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I agree with that girl. Good clothes don’t really raise your looks/attraction rating. At best, they “hold the line” and prevent the guy from losing points due to bad fashion/fit. So, good fashion and fit is worth it, but it’s not a silver bullet.

I agree that there is an extremely slim chance of it ever passing. And, even if it did, big business would take over the brothels and send the price to the moon. It would never be affordable to an average guy in the US.

I agree about insecurity, but I have a different angle. I think they might find younger guys attractive, but some might have mental hangups about going forward with a hookup or FWB with that younger guy. Sort of like… “I don’t do that anymore” or “I shouldn’t be doing that at my age.” In...

Yeah I haven’t personally used social circle successfully, but I’ve observed other guys use it successfully in the past. Social circle opportunities for me were so infrequent that I usually didn’t recognize the opportunity until it was too late lol.

I was the top nerd in hs, but I got along with most everybody. Chicks either politely ignored me or saw me as a harmless friendzone guy. I’ve basically come full circle these days lol. I just own it now.

How are their social/communication skills?

What sometimes happens is guys that lost their virginity “late” feel the need to “make up for lost time,” and/or they feel like they have “something to prove.” I fell in that trap too back in the day. I felt like I had a “score to settle.” But, as the other posters alluded to, it’s just ego...

I know it sounds weird to consider the guy’s age too. But otherwise it becomes problematic. If we define cougar as 35+ or say 40+ woman, what happens when she dates a guy of comparable age? If a 47 yo guy dates a 46 yo woman, is the guy really a “cougar chaser,” or is he simply dating close...

TLDR: It’s Beta King Spring. Add that the following: 1. Short King Spring 2. Post-pandemic orgy 3. Car insurance rate drops after 25 Lol.

1. That’s like giving up looking for a job because of lack of experience. You might have to be very flexible about what type of job you start with, but you can eventually find something. 2. Also, being inexperienced with women as an adult male isn’t rare anymore in 2024. It’s becoming...

40+ broad with a <30 guy.

Hmm. To me, it seemed more like the guy that was indifferent towards a relationship got the sex. He clearly wanted to bang, but he showed no interest in wanting to be her boyfriend.

She probably didn’t need a long lecture at the end. Reading is ok, but it’s better to keep what you learned to yourself (or for discussion here).

I wonder if she is inexperienced and/or just very shy. Most chicks would have made a move on you by now. But, regardless, get your makeout game up and then you should be good.

You can listen without adding to the gossipy stuff. Her: “I think Bob is dating Suzy.” You: “I can’t wait until lunch. I wanna try that new diner that opened.” This is also useful in the workplace. Somebody tells you something that you wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole. Just don’t add to...

You need to start having some long, heated makeout sessions on the couch, if you haven’t already. Look into her eyes and brush her hair aside. Go in for regular kissing and slowly transition into a make out. Should be very easy.

There are several schools of thought on debt reduction. 1. Start with the smallest balance to give yourself encouragement or psychological boost. 2. Start with the highest interest rate to minimize the total amount you have to pay out. 3. Start with the credit card that has the highest...

Not thrilled about it lol because it wasn’t by choice. I definitely sucked really bad then. Went through high school and college with not even a female friend let alone a gf. I only got to talk to chicks when it was strictly necessary such as if she was a lab partner or we had a quick chat about...

I was Wizard-lite. Didn’t lose virginity until 28. It wouldn’t be a big deal at all today, but it was way outside the norm for a Gen X back in the day.

Yes friendship with a chick only works under certain conditions: 1. You aren’t attracted to her, or you can honestly let the attraction part go and be cool with her dating other dudes. (The latter is not super easy; you have to drop the ego lol, but it can be done.) 2. She doesn’t take...