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Next time do the opposite. Kick it up a notch. I've put on 8kg since I've been with my girlfriend. Nothing better than getting more in shape and having more women interested in you while you're in a relationship. It's just external validation that you're worthy, gives you clarity in your LTR. I...

You gotta let 'em win sometimes as well. Haha.

I've found going back and forth can be really appealing. Be very stern then soften once you've made your point. Admit you might have made a mountain of a molehill but that certain principles are important to you.

Sh1t tests are just a woman testing your frame. Can she easily control you? Are you weak? Are you lying? Live an honest life and don't let a woman push your buttons and you're fine. It doesn't need to be this big ordeal or be over thought. Just say no if a woman is starting to take advantage of...

You should be wrapping it with any woman you don't want kids with, period. Don't do that again.

Never stick your d1ck in crazy.

Don't over think texting. Just organize a time and place to meet efficiently in the one message chain. Don't confirm the date on the day or before if the woman hasn't flaked on you before. They get one chance. If they do not contact you and don't show up, you next them. If they contact you to...

Absolutely. I think alpha/beta are the simplest way to phrase things around here so I tend to apply them liberally. But you are 100% correct. Being a good person does not make you beta. Although being a good person does appeal to a woman's hypergamous need for comfort, in that sense it plays...

Re-read this.

Yes, you can (and if you want an LTR, should) be a healthy blend of alpha/beta. Put your foot down on boundaries and things that matter but be "off duty" when there is no need to be assertive. Guys who are needlessly assertive all the time about everything won't be able to keep a woman happy...

Looks matter if you think they do. Fix your god damn mindset. Stop obsessing over things you can't change. You've done what you can, now focus on working with what you have. Google cognitive behavioral therapy and start practicing it. I'm not as good looking as you and I've dated hot doctors I...

Sexy is classy. I wouldn't want to be seen with a trashy girl.

My girlfriend doesn't even wear low cut tops because "those are for you". Those women are hard to find but sounds like your girlfriend is the other end of the spectrum. Not sure about trying to control her clothing but I'd think about your choice in women. I don't think there's anything...

Rape might be worse than murder. I'd rather be dead than subject to a life of torment. Rape is an awful crime. We should lynch actual rapists, but only with undeniable evidence.

I think those stats are rapidly changing. Kavanaugh is a prime example of how accusations are now enough to rally thousands of people to derail a man based on one woman's accusations. Aziz Ansari was another one. If the woman hadn't basically explained how she thought a bad date was sexual...

Get off social media, find women who aren't addicted to social media. My girlfriend almost never uses Facebook, has an instagram for art, doesn't post selfies, etc. They do exist. As for being noise, who cares? I live my life for myself and do the best for others second. If someone considers me...

Woman sleeps with man before in a relationship. Complains man sleeps with her but won't be in a relationship. Wonder what the possible solution could be? Stop sleeping around? Oh but then that's slut shaming women! Women should be allowed to sleep around! Okay then, so should men? No, they're...

Been with my girl for nearly a year and our first three dates we went dutch. I've had women pay for me on dates and they have remained interested. I don't pay for dates until I know it's a good investment. Agree on the rest though.

Stop paying for dates or stop paying for expensive dates. When I was on Tinder I'd never pay for a first date. Why should I? If it makes it to 3rd or 4th date territory and she's actually interested and worth the investment then consider a moderate date that you pay for. Expensive dates are for...

Text as little as possible. Early on use it only to set up dates. Later on, use it sparingly. You should be busy when you're not with your woman. You're on your purpose, enjoying hobbies or with the boys. You don't have time to sit around chatting for more than twenty minutes and definitely not...