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Here it is (and all of this is from a place of love): You're very much stuck in your head & attached to your thoughts. There is value to this, but YOUR THOUGHTS ARE NOT THAT UNIQUE!!! The joy of reading fiction is that the character/authors are thinking the same thoughts you do. You're...

First of all, props for approaching. Most guys wouldn't do that--so that's a win. No matter what happens after that, you put yourself in a position to win, and if you do that often enough, winning's inevitable. Notice how you're coming in with the idea in your head that you are coming from a...

Round of applause EDIT--S/O @oldmanofthesea too--probably the best thread of 2019

I forgot about him lol. The success stories are rare, but that's because the guys that actually take the time to deal with a little rejection are rare. A lot of them take what they need and disappear, which is probably the logical thing to do with all the negativity and victim-mentality. The...

There are a couple main things I took away from both of them: Take action—actually approach Laser eye contact Tonality Cut space Lead 100% Self Belief/Frame/Congruence Self amusement Let her experience you Abundance--even if you fvck up 1000 times, there will always be more girls I like...

Strongly recommend seeing what you can learn and testing it out. I've found that a lot of it holds up. Currently rereading the Yareally archive: http://web.archive.org/web/20170708123013/http://yareallyarchive.com/2016/11/ He used to post on The Rational Male back in the day--definitely changed...

That's on YOU. There's 2 scenarios that work out on your favor: You have the emotional control to detach emotionally and keep smashing while actively pursuing other girls. You drop her and pursue other girls. Any scenario where you aren't pursuing other girls? Forget it bro. Don't catch...

A lot of guys will give me sh1t for this, but social skills >>> money. I have a pretty solid 'career'--it's temporary. I didn't begin my 'career' til I was 27 and I doubt I'll need it by the time I'm 29. But I had some background from some side projects I did when I was stumbling around in my...

Like anything else: Practice. Practice new thoughts. Practice putting yourself in new situations. Practice getting rejected. Set aside 6 mos of your life to this & you'll be on your way https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/create-your-own-confidence-how-to-be-you.233590/...

Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4. 1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you). 2. See post one (do if for you). 3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't...

Women are fun. What more could you want? Lol. Movies are pointless--you just watch it and it's over. A good meal is pointless--you eat it and it's gone. Really fun cars are usually pointless--you could get so much better MPG or reliability or whatever other metric with less overall expense...

100% this. If you were actually creepy, she wouldn't be having this convo. But you're letting your ego get in the way. Think of the subtext of you calling anonymously: She's telling you, in a way that's not totally unprofessional or slvtty, that she's thinking about you even when you aren't...

The idea that women are worthless is just compensation for men who don't believe they have value. It's like, what's easier? To bring someone else down or to build yourself up? That said, it's useful to have mental tools to avoid putting girls on a pedestal--since our natural biology will tend...

What percentage of engineers do you think become engineers because it is what they authentically want to do, versus become engineers because they think it will give them value based on what their parents, teachers, and society tells them? Having hung out with plenty of STEM/IT types, I'd guess...

Sad to see guys disregarding something that could potentially drastically improve their lives because they're afraid of 'effort' or 'rejection.' Game is really fvcking simple: Believing you have value independent of the approval of women, and presenting yourself accordingly. The belief...

There are two types of behavior that are 'creepy': Behavior that conveys you aren't socially aware to the possibility of rejection (not sensitive enough to rejection) Behavior that you do to mitigate the possibility of rejection (too sensitive to rejection) Shooting your shot with a girl you...

Came in to post this. Hit on the friends. She'll be aroused and I promise it won't happen again ;) Or just tell her you're tired & don't feel like being around her friends but would like to get to know her better 1 on 1. But in a take it or leave it way, not whiny like most guys in this...

No. The 'testing' never stops. However, if you're registering them as 'tests,' instead of just normal 'flirting,' then that means that you're probably failing a sh1tload of tests along the way to get to that point. Most forms of testing we experience in life get easier if you fail to pass them...

Just skip the kiss and get her home. Also disqualify yourself from being bf material hard. Two different sets of rules for different guys. Your signal is getting mixed somewhere--might be being too much of a 'catch.' Try backing off that a little and do some harder pushes.

Bro, just fvcking cold approach. See something you want, figure out a way to get it. It’s what men evolved to do. Fvck putting on a front or making all the sacrifices you need for monogamy work for a little bit of play—unless that’s what you really, really want. Fvck being reliant on a...