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Yeah she’s not being a friend. A real girl friend is somewhat like a guy friend, except maybe the topics of conversation are work, relationships, gossip, and general life stuff. But they don’t get jealous* or play some hot/cold on/off romantic interest games. *Or they at least know not to...

How is your hair?

Generally speaking, yes, sex appeal is #1. Otherwise, all your other positive qualities can, at best, lead to friendzone. Put another way, you can’t really “get credit” for your other qualities unless she deems you F-able.

1. Talent or natural ability is everything. If you’re not naturally good at something, pick something else. Otherwise, you’ll burn yourself out and still barely be average. 2. The workplace will try to take advantage of you if they know you are single and childless. They assume you...

I weight myself every morning after I pee and before breakfast so the water weight effects on my weight number are minimized. I’m a steady 173 now. Don’t need to lose more.

Yeah I don’t think that you absolutely MUST earn more than her as RP suggests. I understand their point, but I don’t think it’s etched in stone.

I agree completely. A one point boost is a realistic looksmax maximum for most people without surgery.

I dated a wealthy woman for a while way back in the early 2000s. I was making $50k at the time, and she was a millionaire. I was a Chadlite back then and somehow her type. It was a lot of fun while it lasted.

There are some good looking people who deny that their looks do most of the heavy lifting for them in terms of generating attraction. They might claim it’s more due to their personality, game, social skills, intelligence, etc.

I wonder about young people and energy drinks. Consuming ridiculous amounts of caffeine can’t be a good idea.

You can date down, but you still need to find her reasonably attractive (to you). If not, she will sense the lack of attraction and preemptively dump you.

That’s a great question. I don’t know. I love math (problem solving), but I don’t think it has been helpful at all in the women department. I can emotionally connect with women very well, but it’s only in a friend or brotherly way these days.

Not over for QED-cels.

She obviously didn’t spend the night with each one.

V-Day can be awkward for both parties if you only started dating recently. It’s usually meant for established couples say 3 months+.

Looks stuff aside, hopeless romantics are very envious of other peoples’ relationships/connections/chemistry that seemingly just fell into their laps. So they continue to wait around for their rightful “turn” which is never going to come. Life isn’t fair.

This. The Jerk vs Nice Guy debate has always been a red herring. It’s a clever way to dance around the far more important looks issue. Back on topic, “safe” means she can relax and let her guard down because she feels like “You got this.” Even as a guy, you might have that one friend or...

Other than the general self-improvement stuff, I’m not sure what you would even need from RP as a Christian.

One size fits all advice is not helpful. Everybody’s situation is different. For example, if you give “player” advice to an inexperienced ‘cel guy such as “Avoid giving women non-sexual attention,” he will never even be able to have a conversation with a chick. A guy like that has to...

I’m gonna work on V day and probably go to a casino that evening. No buffet. Regular dinner.