Navigating the modern world of self-centered single women

[user252009]

What I'm realising more and more that pretty much all single women in their mid to late 20's and even many early 30's are so incredibly self-centered that even trying to date them feels like they have no interest in anything but whatever they are into (if into anything). How do we navigate this environment when the vast majority of women are like that? It's annoying to go on so many first dates or vetting them for weeks just to see if they're worth putting energy and time into

 

[Solomon]

I went on a date with a 21 year old yesterday it was a breath of fresh air, she laughed at the corniest joke, we ended up watching anime as she was cuddling on me in her panties and bra.

Whats the point? Younger non-jaded non-bitter women are the solution!

 

[holidayad_]

It's a feminine trend. The more they see, the less their heart will beat.

Women live in a mindset of abundance, so for them, it doesn't matter if you stay, and it doesn't matter if you leave. This explains their attitudes towards dating nowadays.

In a general context, if your goal is to get laid, the key is to not care and keep going—especially if you're on track to achieve your goal.

 

[Mike32ct]

You mentioned going on so many first dates.

You can’t be doing too badly then.

 

[Lotus Effect]

It's a feminine trend. The more they see, the less their heart will beat.

Women live in a mindset of abundance, so for them, it doesn't matter if you stay, and it doesn't matter if you leave. This explains their attitudes towards dating nowadays.

In a general context, if your goal is to get laid, the key is to not care and keep going—especially if you're on track to achieve your goal.

Seems you kinda got it as well dude.

 

[user252009]

I went on a date with a 21 year old yesterday it was a breath of fresh air, she laughed at the corniest joke, we ended up watching anime as she was cuddling on me in her panties and bra.

Whats the point? Younger non-jaded non-bitter women are the solution!

They are the worst (not sure how old you are), just no way to connect with those kinds of women

 

[SW15]

You mentioned going on so many first dates.

You can’t be doing too badly then.

Incorrect. It's good to be getting first dates but bad if these first dates aren't resulting in sex and/or second dates. A lot of time and money gets wasted that way.

 

[Solomon]

They are the worst (not sure how old you are), just no way to connect with those kinds of women

This sounds like a limited belief I recently had as well
However this chick likes anime (which I do), we have the same sense of humor, we both like to work out and she is very mature for her age also giving her profession (a mortgage loan banker)

Not every 21 year old is an immature little girl

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You mentioned going on so many first dates.

You can’t be doing too badly then.

Unless they don't turn into second dates.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

just no way to connect with those kinds of women

Just because you don't see a way, doesn't mean there isn't one.

 

[BaronOfHair]

What I'm realising more and more that pretty much all single women in their mid to late 20's and even many early 30's are so incredibly self-centered that even trying to date them feels like they have no interest in anything but whatever they are into (if into anything). How do we navigate this environment when the vast majority of women are like that?

By recognizing that to be human is to be fairly self-centered. As long as women are humans, just like us, that's the way it's going to stay

 

[Gamisch]

As I keep saying: gotta know your bracket like the back of your hand!

Gotta know what types fall for you. Ofcourse you like_ fill in type of hot woman_ but that shouldn't be leading. What should decide your decision-making is what type of woman will realize you are one of a fecking kind and it's now or never. Because the NEXT type like her will/might ALSO try to tie you down. Within YOUR bracket there should be fierce competition among those type of women about a man like you.

Make the game as easy as possible. Women are what they are : a BYPRODUCT. Something beautiful that nature or God created like trees, waterfalls and tigers.

Don't let them determine who you are bro.

 

[Clockwerk50]

All of us have narcissistic tendencies. We are primarily concerned with our own image, bodies, tastes, opinions, and experiences. People are often deeply in love with themselves, and to protect their self-esteem from being affected by others' differences and habits, they build a protective shell around themselves.

To break through this barrier, you need to address their insecurities and lower their defenses. This can be achieved by mirroring their behavior, adapting to their moods, and aligning with their tastes. By doing so, they will feel more at ease. Once this initial connection is established, which is likely to happen on the first date, you can then gradually shift the dynamic, leading them into your world, moods, and perspectives.

 

[user252009]

Love the replies, thanks for making this a great thread, everybody