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    WTF Tinder

    I'm like a 6/7, had terrible photos on Tinder, yet was averaging ten matches and one date a month while barely using it. My dates were with doctors, nurses, professionals and some artsy types. Met my girlfriend on Tinder and she's beautiful. Tinder is not that bad. I've used a top 5% guys Tinder...
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    Was this beta bait or **** test?

    Yeah, that's not a great line. It sounds like it wasn't congruent with your other interactions. I've said it a lot but texting really should be short and to the point. So much context is lost. Your response was also terrible. Next time, just put the "playa" personality on the back burner. Most...
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    Girlfriend wanted to go to Amsterdam.

    All women sh1t test. Consciously and subconsciously. They admit it if you ask them the right way. Also, am I the only one who thinks international travel alone when you're in a relationship is a clear sign of waning interest and/or disrespect? Why on earth would you not want to travel with the...
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    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    You do something because it's right and nothing more. It doesn't matter if someone appreciates it or not. I don't think morals means low value at all, in fact, like attracts like. The type of women who will smile and cuddle up to you when they see you open a door for an older person are the...
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    FRAME

    Frame is simply your values and expectations. For example, a value I have is honesty. An expectation is that the people I deal with are honest. You do not adhere to my frame, you do not get to be a part of my life. If a woman I'm dating is dishonest with me, let's say I find out she's been...
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    So quick question

    Yes! I did a couple of years and it was well worth it. You come out with clarity, higher self worth, higher SMV. Build a life you love before you invite women into it.
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    So quick question

    From what I've heard, the reputable number is 0.84g per lb of bodyweight. This number is conservative, meaning it's actually probably lower. 1g per lb is what I aim for though as there's no harm in extra, just understand it's not really doing anything in terms of muscle growth. I've consistently...
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    Fat, tatted chick on cover of Cosmopolitan!

    Great business and PR move, can't fault them for that. Probably record selling edition. Doesn't mean a lot for us here. As for the cover itself, if it comes up in conversation I always say the same thing. "If it's unhealthy to promote underweight women as an ideal, it's unhealthy to promote...
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    Amazing

    I was talking to my friend whose ex recently moved on about this. Women aren't loyal. Your best weapon is indifference and understanding that you age better than them. You can always pick up the weights and get a younger women, right into your fifties. Women at thirty are on the downward. So...
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    Attachment Theory

    As someone who has changed dramatically, you are wrong. People often don't change, but they are very capable of it. Regarding attachment styles specifically, people can change. The literature shows that over years if an anxious/avoidant pair bonds with a secure person, they slowly change styles...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    Women like leaders. Women in high status jobs even more so. She'll appreciate a man making the decisions. If that's not the case, she'll let you know. She'll probably drop hints about future dates if things continue to go well. "Oh I saw this bar here that has ice sculptures blah blah", then you...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    I mean I get your point and I don't think you're wrong at all. I guess you have expectations above mine and that's fine. She might be dissing him but to me it just sounds like she's wary which I think is sensible. She's still agreeing to go out so obviously she doesn't really think he's a serial...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    That's a great c0cky/funny line, but I think it's completely reasonable for women to be cautious of their house. It's not a sh1t test, it's just being smart. As a guy when I was dating on Tinder I never had houses involved until after three dates. My housemate ended up having to call the cops on...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    I said it in another thread and I think it's a mantra I will be repeating. When you do something is less important than deciding should you do it. Focus on whether she's likely to reciprocate, on the night, rather than how many dates it should happen in. You should also be physically escalating...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    I mean you are the person who has the most information but she sounds like she was just being friendly, and is a friendly person. Women can feel trapped when approached by guys, particularly built guys. They have to be cordial, it's their defense mechanism. So you have to decide if she was being...
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    This one needs to be immortalized on the red pill wall for its simplicity and truth.
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    I've never had a woman entertain another guy. I'd walk out and ghost her without a word. As for if a guy is hitting on your date/girlfriend I just ignore it. Unless she's getting touched or intimidated the women I date can handle themselves without me making it worse.
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    Recognizing sh!t tests. Date last night.

    Glad the other guy moved on. I've had a few sketchy moments like that where dudes have tried to be physically intimidating. I had one pull a chair away as I was going to sit at a bar with a girl. I swapped my chair for hers and grabbed another one without a pause, but the dude continued to stare...
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    Childish games? Or busy?

    Women worth dating who are interested don't make it confusing. If she isn't going out on a date with you, find a woman who will.
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    The key to grace, game and an attractive personality is dominance

    Like anything, you can take it too far. If you make "dominance" your virtue, then you will reap what you sow. Tyrannical leaders have not done well in the long run historically. I prefer to be the kind king rather than the tyrannical king. I don't tolerate disrespect, but I treat people with...
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