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Not a date, but I went out to dinner with a girl friend last night. It was about $100 total, and neither of us even drink. Just dinner and one appetizer. We split the bill as usual. But I can see where a date could be at or close to $100 now with inflation.

She ghosted you. You will never know exactly why. We can speculate all day long as to the reason(s) why. She just wasn’t feeling “it” for whatever reason. It is what it is.

Some women can give really good advice, but it requires some level of experience on the guy’s part to filter out the good advice from the bad advice. But that’s also true when evaluating advice from guy gurus too.

I think he might have had hunter eyes back in the day.

It was an honest mistake. We’ve all made them. I always try to double check my work calendar/schedule at least a full day in advance. Not just to avoid missing something, but also to be prepared for whatever it is.

He got a few lights turned on, which is quite surprising. His poor posture is probably from staring at a screen. I wouldn’t read too much into that part.

It’s not just a girl thing. I think it’s also, to some extent, an extrovert thing. They don’t get too “attached” to a given topic. They just want to talk. You have two choices: 1. Let them ramble on and jump in where you can. Don’t take it personally. 2. Find a chick that is more...

Ok. I don’t know what to say about that.

People can still read your facial expressions on Zoom. I don’t know, unless she can actually see the thumbnail of the video you’re about the watch. And I hope she can’t because I wouldn’t look at dating/pickup/social advice videos at work. It’s also plausible that they noticed you are about to...

No she can’t read your mind. But if the guy carries some conscious/unconscious guilt or awkwardness about his fap session with her as the fantasy, she might pick up that something is “off” when he interacts with her next in person. She might read something as “off” in his eye contact, facial...

Some chicks are quiet around groups of people but super chatty one on one.

Maybe have a “Don Juan Emeritus” title for the most senior DJs lol.

I stopped paying attention to those titles years ago. It’s more like “Does that person’s advice and comments make sense to you or not?”

Another problem is there are currently very few if any gurus that these dateless guys can actually relate to. It’s usually some natural or Chad/Tyrone or rich guy or low level celebrity or at the very least some high tier normie (HTN) that never really struggled with women to begin with. A...

I get how you used to have feelings for Sara, and that’s a really messed up story about her and Dave. I’m not even counting Mystery Man. It’s going to much harder for you to let this go if you continue to be friends with Dave. I see no point at all continuing to be his friend.

I have not personally known any lesbian women. A few bi women, but that’s it.

The number scale is definitely a guy thing. I’ve never heard a chick rate a guy with a number unless some other guy insisted that she give such a rating/appraisal. They don’t normally think in terms of number ratings.

I would agree with this. It’s typically other men who say things like: “He’s a decent looking guy.” “He’s an average (or slightly above/below average) looking guy.” “He’s not a bad looking guy.” Women don’t usually rate guys that way. It’s more binary. It’s typically more like: “He’s...

Would need more context/details. A random person just saying “You had your chance” doesn’t make sense.

Everybody is different. There are factors like introvert vs extrovert; attachment styles; and whether someone is used to being alone vs always in a relationship. I’ve gotten way too comfortable being alone. I interact with friends and family regularly, but I love living alone.