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You're getting about the same amount of value as you would by going to the gym and looking at the weights and thinking about lifting weights. Lol. Even if you went to the gym and could only lift the bar, you'd get infinitely more value out of that than you would by watching other people lift...

How hard is it just to tell your girl upfront that she's super awesome and you love your chemistry but you're a guy who has needs and you've tried the whole monogamy thing before but it's really not for you? Most girls are down as long as you establish some ground rules, keep things discreet...

It comes down to the fact that once you have high value for a girl and are already generating a lot of attraction, comfort and attainability become increasingly important. The more value you’re displaying through your vibe, subcomms, and outcome independence, the more trying to build additional...

Props for taking action. Most guys will never approach 2 hot girls EVER in their whole life—no matter how much they beat their chests online. That’s good stuff. Beats walking past them, huh? In the future, when you feel yourself b1thcing out, focus on your feet. Move them towards the girl. Once...

Come on my man, I told you what to say if you can't think of anything else lol. But even if you can't remember those, it's not an excuse not to approach. Just walk in and say anything--I don't care how awkward it is or even if the girls run away, it's a step in the right direction. It's more...

Yup yup. It's why you should never based your self-worth on the reactions of women. Even if you pull the baddest chick you've seen in your life and she's all about you, all it means is that your behavior triggered that response from her. It doesn't make you particularly special--and if that's...

You still have time--and that's your most precious resource. If you start putting in the work, you should be able to have a pretty good handle on this part of your life by the time you're in your early/mid 40s--plenty of time to enjoy girls in their 20s and 30s. But remember, you're going up...

Women backwards rationalize their decision to sleep with a guy. When she fvcks another dude, a few things happen: The other man rises in value (after all, he must be high value if she decided to fvck him). The man she's already committed to lowers in value (if he was high value, she wouldn't...

Worrying about this type of thing is a complete waste of time and energy, not to mention it will actually sabotage your results with women. Girls will do almost anything as long as you can keep things fun and remove the fear of judgment or negative social repercussions. This isn't because of...

Hell ya bro. These situations happen when you’re putting in the work and have your vibe on point. Don’t let it go to your head tho. It’s easy to get complacent and feel like it should always be that easy, but really they’re just a bonus the game throws your way for putting in the work. Also...

That's flash game lol. Getting a phone # =/= ever seeing a girl again. So, sure, it looks cool to just hand a girl your phone and all the guys around you will think you're a mega pimp buuut you'll never here from that girl again unless all times of factors outside your control magically align...

Made liberal use of "most," "often," and "usually." There's nothing wrong with being successful or enjoying the fruits of your labor. And there are ways to disqualify yourself from being a provider like obviously being a player or letting girls know you're a free spirit or telling them you have...

Spot on. I always tell guys that actually getting the results you want is never as exciting or rewarding as the process it takes to get those results. My first year or two learning this stuff were epic lol--eventually it becomes routine and you have to find new ways to grow, to stimulate and...

1.) "Successful" guys are usually that way out of insecurity (gotta impress my parents!) and sexual neediness (gotta drive a Beamer to get laid!). The ones who flaunt that success or base their internal value on it, even more so. It's very rare that they're acting out their own purpose; more...

The best way to get over it is to desensitize yourself through repetition and to work on constantly pushing your comfort zone. So, today you said, “Hey.” Thats a smart. Tomorrow say, “Hey. Excuse me. One sec. You looked interesting and I wanted you to meet me.” Baby steps and building on...

What makes YOU laugh? If you go up to a girl needing her to react a certain way, you've already given up the frame. You're already trying to qualify yourself. Instead, focus on expressing YOURSELF and making the interaction fun and engaging for YOU, and she'll fall into that frame. Most of the...

Super lame lol. As a man, NEVER apologize for your desires. You’re gonna try to save face cause some little girl doesn’t like you? She doesn’t even know you, bro. Rejection is part of being a man. Failure is part of being a man. The only thing that matters is how you bounce back. Stop trying to...

Lol. This is just flat out wrong. If you're living in the western world (and probably most everywhere else these days), you can pretty much assume that every girl you meet has fvcked a guy she just met/will fvck a guy she just met/or would be open to it in the right circumstances with the right...

This isn't bad game. It won't work for every girl in every situation, but he's showing intent, entitlement, and he probably doesn't cave when he gets pushback. Just because it doesn't "logically" make sense based on your value system and social beliefs, doesn't mean girls won't respond to it...

You're ego got in the way, but you already know that. First a breakdown of your interaction (my commentary is in bold), then we'll get into mindsets. So you blew it here, but girls are doing you a favor when they sh1t test you. They are shining a light on where your insecurities are, and once...