly then.

I would give it a net positive. 1. There is zero pressure. You aren’t trying to impress them, and they aren’t trying to impress you. So it’s actually really chill. 2. You get to see how women really are when they aren’t putting on an act. (This is especially helpful if you don’t have a...

Exactly. You explained it a lot better than I did.

Low libido would give a guy a natural DGAF around women. But I’m honestly starting to think that DGAF is very overrated (and possibly even counterproductive) when it comes to attracting women. They want a guy that wants them.

Just call it nofap. Referring to it as SR always sounded a bit weird/creepy to me lol.

At 62, a 35 yo would be home run. Even a decent low 40s chick.

I’m probably Norwood 4.5 (crown balding). I’m buzzed to #1. But it’s a gray buzz. Will shave it clean soon to lose the gray.

Do you know have a friend (male or female) that is very stylish that would go shopping with you? Clothing items in the store are generally in three categories: “yes” (love it), “maybe” (could go either way) and “no” (would never wear that). Only buy “yes” items. Don’t waste your money on...

It’s probably ok as temporary beginner advice. If the guy is afraid to talk to women at all, treating them like dudes might reduce anxiety and get him more comfortable. But he would need to drop those “training wheels” fairly soon.

If you know she’s solidly attracted to you and single, the risk probably is lower. If you ask a coworker out on a date but her interest level is so so or unclear, the risk is higher. Even for female friends, they started inviting me out first. I’ll admit I was too chicken to suggest it...

She has some mini-crushes (eg a guy with great hair lol) she’ll mention sometimes in passing conversation but that’s it. I’m over whoever she dates or not. Bothered me in the very beginning but I’m way past that now.

I would say that being friends with women from work is low risk. The risk is potentially higher for dating or hooking up. So each guy needs to make their own decision on that. For an average looking guy (I’m probably low 5), I think it’s better to be a friend/bro-zone guy at work than ignore...

Yes. Lately, we get food after work about once every two weeks.

I’ve never dated at work, so I’m kind of neutral on that one. But having female friends from work has been a positive in my experience.

When you ban guns, other forms of legal self-defense eventually go out the window with it. You probably have countries where you can’t even use pepper spray.

Balding. -2 points easily.

I give the chick and her bf credit for wanting to help the guy.

Generally, a guy is only allowed one strike. Two or more is ‘cel territory.

1. Notice the heels, so she can attract a tall hubby. 2. Notice the cars in the background in that neighborhood. She wants a wealthy hubby. 3. And she grew her hair out beyond shoulder length. No comment lol.

No, I don’t think you have to gossip to be interesting or entertaining.