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Yeah, it won’t be easy. Definitely not minimizing the emotional impact of going through something like that--and letting go of something that you invested that much time & emotion into is not going to be easy. And I don’t have that point of reference; a divorce with kids and stuff isn’t...

2 Scenarios: From what you say, you're the top dog. She sensed a chance to crack your frame a little & took it. And it worked, because here you are thinking about it later. The moment you genuinely stop caring what other people think is the moment they stop trying to influence you & start...

I think it really depends on where you're starting. If you don't have a circle of 5 or 6 male friends that you trust 100%, who hold you accountable, and who you can have a good time with, that should be your priority #1. I've been super lucky in that regard. But then we get in a chicken and...

Secret society lol. Ya, super normal if you’re the guy she meets for drinks. As far as alcohol/consent issues. I don’t fvck drunk girls. Ever. Not so much because I’m worried about legal implications but because, where’s the sport in that? The alcohol is just plausible deniability. I’ve...

Bro, college girls don't go on dates ;) Just invite em to your dorm for a drink. If that doesn't work, keep things super casual--walk in the park, fast food, a smoothie, etc.

The good news is that once you go through it one good time, your frame is 100% rock solid. Super painful--but you learn to never prioritize someone else's experience of reality over your own ever again.

Nah, your job is to keep yourself entertained. Your happiness is YOUR responsibility. When you talk to girls, you should be saying things that make YOU laugh, that YOU think are funny or that interest YOU. As far as what you have in common, well, you both like having fun and having sex, so...

I bolded the parts of the OP I found problematic. It's not a girl's job to keep you entertained. She is there to experience you. I'll say it again: SHE IS ONLY THERE TO EXPERIENCE YOU. The quality of your interactions with a girl is a DIRECT reflection of the quality of your interaction...

That's a good way to look at things. I don't think we step out of our day-to-day often enough to really take the time to appreciate all the cool sh1t that's happened to get to this point. Usually when we measure our present against our expectations, its to focus on all the areas where we 'came...

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Totally agreed on a micro-level. In a vacuum, when you meet a girl or have frequent proximity with her, the influence of your polarity is the deciding force on the interaction & decides what version of that girl you're gonna get. Every girl has a sweet, submissive side & every girl has a cold...

Funny the amount of 'naturals' on a game forum lol. And don't get me wrong--I'm definitely not arguing that everyone is starting from the same point--some guys are naturally more aggressive, more extroverted, better looking, more risk-tolerant, etc. And good for them. But I'm arguing that...

The other night I talked on the phone with one of my buddies. We'll call him Mark. Mark is one of a handful of guys I've met my whole life who I'd consider a 'Natural.' We've known each other about 8 years; he's a couple years older than me and was really the one who showed me the ropes...

Lol. We must have a different list of TOP posters. Only couple I see in here mention some women--which is cool but not really the subset I'd prefer to allocate my time towards. 1. Why are these women specifically fvcking guys who really aren't that concerned about their orgasm to begin...

I think girls who have that complaint are, for whatever reason, with guys who they're just not all that aroused by. And, as a guy in that situation, there's not just some magic combination of move your tongue left, right, and center to change that. Also, IME most girls get off by the act of...

Of course she doesn't want you to. Think of it this way: You're a girl. You meet a guy you determine is above you to the extent that you want his genetic material for the purposes of procreation. Then this guy gets down on his hands & fvcking knees for the express purpose of pleasuring you...

Good stuff. Make sure to take a moment to internalize this knowledge: The more comfortable you can get covertly (and sometimes overtly) communicating to girls that you are seeing other girls, and subsequently holding frame, the more freedom you have to exercise your intent & the less pain you...

And I'm saying it can. I welcome every man on this thread to try both approaches and see which gets them further ;)

You can't change the past, but you can change your interpretation of it & from that interpretation you can change the emotional narrative you draw from it. And I'm not talking about suppressing anything. I'm talking about rewiring your thoughts. I got in depth on that process here...

Exactly. You already have a reason to approach them. You’re part of the same social group lol. Easy stuff, but you can’t be as uninhibited about things since it’s a closed environment & if you accidentally creep someone out it could have repercussions. I’d approach it as, I’m just a cool...