Women Can't Look Me in the Eye

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If I check a woman out, she always stares back. However, she does not meet my eyes. She only stares in my direction with her eyes down.

This is true for most young, attractive women I meet. The odd thing is, this happens even if I've talked to the girl before, so even seeing her a second or third time, she still acts like this. Very shy and submissive. Is this a good thing? I like sexy, direct eye contact too. But I also like the shy, submissive girl as well.
 

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If I check a woman out, she always stares back. However, she does not meet my eyes. She only stares in my direction with her eyes down.

This is true for most young, attractive women I meet. The odd thing is, this happens even if I've talked to the girl before, so even seeing her a second or third time, she still acts like this. Very shy and submissive. Is this a good thing? I like sexy, direct eye contact too. But I also like the shy, submissive girl as well.
Now adays its not fear. Its disrespect. They can disrespect you and still fvck.
 

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Women naturally avoid prolonging eye contact with a man in most contexts, for a variety of reasons. There are the rare ones who can hold eye contact quite well, but they are the vast minority.

Every woman is different. Some women will hold a gaze much longer than usual if they are interested and find a man attractive, whereas some women have even more trouble than usual holding eye contact with men when they like them or find them attractive.

Eye contact from a woman can be quite ambiguous, you have to know her baseline behaviour to accurately discern whether any deviation is a sign of interest or not.

The important part is YOU are able to hold eye contact to signal your confidence (obviously not to the point of being a creep).
 

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Women naturally avoid prolonging eye contact with a man in most contexts, for a variety of reasons. There are the rare ones who can hold eye contact quite well, but they are the vast minority.

Every woman is different. Some women will hold a gaze much longer than usual if they are interested and find a man attractive, whereas some women have even more trouble than usual holding eye contact with men when they like them or find them attractive.

Eye contact from a woman can be quite ambiguous, you have to know her baseline behaviour to accurately discern whether any deviation is a sign of interest or not.

The important part is YOU are able to hold eye contact to signal your confidence (obviously not to the point of being a creep).
Yeah I made this mistake early on during game. Sometimes lack of eye contact is a sign they're really attracted to you or might have some social anxieties. My girlfriend would get flustered and nervous and struggle to hold eye contact months into dating. She's much more confident with me now, but younger me might have misread the situation.
 
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