Just broke up a few hours ago

[DEEZEDBRAH]

More like Disneyland..but he is young he still believes in love and is stary eyed …....I sentence this man to reading every one of @da dynamically posts 10 times...case closed !

This is what gets men stuck at middle age, divorced provider male cuck, and atm.

Huge RMG fan but, the panel all seem butt hurt besides Cortez (who isn't a regular) and the pimping black guy, Donovan Sharp. Rich and Rollo both seem to carry a chip on their shoulder. It's a by product of having lived a life and seen some chit.

I recognise the genius but, I see coaching more so then actually pulling baeeeeee. Donovan Sharp called pickup a full time job. He's correct. Still, 99% of men have pathetic game and a miniscule percentile can approach day or night with being inebriated.


Op needs to man up. Transcend his place of being or he's road kill. Similarly, I was disillusioned at 18. I broke up with a girl acknowledging the delusion and bpd that is a significant amount of women.

There's no end to game. Yes, men checkout never reaching the level of greatness they're capable of. The thing is, pursuing something worthy of the chance is key. Women aren't ideal. I can count on one hand the awesome women I've encountered in my life. None of them I would marry.

Swearing away current and future earnings plus sexual access?

Only a retard would.

 

[corrector]

Nah, she was just a very nice person overall, hard to find good girls these days, that's what's making me even more sad.

Yes, but if she was a very nice person then she wouldn't have broken up with you or there would be no break-up. Doesn't the break-up invalidate or undermine the previous relationship and her representation to you within that relationship. (i.e. if she said she loved you in that relationship, after break-up, that representation of herself saying "she loves you" is false, therefore that makes her a liar and she can't be a good person, because if that were true, then a break-up would not have existed).

Why it is difficult for me to move-on in past break-ups/divorces is because her "representation" or the emotional constructs still continue on past the break-up and replay in the mind, sometimes going as far as visiting places we were in a blissful state together as though the energy of our selves are somehow etched into the chairs or places and stuck in time for eternity. However, as more time passes by, the less it has meant to me. I can go to the same places now and almost feel like nothing. It's like a ship going light-speed and abruptly stopping while you are still going forward, although, paradoxically, all of these representations and contracts are logically false. There is going to have to be a period of adjustment when the new reality settles in and the old reality fizzles out.

 

[ohrein]

Im getting back to the gym this week, for reasons unknown to me i quit as soon as i got into a relationship.

Next time do the opposite. Kick it up a notch. I've put on 8kg since I've been with my girlfriend. Nothing better than getting more in shape and having more women interested in you while you're in a relationship. It's just external validation that you're worthy, gives you clarity in your LTR. I am damn happy with my girlfriend but I'd be okay if she broke up with me. Be sad for a while and just move on.

 

[djthiago1]

(i.e. if she said she loved you in that relationship, after break-up, that representation of herself saying "she loves you" is false, therefore that makes her a liar and she can't be a good person, because if that were true, then a break-up would not have existed).

This was a punch straight to my balls.

 

[soulforge]

Im getting back to the gym this week, for reasons unknown to me i quit as soon as i got into a relationship.

How old are. You Bruv?

Look at it this way.. You have survived on this good green earth, all these years WITHOUT her..

She was in your life 6-7 months? You have managed to live, breath, smile for all these years, and you will continue to survive for many many years to come!

You don't NEED her.. Life goes on.. She was just a brief chapter in your life.. Many more chapters to be written.

Now go do some fukin squats!

 

[soulforge]

Im getting back to the gym this week, for reasons unknown to me i quit as soon as i got into a relationship.

Never quit training for a chick.. YOU should be training for yourself and self improvement.. Woman come and go man!

I don't think I have ever quit a day of training over a woman.. Infact breakups push me even harder in the gym!

 

[ubercat]

Mate. Your young so your feels r strong. Look at it this way in 10 years time she would be the wrong girl for you. Because you want at least a 10 year age gap when you settle down

 

[wifehunter]

She probably met someone, or else would have made an effort to work on things.

So don't feel bad if you find yourself chatting up a HB9 tomorrow.

 

[marmel75]

Yes, but if she was a very nice person then she wouldn't have broken up with you or there would be no break-up. Doesn't the break-up invalidate or undermine the previous relationship and her representation to you within that relationship. (i.e. if she said she loved you in that relationship, after break-up, that representation of herself saying "she loves you" is false, therefore that makes her a liar and she can't be a good person, because if that were true, then a break-up would not have existed).

Why it is difficult for me to move-on in past break-ups/divorces is because her "representation" or the emotional constructs still continue on past the break-up and replay in the mind, sometimes going as far as visiting places we were in a blissful state together as though the energy of our selves are somehow etched into the chairs or places and stuck in time for eternity. However, as more time passes by, the less it has meant to me. I can go to the same places now and almost feel like nothing. It's like a ship going light-speed and abruptly stopping while you are still going forward, although, paradoxically, all of these representations and contracts are logically false. There is going to have to be a period of adjustment when the new reality settles in and the old reality fizzles out.

What does her being a nice person have to do with breaking up with someone? Nothing at all.

So if you dont see things progressing or don't think things are going anywhere long term because you are nice you are just supposed to stay with the person forever?

A very immature view of how things work in relationships.

 

[corrector]

What does her being a nice person have to do with breaking up with someone? Nothing at all.

So if you dont see things progressing or don't think things are going anywhere long term because you are nice you are just supposed to stay with the person forever?

A very immature view of how things work in relationships.

I don't think the OP things that his ex is nice. I do not think that my ex-es are nice in hindsight. But then again, my relationships didn't last more than 9 months and come apart after the first conflict. I think breaking up over nonsense because it's easier to find someone else than to deal with conflicts is immature. This is how women operate.

 

[marmel75]

I don't think the OP things that his ex is nice. I do not think that my ex-es are nice in hindsight. But then again, my relationships didn't last more than 9 months and come apart after the first conflict. I think breaking up over nonsense because it's easier to find someone else than to deal with conflicts is immature. This is how women operate.

If all your relationships come apart after the first conflict the only common denominator in this problem is YOU.

 

[djthiago1]

Today i caught my ex and another girl i had dumped before her chatting. That was very unexpected

 

[Spaz]

Today i caught my ex and another girl i had dumped before her chatting. That was very unexpected

U must be a very naughty boy....

Keep up the good work !

 

[Spaz]

If all your relationships come apart after the first conflict the only common denominator in this problem is YOU.

@corrector u hv been a naughty boy too...

R u travelling with the women hating club ?

 

[djthiago1]

U must be a very naughty boy....

Keep up the good work !

Haha why do you say that?

 

[Spaz]

Haha why do you say that?

Doesn't matter if it's good or bad.

Either way, they r affected by you....

U hv trained those girls.

All those other men after you will benefit from you training them 1st.

You did good. You should be proud. Their future boyfriends/husbands should be thanking you, don't you think so ?

 

[Blacksheep]

Embrace your pain and face it. Don't try to run away of that feeling. Understand your pain and use it as an opportunity for growth.

It's important to allow yourself to feel that. If you try to repress it you may go for destructive behaviors like drinking much alcohol or doing something stupid.

That's life man, **** happens... the only thing you can change is how you react about those ****s. The answer and your freedom are inside you.

 

[Red Legg]

Embrace your pain and face it. Don't try to run away of that feeling. Understand your pain and use it as an opportunity for growth.

It's important to allow yourself to feel that. If you try to repress it you may go for destructive behaviors like drinking much alcohol or doing something stupid.

That's life man, **** happens... the only thing you can change is how you react about those ****s. The answer and your freedom is inside you.

Like Pook said....we are humans we have feelings...DO NOT surpress them.....whovever said that having feelings is weakness is full of macho bullsh!t …….Real men have feelings.I would rather experience feelings than be a fvcking robot,that's one of the major reasons I am in the game.The trick is to control your emotions.Most of the time I can,the times I cannot are ok as well because I always learn something about myself during the process.

 

[Blacksheep]

Like Pook said....we are humans we have feelings...DO NOT surpress them.....whovever said that having feelings is weakness is full of macho bullsh!t …….Real men have feelings.I would rather experience feelings than be a fvcking robot,that's one of the major reasons I am in the game.The trick is to control your emotions.Most of the time I can,the times I cannot are ok as well because I always learn something about myself during the process.

That's it man!! Good point!

 

[djthiago1]

Doesn't matter if it's good or bad.

Either way, they r affected by you....

U hv trained those girls.

All those other men after you will benefit from you training them 1st.

You did good. You should be proud. Their future boyfriends/husbands should be thanking you, don't you think so ?

I'll be honest man, i always play therapists with these girls, every woman i come across i have to end up fixing somehow.

About time i find myself someone who's mentally intact.