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Bro, by the time you get back to your place then literally none of that stuff matters. When I was super broke, girls would be like, "OMG I love how you're such a minimalist" (and I had way less stuff than you did and lived in run down houses/apts in bad parts of town) and I'd always be thinking...

Exactly. More of a sliding scale--you're a sexual man by default BUT you're not necessarily interested in fvcking a girl just because you're talking to her. Make sense? And as far as talking about sex in set, definitely beneficial--just make sure you're being calibrated about it. For instance...

This. Flirt with every girl. Not even intentful, necessarily, but just as 1.) expressing yourself as a man and 2.) relating to girls the way they want to be related to. Also, talk about sex lol. Seriously. Like you can talk about sex topically 100% platonically. It's more interesting than 99% of...

Bump cause everything I wrote here is still 100% true

Happens to everyone AFAIK lol. A good pair of compression shorts might help (it'll at least keep things in place). Fluffing before/after might help. But mostly I'd just ignore it. Also you could try supplements to improve circulation like L-Arginine or Omega-3.

You’re wayyy overthinking this. Just go, get the lay, and lay the pipe down good enough for her to come to you next time. She’s on OLD—not like she’s gonna wait around ‘missing’ you, thinking, gee, he’s sooo high value not coming to me lol. Just show up, be cool, and if she’s not down, she...

The easy quick fixes are 1.) Eye contact (direct, relaxed) and 2.) Tonality (loud, enough, downward inflection/breaking rapport). If you get straight blown out in bars or clubs it’s usually one of those two things. You can break down high value behavior into however many categories, but an...

Right, there's less social convention to approach girls on the street or in non-sexualized zones. In a club, it's pretty much expected. Also agreed. Generally the more social pressure, the greater impression of alpha. But night game venues do give you more pieces on the board to play around...

Lol. After college--especially by your mid-to-late 20s--most guys won't have access to attractive women (and by attractive, I mean <22) through their work, through their social circle, or through OLD. That means you have a couple options--you settle for women who are past their physical prime or...

This is pure keyboard jockeying. I've approached 100s (probs 1000s?) of mixed sets--including couples on dates. When I was starting out, my motto was: Any girl, any situation (I've gotten a lot lazier the past few years unfortunately). I've never had a guy swing on me once--and I've been in...

Approach hotter women. From there, funnel harder: It seems you have a problem with keeping supbar girls around out of scarcity. There's absolutely 0 reason to keep around a girl for 2 years who's out of shape. I sort girls into 4 categories quickly: Non-starter: Out of shape, major personality...

I'm glad the narrative around this is changing. IMO "don't be friends with women" is one of those misguided, overly-dogmatic "principles" that gets thrown around places like SS. Sure, that's great advice for guys who are needy, in scarcity, who lack boundaries, and who have low social value...

Ya, this is just buyers remorse. You made a move you didn’t earn (drugs and alcohol lol) and you’re reading way too much into that situation. She probably feels guilty and confused—and while she was into it in that moment—she’s unable to reconcile it to her real life. Plus, if you fool around...

Right. This is a guy who had natural advantages and put in the work. But that’s a far cry from the boogeyman of Chad—the guy who women throw themselves at effortlessly and who has unlimited choice—that all the black pill dudes use to fuel their resentment and as an excuse not to take meaningful...

Thank you OP. The myth of Chad is perpetuated by guys who never had a seat at the cool kid’s table, who never went to the good high school and college parties, who never made it into the VIP, extrapolating what they see from the outside looking in and filling in the gaps with their imagination...

A lot of girls get mad horny on their period. They just get self-conscious about it, so just treat it like it doesn’t matter (it doesn’t) and throw down a towel. Also, meeting up with a fvck buddy 2x a week and doing activities that don’t involve the bedroom is a fast track towards the...

Haven’t seen anyone recommend intermittent fasting, but it’s been hugely helpful for me. Been doing a 4 hour window for like 9 years and it’s helped me stay lean even when my diet was trash and I wasn’t working out regularly. I do make rare exceptions for social occasions. I also think a little...

Good stuff. Can’t remember if you’ve graduated yet by now, but make sure to hold onto this mentality of socializing and creating connections with people and being open to adventure. A lot of guys get caught up in the rat race, relationships, etc. and insulate themselves. A few years of that...

Keep pushing it bro!! Forgot you're only 24--that's how old I was when I first started getting into any of this stuff--so you definitely have a head start and it's only up from here.

Cool seeing this pop up 6 years later and glad guys are still benefitting from it. Just wanted to say that for the record, still stand by this post 100%. There’s been plenty of ups and downs between then and now, but this shift in philosophy marked a major turning point for me, really in every...