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Those are called false equivalencies. Each one deserves its own analysis. I said "What kind of woman would give a fvck about you driving a Mercedes?". If everything else is constant, and you're not doing well with women, then you buy a Mercedes and suddenly you get attention. What type of...

I'd probably hit on you if you had a nice charger. Not saying you won't get female attention, just saying it might not be the attention you want. The kind of women who are looking for some free stuff. The princesses. But if that's your thing, go for it.

Screen harder. That said, good women are hard to find and they're all a little crazy, psychologically speaking. They're a few deviations higher in neuroticism (emotional stability) than men on the big five personality test.

I think my advice is more rooted in pragmatism. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take and there's no harm or repercussions for getting shot down by a woman, with some exceptions like being coworkers etc. It's kind of like Dave's mental problems but to a lesser degree. You can only get better...

It seems to be true on average if I think over the hundreds of couples I've known in my life. Not saying I am right but I think I am. If I was to rank the "health" of relationships I've observed I'd say 1. Great guy (alpha & beta) - Super devoted and high quality partners. They seem to adore...

Like attracts like. What kind of women give a fvck if a guy drives a Mercedes? Not saying most women won't be somewhat impressed as ambition and success are attractive. But if driving a nice car has suddenly given you dramatic improvements, it might say more about you or the women you're...

I'm yet to hear evidence to the contrary. Not saying it can't happen, but I've not heard of it. Most of my beta friends end up with higher quality women than my alpha friends. The problem is they end up having relationship issues later on. But the psycho girls stay well away from beta guys, on...

Your mindset is not fine because you believe you are lesser than others. And if you mean a 9 purely physically then you're definitely way off. You're the worst person to objectively rank your value and that value is subjective anyway. There's not a woman on earth who is "out of my league"...

Here are the two things I was doing wrong in this respect. Number one is too alpha. If you're too aloof, too mean, too cool, you're going to put off emotionally healthy women. I think some of you disagree with this but over my fifteen years of learning game, this is undeniable fact to me. If you...

This is your problem. Mindset is EVERYTHING. If you've been with a 9 before, you can do it again. I treat women like weights. Once I've lifted a certain quality of woman, I know I can do it again, so I go heavier (metaphorically). Every girlfriend I've had has been progressively better looking...

The sex is always going to drop off over time. I lose interest in sex over time in LTR's. It's a classic supply/demand issue. When you can have sex every day, it lowers the value of it. The best sex with my girlfriend is almost always after we have some time apart, although that's difficult when...

Internal game. Don't ever think you can lock a woman down, no matter what you do. The goal is to be self sufficient, cultivate a personality and a body that is your best self, one that is undeniable to women, not for them, but for you. Understand abundance and truly internalize it. People can be...

The answer is still CBT. You have negative thought patterns that you have constructed over the years. CBT reprograms negative thought patterns. All mental illness essentially boils down to negative perceptions and negative thoughts impacting your life in a negative way. CBT retrains your brain...

My dog seems pretty chuffed when she goes back and eats her vomit.

You are wasting your life quite literally. As someone who has struggled with depression and anxiety in the past, it's time to make an active change. Go see a psych, get them to teach you cognitive behavioral therapy, and put in the work every minute of every day for the next two years and you...

For real. I see posts sometimes with guys saying they have no motivation. I do not understand. I can't wait to hit the weights week after week after week. It's a phenomenal feeling both short and long term. Watching the numbers go up as you achieve more and more, watching your body shape into a...

Which is why you need to be more than a wallet or a set of abs. Game is paramount if you want a chance in hell of mitigating a woman's hypergamy.

You should always be spinning plates unless you're exclusive. You need to get to a place where you understand abundance. If you're still worried about this one woman, you're not ready to date one woman. Women aren't all that different and special. My girlfriend is great, she's a catch. But...

Doesn't matter. I like driving and my girl doesn't so that's an easy solution. But I also lost my license for a while due to stupid behavior in the past. My girlfriend drove us around a lot and it had zero impact on her attraction to me. The mindset is more important.

Just focus on being an authentic person. Don't confuse this with being yourself, you can always be better than you are. Be authentic. "of undisputed origin and not a copy; genuine." If you're a nice person, be a nice person. But be a nice person because that's what you are, not being you're...