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Even a lot of NT guys can’t always tell the difference between friendly and flirting. Unless she’s very attracted to the guy, it’s not that obvious at all.

I’ll just give my experience here for whatever it’s worth. If women see a guy as a friend/bro only, she will feel comfortable sharing gossip with him. If he gossips to her or with her, it just reinforces his beta or friendzone image. I don’t believe it’s attractive at all.

I would just add that WFH also accelerated to the change to ultra “casual.” I work hybrid. Staff gets so used to anything goes dressing for WFH that they aren’t inclined to dress up too much on their in-office days either.

He’s a business owner. Anecdotally, the older but not attractive guys I know that do well with women are all business owners.

I can’t give an exact number, but I agree completely. To truly “click” with a chick is rare. It’s been about 8 years for me. When I try to explain this to friends or family, they automatically assume it’s about looks and give me some lecture about how I should date a fat chick lol. They...

1. Internships are very important for a lot of college majors when it comes to landing a job after. Perhaps even more important than your grades. 2. Talent is everything. You either have it for a given type of work (or hobby), or you don’t. You can’t “outwork” or “out grind” your way...

The RP sphere pushes this hyper masculine chest beating image.* But a lot of young women prefer pretty boys. So I don’t think young guys are wrong to looksmax. It makes sense for them. *This isn’t because of “evo psych” as they claim. It’s because a lot of RP guys are older (or lacking the...

On the other hand, a very long draught can go to the other extreme. You can become apathetic. It’s not attractive at all because it’s way beyond aloof/DGAF. TLDR: I think a tiny bit of neediness is actually useful here.

Yes. More and more devices will require WiFi to operate so the company can turn it off remotely if you don’t pay the “subscription” on such device that you bought outright. In the case of the alarm clock, they’ll claim it needs internet to auto-set the time.

I got burned really badly from a chick that friendzoned me and started “dating” (ie screwing) her neighbor. Took me about a year to get over it. But once it was over, envy disappeared for good. I will never, ever let myself fall into that trap again. I’m not a sales person so I can’t give...

The key is to get rid of all possible envy of other guys. Worrying about who might have hooked with up with whom is not a rabbit hole you want to go down. I don’t care if they bang in the next cubicle lol. You still stay completely chill and enjoy your lunch. I know you said you are mostly...

Good hair.

Just keep it generic. “How are you today? Blah blah.”

I’ve never heard of a singles event where it was required to have a platonic pal with you. But I’ve attended that way a few times. I’ve had female friends invite me because they didn’t want to go alone. I went just to get out of the house. A few times it was a singles dance. No dudes...

You first have to consider your natural talents and interests. Do not pick a hobby or skill to learn just because it’s in women’s top ten. It doesn’t matter how many chicks love XYZ if you suck at XYZ and/or you don’t enjoy XYZ. In either case, you’ll burn out and not reap the benefits.

I was thinking more in terms of not letting your comfort level or social skills with women atrophy. So, if you’re not currently dating, a chick friend is good for that purpose. Good energy is no doubt a bonus.

Age/generation is probably a factor too. My female friends have all been Gen X like me. Gen X women are typically pretty chill and can be loyal friends. I probably wouldn’t attempt to befriend most Millennial chicks lol. I’d be open to it, but I really doubt we’d click. (And Gen Z would...

Yeah it’s basically right person, right place, right time. She either likes you or she doesn’t. I saw way too many dry/businesslike pulls in my day where the guy wasn’t funny or overly interesting at all. I had to chalk it up to looks and possibly vibe, but not personality.

For example, I crashed and burned with c&f back in the day because it was not my personality at all. I’m not a sarcastic ball buster at all. On the other extreme, MM seemed like overkill or over-gaming for its founder: a 6’5” full haired and chiseled face guy. Same with his 2 to 10 hours...

I think the OP is noting how a lot of gurus give “One size fits all” advice based on their personality/profile. That’s a valid criticism. You need to develop your own “game” and/or find a guru that you identify with best.