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    I'm burned out from women. No choice except to focus 100% on myself. (Growth Journal, Log 6 of ∞)

    You sound like me. I took a couple of years off looking for women. Was still open to them and so I did end up seeing a few, but I kept it very casual and focused on myself. If you're worrying about mistakes and getting ghosted then your mindset is still off. When I did get back into Tinder, it...
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    Bad game to straight up call a girl cute?

    Men are not the same as women.
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    Bad game to straight up call a girl cute?

    Generic compliments are boring, especially to attractive women who hear it all day. If you want to compliment, be specific and try to point out something she's put effort into. Hair looks good, dress shows off curves, pants make her ass pop. Can still be sexual but make it specific and to...
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    I found a unicorn or did I ?

    Cut your losses. She's already set up an excuse to cheat on you. This one screams crazy. Run don't walk.
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    What advice would you give here?

    He needs the advice, not her. She's going to follow hypergamy and it sounds like he's not satisfying the alpha nor beta side of things on that front. They call it the seven year itch and it's a common breaking point for relationships. I would stay friends with her but keep it strictly platonic...
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    Contradictions in Game Material?

    There are no paradoxes because none of this is binary. I think most timeline rules are for beginners to force them into action. Once you've mastered the basics, you just do things at your leisure. Once you've experienced abundance you stop caring completely about the rules. I broke most of them...
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    Women Can't Look Me in the Eye

    Yeah I made this mistake early on during game. Sometimes lack of eye contact is a sign they're really attracted to you or might have some social anxieties. My girlfriend would get flustered and nervous and struggle to hold eye contact months into dating. She's much more confident with me now...
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    One night stand during breakup told my girlfriend

    You can approach these issues and do both. You can listen and understand a woman, reassure her that you care about her and yet, not apologize and stay firm that you did nothing wrong. I have these conversations with my girlfriend from time to time. "I'm sorry you're upset that I saw someone...
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    Newly joined after reading "The Rational Male"

    Welcome. The Book of Pook is the king in my mind because it's all about internal game. Self-mastery is the most important part of this journey. Shedding as much conditioning and insecurity as possible. You want to build yourself up every day from day one. First you get the power of self, then...
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    I've noticed hot (not beautiful) women ignore my dog

    True. I did talk about fear of larger dogs in one of my replies. But if it was fear of big dogs you should see mixed responses from a demographic, for the most part. As I said, in my (admittedly limited) data set, it's 100% of this demographic of women.
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    Made an embarrassing approach and pissed at myself

    You approached which is good. Don't let the bad experiences stop you from doing that. I'm also impressed that you gauged her reaction (seemingly accurately!) before approaching. This is something a lot of guys miss. Anyway, don't beat yourself up. Building up confidence takes time. I think if...
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    advice column: Am I Settling if I Marry My Best Friend I’m Not Attracted To?

    You're on the money as usual. I see this exact situation all the time to varying degrees. Hell, I have a female friend doing exactly this right now. Myself, my girlfriend and some other friends all agree there's an underlying weird vibe to their relationship and that the guy, while seeming like...
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    I've noticed hot (not beautiful) women ignore my dog

    Hahaha, fair. No, seriously. I've been a dog person my whole life. I'm the type of guy who annoys owners of certain breeds because I love dogs. This dog is seriously magic. If I ended up single, I'd EASILY be able to get girls numbers walking this dog. A month ago I got stopped by THREE really...
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    I've noticed hot (not beautiful) women ignore my dog

    Nah, not at all. It's more an overall vibe. Even people who steer clear of her for whatever reasons still smile and say she's a beautiful dog. Haha, it's not like that. More, demographics. These aren't women I'm interested in anyway, they tend to be high maintenance and vain. I've dated a...
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    I've noticed hot (not beautiful) women ignore my dog

    That's fine, but even people dressed nicely smile and say how beautiful she is. I always keep her on a short leash until people want to get near her. These women so far universally just aren't enthused by her at all. It's just weird to me. I'd understand if it was a normal boring dog but it's...
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    Does eating pvssy make you grow a beard faster?

    You are what you eat.
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    I've noticed hot (not beautiful) women ignore my dog

    I walk a dog almost every day that is absolutely beautiful. I've never had a dog that so many people from all demographics just melt for. I get stopped constantly, which I encourage because my dog loves people, and a good third of people who see her walking look at her and smile. People thank me...
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    NC, IDGAF, Scarcity in Attention When Treated Poorly

    I think the core values do work to keep women though. Be the man, lead, stay on your mission. Make your world a place women want to come into and keep working on that world. Yes, exactly. If anything, use the two concepts as emotional rides. Be stern then soft. Shows you have a backbone but...
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    I used to think it didn’t matter what you drove

    I think we all need to embrace a little bit of darkness and backbone from time to time. There are people who will take advantage of you otherwise. That said, I prefer to focus on what is in my control which is my power. No one can take that away from me. External control and influence is fleeting.
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    I used to think it didn’t matter what you drove

    Tyrannical power or internal power?
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