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I’d take the money. If I went back, I would probably F it up again, just in a different way lol.

I also agreed that it was done/over with this chick. I just meant to mind your own business as far she goes. And you’ve done that. The specifics of what you watch on your tablet are neither here nor there. If there is someone else at work you know or work with, you could also make some...

Agree. I’m way out of the loop on that stuff, but that is my understanding. I went a few times circa 2019 (pre Cove) despite being way too old (just for old times sake). I got hit on by a dude on my final night. I knew it was time to finally hang up my hat lol. I can’t imagine what it’s like now.

From 2004 through 2009, I was at the club pretty much every Fri and Sat. The doorman was like “Go ahead Mike, but if you ever come out alone, I’ll gonna call security to have you thrown back INTO the club lol.” He was a cool mofo. Today, I don’t drink at all for health reasons. Haven’t...

It’s a good question the OP has. It’s just that, with all due respect, it’s very hard to get specific actionable advice from normie (or higher) guys about how they landed their (eg social circle) girlfriend. He’s just going to say something like, “I just acted normal. I was myself, and I...

Mortgage payments are typically someone’s largest monthly outlay. Once it’s paid off, you’ve freed up a lot of cash flow to use for other purposes. I paid off mine a few years ago. Best thing I ever did. TLDR: Getting rid of debt (irrespective of interest rate) is to improve your...

10 or 12 grand is a pretty decent starter (or re-starter) emergency fund.

A lot to unpack here, so I’ll just hit a few points. Female friends have nothing to do with your SMV. You should not care if she’s attracted to you or not. Or if your friendship with her attracts other chicks. That’s not the point of friendship. You can’t treat them exactly the same as...

Agree that an audiobook would be too deep/distracting. But anything else in the background that helps you is good. I’ll just answer quick so I don’t drift the thread off topic. Lately, my fav podcaster is Cal Newport. He’s a CS professor and expert on time...

Same here. Agree. I’m writing a report and listening to a podcast now lol. Music eventually tires me. Interesting pods don’t.

Yeah. A lot of these guys are introverted to begin with, and sadly, they know women don’t usually share their STEM or other nerdy interests, so they (understandably) talk to women even less than other guys. Even the engineer chick I dated did not want to talk about nerdy stuff. Her...

I’ve gone back and forth on this while working from home. On one hand, having some music or a good podcast going certainly makes work more pleasant. But I do notice that it slows me down somewhat on what I’m working on. In other words, it ties up at least some of my mental resources. I...

For every social circle guy who ends up with a cute gf, there are probably 5 or 10 guys in similar situations that ended up friendzoned. Social circle can definitely work, but the stars still have to be in alignment in terms of attraction though.

I hear ya. I believe in looks like you do. I don’t so much believe in “game” per se. I think vibe or more properly “energy” as Joy talks about is a better way to think about it. But obviously looks and vibe/energy are things that are hard to fix by advice alone no matter how constructive and...

I don’t believe that “game” (to the extent it even exists) is teachable. A guy either naturally has it, or he works by himself to improve it. Other guys can answer your questions, but they really can’t transfer their game/vibe/energy to you.

A non-GL person who hangs out with a GL person will likely become at least soft blackpilled eventually. A GL person might not want to accept that their looks are doing the heavy lifting for them. Or they might accept it and just own it.

I would definitely just back off now. Be polite if you encounter her, but mind your own business around her. Sit by yourself and read or tablet-max.

No probably just one side guy.

Exactly my point. Some “simp” characters are overplayed.

I would vote for Airplane 2 as funniest. I’m not that familiar with Airplane 1; even I was too young then.